Transform your average Joe boyfriend to become a high level
elegant man, simply by applying these tips.
My dear elegant ladies, welcome back to another video.
This video has been requested from those ladies who are in a relationship or
married or dating somebody. Believe it or not,
I think this video is even useful for all my single ladies.
You need to understand who it is that you're going to transform because
there are two types of men. Those who are very flexible and influential,
and those who are very rigid and set in their behavior,
and impossible to change.
So who are you dealing with in this case?
Because if you're dealing with a latter, then this is not going to work,
and you're just going to waste your time.
You're going to get a headache from this.
Probably even ruin this relationship by trying to make him become somebody he's not.
Then we have the second thing to take into account.
Does he wants to upgrade personally,
or is that just an imposed agenda that you're pushing onto him?
Because let's be fair here, if he doesn't want this,
then why are you going to try and do this?
I think it's really important that he has to want this on some level,
that he sees the value in this transformation and
that he shares somehow the interests with you.
Now let's also look at another brutal harsh reality is that the majority of men
are actually not leveled up.
Those men who have upgraded themselves are usually those who are already are
born into this world of affluence and elegance,
or those men who already have experience in this world.
Thanks to their work or social environment.
And there is a big chance that you are dating more of an average Joe,
who doesn't have any of those qualities
so of course he will not be very leveled up. But mind you,
I am not looking down at average Joes, whatsoever.
I would personally not date them, but I don't mind being friends with them.
I respect them. I just know that we are very different and that's fine.
It's fine to not want the same thing.
And that's why I'm really pushing in this video for not forcing somebody,
something that they are not up for.
Just because you want something doesn't mean that now this has to happen.
If he doesn't want to upgrade, don't force him.
But if you wants to give him a little bit of incentive than do tell him that
actually, if he is thinking about improving his career,
especially if he has the opportunity to get promoted or maybe to become an
executive of some sorts,
motivate him with the fact that his personal brand and image
is really tied to his success in his career.
Because most executives do not get that promotion if they're sloppy and if
they don't act the part.
You really have to look and act the part in business if you want to achieve
certain promotions and get certain roles and advances in life.
But this is not just in the business world,
this is how it works generally speaking.
So you could open up the discussion for it and maybe he is against it initially.
But mind you, if you talk about it in a non-pressure way,
and if you talk about the positives of it,
and if you also showcase examples of your own transformation and how much it has
benefits you in terms of your confidence, in terms of opportunities,
in terms of how you look and feel. Then maybe that will inspire him.
So let's say he is ready to rock and roll,
and he wants to do this personal upgrade.
Now what to do with him, poor guy?
First of all, let's go shopping.
You need to focus on buying things that fits his lifestyle. If he's a builder,
then there's no point going and buying him a suit. But if he has,
let's say a job that requires him to wear a suit, as an example,
then make sure you go to department store or somebody who specialize in suits.
There stores for that,
and really get a high quality suit for him.
Not some cheap stuff that you can get for 100-200 bucks,
but you want to maybe spend around a thousand,
at least on a suit or maybe $2000.
And it really does show in the man's clothes when they're really well made,
even go to a tailor as well. Get a tailor-made.
The good thing with shopping for men is that you don't have to buy a lot of things
because men pretty much wear the same thing all the time.
And their clothes are very simple.
You can buy a lot of separates as his casual clothes and then just mix and match
You buy a few nice trousers or in shorts,
and then you buy some tops and shirts and that's it. They're good to go.
But there are of course,
many channels that specialize in men's fashion and so on.
So you can actually do a bit of more research if you want some specific advice,
how to dress him elegantly.
By the way, just like a disclaimer.
When I say go shopping with him, I mean go shopping with him,
but he's still paying for this just like a quick FYI.
Now let's cultivate him a little bit because your average Joe,
he needs to have a bit of culture. Culture seeds planted in his head like this.
So we need to go to art openings. We need to go to museums, to theater,
to the opera house with him. And he might think that it's incredibly boring,
but you can always make it as a fun couple activity out of it.
And if he's really against it, tell him to keep an open mind and give it a shot.
If he really hates it, you don't have to do it again, but at least try it out.
