Tanner: How are you? Well..that was a bust.. What's your name?
Would you like to go get some ice cream? Girl: Sure!
Matt Artisan here from The Attractive Man.
And today I'm with two of our expert coaches, Jules Bia and David Vibe.
David: And in this video, we're going to show you how me and Jules took a brand new student
that barely approached any women in his life and got him from zero to getting a date
on the spot in less than three hours! Jules: It's going to be lit!
We're here in Third Street Promenade in Los Angeles.
Tanner has never done a cold approach.
And today we're going to film a before our coaching and after our coaching.
And we're also going to document all the fun things that happen and all
the fine tuning along the way so you can get a powerful and inspiring sample
of what's possible when you have the right guys behind you.
So make sure you watch his video all the way to the end.
You're going to learn a lot. You're going to get inspired.
It's going to be straight fire.
Tanner: Hey..
Hey, all right, how are you?
OK. You won't talk to me? That was a bust.
She didn't say anything back. Jules: Did she pull out a knife and try to cut you?
Tanner: No. But she looks like she's about ready to.
David: Did you start to talk to her? Tanner: I tried to. She just ignored me.
Jules: It was your hesitation. She felt you like coming up for sure.
When you're walking. So in the future, just don't hesitate.
Just go and say hi.
What we're going to do is we're going to have David here demonstrate to Tanner
how to properly stop a girl that you're interested in approaching.
And it's so important to do this the right way so that she feels safe.
And from that feeling of safety,
she's going to be much more receptive, David: You have an intention behind what you do.
Your intention is to start talking to her.
Is it easy to stop to talk to her like this?
She can just break the contact and go like, it's not safe. When you're
in front of her and you're sure, you can just stop her.
She can go away if she wants.
What you want to do is going to try and stop her.
OK, so you you want to start maybe running a little bit, running maybe.
Or just walk faster.
Hey, real quick. Just a second.
Read, Turn. Here we go. That's good. That was much better.
Tanner: Hey..
Jules: So what I saw in the body language was you you went and you turned and you were like,
yeah, yeah, you always have to direct your attention, your hips are your attention.
Right square with hers, you want to stop [here].
Tanner: Hey, whats your name?
Jules: Good job, man. So you're getting better..
She didn't stop, but now I'm going to give you the next piece.
You want to let her know why you stopped her,
and that you do that by delivering the compliment.
So you stop, "Hey. Real quick. you're really cute. I'm Tanner"
Like I said, super simple.
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Say to her, what happened?
Hey, real quick.
I just passed you.
Yeah, that's what happened.
I just had to come over and say hi.
Oh, absolutely. What's stunning.
Gorgeous. Yeah.
Other than that. Good.
She stayed there.
So even if your stuff wasn't perfect, she still stayed.
So your presence is better.
Tanner: Hey, real quick, I just want to tell you, you're absolutely gorgeous.
Are you walking over there?
What's your name? And Instagram?
I get your Instagram? Girl: Yeah.
David: Well, so you just got a contact and you kind of connected well, so.
Tanner: Yeah. David: How do you feel about this approach? Tanner: It went pretty good.
Tanner: It went a lot better than the first one. It felt kind of natural, I guess.
Yes. David: Good job, Coach.
Tanner: Yeah.
Jules: And now you've opened up a whole new world, right?
Like it is possible. Tanner: Yeah.
Jules: So what I want you to do is just imagine I feel like there's a sensation of water
just flowing down your body into the ground.
Just close your eyes and create
the sensation of just water pouring down your body.
Imagine these waters is clearing out and cleansing all parts of you.
And I want you to imagine that this badass
suit of armor is forming from around your feet.
The most badass suit of armor is forming up the legs of the hips
around your arms, torso in a helmet over the head.
It's the most gangster suit of armor.
And I want you to imagine this liquid
courage, this golden, glowing liquid courage filling it up
from the bottom, like pouring a pitcher of beer as it fills up this suit of armor.
You feel courageousness, you feel connected, you feel like a badass.
It's allowed to fill up the legs and up the torso.
And all the way up, not rub your fingers and thumbs together and lock it in.
How do you feel? Tanner: Yeah. Jules: Feel actually better. right?
That's interesting. It's a little bit of an NLP and just
connecting and getting into your body more. So important to really feel what you're
feeling in the moment with her. If you're nervous, it doesn't matter.
A lot of guys think they they need to not have, like, negative emotions. Completely
fine if you're nervous or scared or you can approach from any emotion.
Right?
As long as you're owning it and you're looking right at her and punching through
that to really be present with her, like, look at me right now.
