this video will show you how to make the vibrational shift from the frequency of
wanting versus having this is the game changer this is why so many people are
experiencing what they want and I'm gonna show you exactly how to make that
shift welcome back to another video my name is Erin and I help people expand
their consciousness now in this video I'm gonna be sharing with you the
vibrational difference between that of wanting versus having and this little
technique or mindset shift that makes all the difference in the world and it's
something that I've realized through years of practicing the law of
attraction or how to create our own reality there are things that I noticed
in so many people when people really really want something and the difference
between that and the actually having of it and why sometimes certain things may
happen that then gets you into that vibrational shift so I was actually
thinking about this yesterday because I was talking to some friends and we were
talking about that of something that we noticed when it comes to people wanting
to get pregnant now I know it's kind of a random analogy but when people think
about it like this there's some couples that will try to get pregnant and for
some reason they it's not happening like they want a baby but the baby ain't
coming out there no baby being me and what happens is they really really want
it but then this is a funny thing that can happen this happens a lot by the way
people really really want a baby that doing the thing they're trying to make
it happen and it's not happening so then what they do is they go and adopt they
say you know what maybe it's not meant to be
I'm gonna go adopt and that's how we're gonna have our baby they go a dot then
what happens is without really even intending for it within months of
adopting all the sudden they get pregnant you know the woman gets
pregnant and it's it's something they tried out
for years but just now happens within a month or two of adopting a baby it's
this phenomena that happens very often now why would this be hmm
I have a theory behind that and my theory is that the vibration of wanting
a baby and creating a lot of importance and putting that idea of a baby on a
pedestal and the fact that the baby isn't already here
creates resistance that then doesn't allow the baby to come through however
once they get and they adopt they then lessen the importance of the wanting the
baby because then they have the baby they have a different baby it's not the
way that they thought but now they had nonetheless they have adopted a baby and
they're in the vibration of having a baby because of that without any trying
whatsoever they then get pregnant and all of a sudden they've gone from the
vibration of wanting to the vibration of having and then something happens easier
than ever without even really trying why did that happen well I believe it's
because the wanting vibration and the having vibration are different and
because they made the shift even though they were unconsciously using the outer
reality to make that shift because then they have the baby but then they allow
it through and the reason that is is because then vibrationally they were in
alignment with that desire they were in the vibration of having so the question
is then do we need to adopt a baby in order to have and the answer to that is
no we don't what if they instead of I'm not saying you know there's nothing
wrong with the adoption maybe they were meant to adopt a baby so I said you know
they got to give it the baby just but what I'm saying is that it wouldn't be
necessary if you could embody the vibration of that of having the baby and
also think about it the took the couple that has the baby if they were to loosen
up and think it was natural for them to have a baby it'd be much more likely
you see in the wanting vibration it's really really important and they put it
on this pedestal without knowing it vibrationally and then that separates
them self from it you see anytime we say something like I
really really want something we are vibrationally saying I really really
don't currently have it because you're saying I want that from over there and
into here which is emphasizing the lack of it right now that is a difference
vibrationally than that of having because if you have it it's just natural
for you if you have it it's a much different vibration think about this in
terms of TV stations you see because the truth is is that there's an infinite
number of parallel realities that exist this is what quantum physics is showing
us based on our intention that's what increases probability but there are many
different realities that exist and imagine it like a TV station if you are
on a certain TV station if you're on HGTV watching home renovations trying to
get you're trying to figure out how you could rearrange your home or watch house
hunters and watch people that look at three houses and then choose based on
those three houses they choose which house they're gonna live in for the next
20 years that might be a channel you're watching
you watch that channel to get into and you know that at the same moment you
could if you want it to shift the channel to Bravo maybe you watch like
housewives or something I don't know I don't watch the show
I don't watch mean that shows but I'm just just sharing the idea go from one
vibration ok those those two channels exist in the same moment they're just
different frequencies and you don't try to change the HGTV channel itself you
just switch the frequency you see you don't have to create channel 39 or
whatever Bravo TV is you know what to create it just got to change the channel
using the TV remote or using your Apple TV or whatever it is
can be that easy so understand this the vibration of the couple that doesn't
have the baby the versions of them that already have the baby already exist they
don't have to create the baby but they go and try but they can't create
actually they do I mean you guys get the analogy though right you don't have to
create the reality and tap into a vibrations if I vibrational reality
already exists they could do the action you know what I mean and the action you
know they have to take the action in order they have the baby they don't do
nothing you know nothing gonna happen but it's about understanding that it's
easier than they think it's easier than they think and what they can do is they
can just acknowledge the vibration of that version of them and how natural it
is for them to have the baby and what that would be like what their morning
routines would be like what the vibrations that versions of them doing
in that parallel reality and they could begin to tap into that and then by doing
that they're changing the remote from the wanting to the having and eventually
they'll get pregnant or something or something but what they got to do is
switch the frequencies switch to the vibration and you can apply this in any
area of your life not just being pregnant I'm just using that as an
example because when we were talking about that yesterday it was like oh I'm
gonna talk about that in tomorrow's video but say you really really want a