It will really cultivate him.
And it will really open up the opportunity for him to carry conversations
with his coworkers in the future or at social events,
if he is well educated. Because I'm sorry to say,
but the word bimbo does not only apply to women.
It actually applies to men too. Haven't we all come across men,
the only thing that they care about is football and beer? I mean, I'm sorry,
but what kind of intelligent conversations are you able to have with a man like that?
And okay, I'm just generalizing a stereotype now,
but just to kind of use it as a metaphor.
The fact that even men actually needs to cultivate their own mind because
otherwise, they can also appear stupid.
Then we need to see if he has a little beer belly that needs to be sorted out or
generally speaking, just get in shape.
But the good thing with an elegant man is that he doesn't need to be ripped.
He just needs to live a healthy lifestyle, really.
He needs to have healthy eating habits.
He shouldn't be a drunk or a drug addict.
He just needs to do the basics of living healthy,
look after himself,
release some testosterone in the morning with exercise or do it later in the day.
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Then we need to look over your lifestyle because you want to upgrade
a lifestyle as a couple. So that means what do you currently do with your life?
And you need to think about how that can be upgraded.
Also think about what places are you currently visiting?
Where do you currently live?
Do you live in a high end neighborhood or do you live a little bit so, so?
You could upgrade your neighborhood.
That will definitely help you get into the momentum of this new energy that you
want to possess.
But I also believe that the venues that you visit are very important.
I wouldn't go for the cheap local pub or a McDonald's restaurant.
I would only go to very high-end places.
So high-end restaurants, high-end bar, or a club.
If I would go shopping, I would go more in a high-end store.
So everything high-end, because that itself is a different energy.
And it's going to help the man get into this and understand when you
also surround yourself in certain environments,
you start picking up of things on energies,
on looking at how other people behave and dress. And you start to mimic those things.
So it's much easier to have a transmission.
If you just go to your regular pub and McDonald's,
you're not going to feel elegant by having those habits. And you know,
same goes for your travel plans as well.
I would personally escape the package tours and the tacky travel destinations.
And instead,
really only spend my hard earned money to travel to jetset hotspots,
where you have a higher level of people.
Surely things will be quite expensive over there, but you get what you pay for.
You get a totally different culture.
And it's really important to absorb that energy
if you want to be part of that energy.
And he should understand and agree with you and hopefully also pay for the whole thing.
Now lastly, you need to improve your network in one way or another.
I'm not telling you to cut out all your friends.
You can absolutely keep your friends,
but you should also expand your circle of friends to some other types of people.
People that perhaps want to associate yourself with,
more elegant people, maybe affluent people, more powerful people,
depending what your goals are as this new elegant power couple.
And it depends also where you live and how you can get access
to this type of community.
But usually,
it's looking within your own network if they can introduce you somehow.
It is also by starting to seek out activities or events where you know
that these type of people, that's where they gather and things like that.
Now having said all this,
none of this will of course work if he does not have the same goals as you,
if he doesn't like this at all, if this is not his cup of tea,
if he doesn't like this environment. Don't force him.
The affluent elegant environment,
It is only a matter of preference for some people.
It doesn't mean that this environment is better than other environment.
It doesn't mean that this community is the place to be. No.
It's only for us who are interested in these things,
who like it. We like this ambiance. We like this type of crowd.
So maybe he doesn't share that with you and you know what,
it's okay if he doesn't. You don't necessarily have to break up with him,
but there will definitely be a big difference between you.
And in some relationships, unfortunately,
that ends up sabotaging because a woman might have very specific goals and be
very passionate about those goals. And then the man,
he doesn't have those goals and he doesn't care.
And sometimes it becomes a conflict.
So I can't say what to do in that situation,
because your situation is unique.
And I would never tell anybody to get rid of a man unless he's beating her
or is mean to her or assaulting her in any way.
If your man is still a good man to you, then it's really up to you.
You have to set your preferences.
You know what's best for you and I cannot tell you what to do in that case.
And you shouldn't actually listen to strangers who have no idea about your
unique situation. You have to take the decision.
Now ladies,
I hope you have enjoyed this video. If you still haven't watched my video,
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So I will see you in that video.