Lindsay: The best date I ever went on was with a guy who I met through a mutual friend
you know not only was he so accommodating of me and that he like
opened all the doors for me pulled my chair out for me and was doing all you
know the traditional gentlemanly things but he also was paying attention to me
Brittany: Okay guys one of the most annoying things you can do on a date is sitting
there on your phone if we wanted to go on a date with your phone we would have
asked. Renee: I think I've had too many bad day so I've kind of just blacked them out
but I remember one guy didn't turn out for half an hour and he was like oh I'm
so sorry I'm so sorry I'm so sorry I'm like I said I'm just about to walk out
and he's like haha no you what I'm like yes I am anyway the way I went to have
dinner afterwards at this restaurant and whatever and then he turned around and
said to me after he's like also you good to get home and she I'm just gonna go
out with my mates and I was like yeah I'm great needless to say you never
heard from me again
the fact that he was so attentive and genuinely cared about me made me feel so
special and made me feel like you know this guy is only here for me and he's
only here to really like make sure I'm cool that made me feel so good what
makes the date special is the memories and the energy that's created best day
that I would have to have it was definitely the one with my fiance
so we met on a photo shoot and it was a Valentine's Day photo shoot and we
actually had these gigantic balloons and the whole thing was he was following me
around with these balloons that we're shooting and we'd step in hot hands and
gaze into each other's eyes and so for our first date together at first
Valentine's Day actually we told me this location to go to and I didn't know
where it was and he said look up in the sky and so I looked up in the sky and he
was letting off these balloons you know - obviously symbolize you know the
balloons from when we first met and he said follow me these full of these
balloons to my location and so I followed the balloons to his location
and everyone letting up all these hot-air balloons in
the air and there was a picnic rug with flowers and seven different bottles of
French wine and cheese platters and cakes and pastries and he was all
dressed up and it was just so super romantic and so thought out and I know
you guys are probably thinking crap so I have to do that well you know what the
more little thought and detail that you put into a date and the more lack then
you're going to get a positive response so it's not bad they go the extra mile
to make somebody feel like they're your only priority
just that will go a really long way hey man before I let you get back to
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here is gonna be very sad I think anywhere that you can have a
conversation is the best type of venue I can tell you when not to go don't go to
venues that are overly crowded and busy where you're basically yelling at each
other the whole entire time because you can't hear anything so I think the best
venue is to be honest a place that is probably public a place that has great
atmosphere and great food great coffee or whatever it is that you guys want to
do for instance if you want to go rock climbing for your first date or if you
want to go ice skating for your first date don't necessarily limit to
restaurants and clubs I think a first date should really be about creating a
great memorable experience where you can both have fun where there could be some
little dependence on each other hence you know maybe she needs to hold your
hand or maybe you're able to order the food or something that allows you to
step up and be that masculine man and something that you guys can laugh about
and look back as you know a great place to be able to start from
I personally have no qualms with having an activity for your date but I also
think there needs to be time where you can sit and talk and get to know each
other I just think your first date should be easy and should avoid any
extra stress more than you know what is already there
I think the first sort of date should definitely be casual I don't think you
should have dinner straight away I think that is something that is a bit more
intimate and something that should happen later on down the track and
basically do it a step at a time and lead up to something more intimate such
as dinner at your place when you're cooking for her or dinner in a
restaurant I think if there's some sort of creativity behind the date and some
sort of thought and originality it really sets you apart from every other
guy the best venue depends on her figure out what she likes and then customize
the venue to her interests activities are great for dates because it puts you
on mutual territory unless you know one time you want to do something that she
normally does maybe she normally does cooking and so you do a cooking class
together or maybe you're someone who's into jet skis and so you go jet skiing
together and then you do something that neither you have tried so then you're
able to work together as a team and it makes it fun and enjoyable at the same
time which is what dating should be dating should be fun there should be an
element of romance and every single day definitely romantic versus excitement
I'm a hopeless romantic so I would go with the romance chivalry is not dead I
don't think you need like to focus on a Ton Ton Ton Ton Ton of romance I think
you just need to focus on getting to know that person romance doesn't
necessarily have to be you doing something romantic maybe there's
something romantic about the atmosphere all there's something romantic about the
environment that you're in want to go on the state to get to know this person
that's the whole point and I think that's the thing that people often
one-sided because they want to impress the person that they're on a date was so
badly you know I'm not saying kick it on the couch in your sweatpants
because I think you should try a little bit harder than that but it can
definitely be like hey I made us like dinner to take to the park you know and
watch the sunset like I think it can be that simple even if you go into an
intimate date such as cooking her dinner you know you should still be out have a
laugh I don't know if I confuse you guys by just saying doing everything it was
but definitely Daisy should be fun it should be exciting and enjoyable for
both of you and there should always be an element of romance involved I hope
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