job and you really really want it and you go and do a job interview and it's a
lot of importance and you're sitting in front of the person you're doing the
interview and you feel kind of nervous because you really really want it well
understand that the vibration of wanting in the vibration of having are different
if you were to go in there knowing that you're just the right fit for the job
that you're going to add value to that company which isn't a pin into something
called outer intention which taps into the intention of the company so our
adding value is so powerful and if you were to go in there just knowing it's
natural for you to do well have the intention of adding value of really
shining your light and showing them what your what your personality is like you
have a much better chance of getting the job then you do if you're just really
really wanting it and not by graciously compatible with it because of how bad
you want it so the vibration of wanting and the vibration of having are
completely different vibrational realities based on the focus in the
moment and whether you are happy in the present moment you see this is the other
thing the vibration of having is the vibration of you you in a happy mood one
of the best ways to shift from wanting to having is to just loosen up to have
more fun reality is like a dream and when you learn how to to to play through
this dream it's like a mixture of a dream in a game come here to learn but
it's meant to be fun but to be more of a flexible dream not meant to be so
serious and when you have more fun with life you find yourself shifting through
it in a much easier way you find that things become very very light and in
lightness so much can happen you know the more the more that I have enjoyed my
life over the last year the more success has come so much easier and I enjoy the
process that's what I'm realizing now is the old paradigm of like you have to
work really really hard all the time in order to be successful in all this stuff
in the beginning that may be something that helps is having like a strong work
ethic and all of these things but understand that if you're not enjoying
it you're creating resistance if you said have more fun it loosens up the
vibration and then because you're in a high vibration you're closer to already
having it it's an easier jump but if you're saying this moment right now
isn't good enough because I want to get over there you're creating this
resistance if you want to close the gap increase your vibration how do you
increase your vibration the best way I know how to do that just to have more
fun to do more things you enjoy not even it's not that you reeve it this is
another thing too it's not even that you have to change what you're doing it's
just change how you're doing it I still make daily videos on YouTube and I still
do things with my business like I've been doing
for the last like two three years however I do it's a much more fun
attitude I do it I have more fun I enjoy myself it's not as serious that I have
to do this this or this of this it's more so how can I enjoy this that how is
what changed but here's the thing because the how is changing I'm enjoying
it more I'm in a higher vibration and I'm closer to the things I quote unquote
wants or or already have you see I don't have to want it so much because I feel
good either way if that couple that wanted to get pregnant was good either
way they may have gotten pregnant sooner they're like it's okay that the baby
doesn't come yet it's let's just have let's just have fun with the process why
we why would make it love because we have to get a baby why don't we just
make love and then the baby may come but if it's like there's like so much
desperation for this baby because it would make everything better
then then it may create resistance I understand that there could still be a
very strong desire to have kids but understand that it can be more of a
smooth process it to be a fun process and maybe loosening up loosen up is one
of the easiest ways to let go of what is called excess potential this is a
reality Tran surfing term the idea is that anytime we put something on a
pedestal we create importance importance vibrationally separates us from the
reality we want anytime you make anything important if you're trying to
attract someone into your life and you start to talk to someone you make them
very important you put them on a pedestal and you immediately start to
distance yourself I graciously from them they'll feel that inside of your energy
when you talk to them they'll feel like something's a little bit weird but when
you said you have fun guess what it's a much more contagious energy if it's the
job that you want instead of really really wanting it put it on a pedestal
loosen up and have fun now I don't say go to the interview and be like yo
what's up dude I want this job right here I'm in the vibration of having it
this is my true personality but what you can do instead is you can
relax you can go in shine your light know that you add value just be in the
vibration of accepting that it's it's something in a job that you can have you
see so understand that there is a difference in vibration from the
vibration of wanting something from the vibration of having something there are
different television station frequencies they both exist right now the vibration
think of whatever you want and think of it and know that there's a vibration of
wanting that thing or that experience there's a vibration of having that thing
or that experience to tap into the vibration of having that experience
first off loosen up about the process have more fun because how you do
something is going to be the energy state you take with it increase your
vibration first and then focus on the part of you the version of you that
already is live in this lifestyle begin to merge merge the thought patterns
begin to merge the the beliefs of that version of you the body posture of that
version of you put yourself in the vibrational frequency of it and the more
you do that the more you're going to be in that vibrational frequency see things
as natural take away the importance of the wanting no it's natural for you to
experience that and by doing that you begin to create more and more of this
potential inside of your life and then go through your life just knowing that
as you loosen up as you focus on the version of you that hasn't you're just
being that version of you now you also have an identity that that's a part of
who you are identity is a part that can really change your manifestations
because if you see it as natural for you it's a part of your identity for you to
have that kind of job for you to be in that kind of relationship for you to
have kids it's a part of your identity then it's easier for you to vibrational
in line with it so I videos as well on that of changing self-image that are
very powerful that can help also to become more aligned to it just
understand that the more you raise your vibration the more things you want will
be something that you have so one of the most powerful meditations I have is in
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