You feel the presence.
Tanner: Yeah.
Jules: So that's kind of how you punch through,
and you really affect her and you really. Kind of flavor her with your intention
that catches the interest in that sparks the attraction and creates the tension.
And the calmer you are, the more you can feel the tension,
the more you can feel the tension, the more you can connect emotionally,
because the tension is actually the emotional bridge for the connection.
The emotions flow through.
The tension make sense. Tanner: Yeah Jules: Cool. All right.
Tanner: Hey real quick. Real quick. I just saw you..
And I thought you are absolutely gorgeous. Girl: Oh, thank you!
Tanner: I just want to tell you that. What's your name? Girl 1: -says her name- Tanner: -name- I'm Tanner, nice to meet you.
Tanner: What's your name? Girl 2: -says her name-
Tanner: Ya'll frome here? Girl 1: She is. I'm not. Tanner: She is?
Tanner: OK, you're visiting from? Girl 1: New York. Tanner: New York?
Tanner: OK, how long in for? Girl 1: A month, maybe.
Tanner: Awesome. Yeah we're just kind here for the day Girl 1: Were are you from? Tanner: North Carolina.
Girl: Oh nice! Tanner: Yeah. So this is a big experience.
There's something we need to go check out over here..
Well, it's nice to meet both of y'all. Girl: Nice to meet you as well.
High five. Enjoy. Tanner: Nice to meet you.
Jules: What went well, what could have gone better?
Tanner: What whent well? Connecting with them I guess, she's from New York, but..
I kind of hesitated.. I didn't know and I didn't really
feel like she was going to give me your number being from New York.
Jules: Did you go for the number? Tanner: Nah, I didn't ask. Jules: Always go for the number.
Go for the number after the qualifier, did you qualify?
Tanner: I don't think so. Jules: But what did you ask her?
Tanner: I just asked her things to do around here, and that's where I was from.
And I said, when are you going see?
Jules: The qualifier is always like a little bit of a challenge to see what she's all about.
Tanner: Yeah.
Jules: Which shows that you have options. Tanner: It kind of threw me off.. I wasn't as attracted to her.
SO when I got there to. It was just.. I don't know.
Tanner: Hey, real quick. I just saw you there.
. And you're really pretty. Just wanted to come say hey. Girl: Thank you!
Tanner: Hey, what's your name?
Girl: Kristen Tanner: Tanner.
Nice to meet you. You from here? Kirsten: I live here, I grew up in Orange County.
Tanner: OK, we're from North Carolina. We're here with some friends.
Yeah. What else?
Tell me something about you.
You're an herbal nerd? What does that mean? Kirsten: Yeah. Herbal nerd. I'm into herbs.
Tanner: Grow your own stuff? Kirsten: No, like supplement herbs. Like.. Medicinal mushrooms. Like the natural products industry.
Tanner: Okay. Kirsten: Yeah, what about you?
Tanner: I'm a firefighter back home. Kirsten: Oh that's sweet.
Tanner: Like that and the like, anything about the competition stuff. Kirsten: Cute.
Tanner: Yeah. Would you like to go get some ice cream?
Kirsten: Sure. Why not? Tanner: Yeah. All right.
I don't know the places you got to tell me where. Kirsten: Honestly I have no idea where ice cream is.
But I'll walk. Are you here with by yourself then? Tanner: Yeah, there are some friends, but they're out, out and about.
Kirsten: Cute, all right.
Tanner: You know, before this,
I always been kind of nervous approaching girls out in cold, just like that.
And but now after going through this is
kind of opening and pretty neat to see how you can transform.
And it's like three hours doing doing some simple things.
And
I was kind of skeptical about this whole thing at first.
But I guess you see from the video It actually
did work, so just don't be afraid to step out of comfort zone.
I mean, you ain't got nothing to lose. It's opened some new possibilities.
I mean, you're definitely walking around out in public and stuff.
A lot more opportunity out there.
And girls to meet, I guess. Jules: In the last three
hours, did you approach more women than you have your entire life cold?
Tanner: Yeah. Jules: It's incredible.
And only in three hours. Imagine what's possible for you, guys,
this is just an example of a coachable guy
who is ready to step into it and take action.
Is that also you?
Because all you need to be is ready
to transform your life and to take action and invest in yourself.
David: So if you are ready right now, to you have the same results as he did
and even more, then just book, a breakthrough session with us and see if you qualify
and if we can help you. Jules: Click the link
in the description below to book a call with our elite coaching team.
To see if you're the right fit for us.
Be ready to invest in yourself!
Come out and change your life already.
It's you that's holding you back.
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