Ok, so parts are fiction
nothing is ever in parts because
the closest I know of to the spontaneous
creation of parts
is multiple personalities
so, multiple personalities
somebody has a very traumatic experience
and it's so dramatic they go
"that couldn't happen to me"
so they split
now you have two separate
bits
so, that's sort of spontaneous generation of parts
it's usually from trauma
some severe experience which is unaceptable
as a part of one's personal history
so they split the personal history in two parts
that is two parts of it
which i'll explain later
so, part is a very useful concept
if you leverage it
remember the Archimedes
long lever with pull crane
gimme a lever long enough and I could move the world
this is accurate in a mechanical sense
now
there's a lot of the stuff like parts
unconscious, conscious
a lot of distinctions in NLP that you use constantly
which are temporary
imposition by us
of the certain kind of left brain
linguistic behaviour on the flow of experience
all languages are the same
you are going into a restaurant
you look at the menu
see what you wanna eat
you use that as a guide and ordering
you don't tear off that part of the menu and eat it
but many people do that
as if it were
this is experience
it has no need to be
for you to do anything with it
is there, it's running
it's happening all the time
sometimes it's useful to impose linguistic structure
in both experiences
in order to get a leverage point
which allows you to make a difference
in your experience
the experience in families, couples
experience with the clients
and in the case of our application here
being students participating in this seminar
where you are actually a trainer
so, parts don't exist
we create them on the spot
as a way of creating leverage position
as a matter of fact this a funny thing about parts
you find someone who you asked them a question and go
"Oh...yeah, ok, we can do that"
and see by the head movement, the difference in the voice
you compare that with words
you go disaster
they're expressing more than one part
they are plus minus incongruent
in order to assist them if in that case when it comes from their lips
in becoming congruent
then one of the things you'd like to do
is to exaggerate the separation
they're stuck together
so, every time one part express itself
the other one simultaneously has to express itself
we're talking about the process of change
in order to achieve
the integration of those parts if in fact that is a proper manouvre
in some cases are, in some cases aren't
you get to separate these even more
so create a schizophrenic and then you can intergrate the schizophrenic
so, the parts are useful when you think about
developing each part of the person
till it's robust enough
discovering what the intention is
I need some kind of intention
and I need to coordinate them
for integration
so, that's my comment about parts
parts are a extremely useful concept
in applied application
they are useful until you start believing in them
so, if you start believing in them you're lost
you impregnate yourself with strange configurations
modern technological society is far too fragmented
for you to approach a single state or single personality
impose some content
before you start
what do you do for a living?
- I'm an IT consultant -
IT consultant, ok
so when you're operating as an IT consultant doing problem solving
which is big
you are gonna behave differently
if you could see the circuitry in your body
lit up depending on what part of your neurology are activated
during this task of IT
and if we look at you
what sports you play?
- When I got time I go swimming -
ok, swimming
the illuminated parts of your neurology and physiology which are activated when you are swimming
are gonna be minimal overlap of what's happening when you're consulting a customer in IT
so, in that sense because of the difference in mass is contextual
it's very useful to have different parts in the sense that you know how to shift
contextualy
to know what parts of the resources called
your neurology, physiology, biochemistry
will be usually activated in order to respond
the present context and challenges and puzzles
there's a principle here which
if we use the swimming example
have you ever been depressed?
in your life? at all?
not really
there are people who manage this a lot
now, if you take someone who's depressed and put it the water and tell to swim
how are they gonna be depressed?
they'll be thinking of ground
stay depressed in the ground
or they're gonna break their own physiology by begin to swim
like the survival of the state
the set of physiological, neurological, biochemistry responses
will require of you to swim
will make you unable to be depressed
depression is the easiest thing in the world to cure
now, to sustain
a person outside of the depress state is another challenge
but breaking it up
taking them out of depression that's as easy as
whatever
grab them, shake them
they can't be depressed
and swim
so, this whole thing about parts
has a little bit of an echo
in the way we organize in the technological modern society
the overlap between what's required for you to perform as an IT guy
are different that... are you an uncle?
are you an uncle?
ok, you know any young children ? Do you have connections with any young children?
so, what you need for that context
is fundamentally different from what you need when you work as an IT guy
and if you wanna succeed in the important context in your life
is this development of certain class of flexibility in here
as a shift from whatever
perceive what the context is
what's your intention in this context is what you wanna accomplish
and you shift to activate
just like that
so, parts are really good idea until you believe in them
when they become very close
that's my insecurity