i don't think you have ever opened up an
english book
and it's taught you to talk about sex
but with our close friends
and partners is something that we all
talk about
and sex vocabulary and expressions are
constantly changing with new generations
bringing in
new terminology it's also really easy to
sound silly when you're talking about
sex
and you can easily embarrass yourself
and if you use really
technical vocabulary you'll end up
sounding like sheldon tell him my coitus
with amy
is frequent intense and whimsically
inventive
so in this lesson i'm going to teach you
some great expressions
to talk about sex and we'll start off
with the basics
in spoken english we don't usually say
to have sex
we use a slang expression to do it for
example
are you doing it with the girl from the
cafe
this is a softer way of saying are you
having sex with the girl
from the cafe instead of saying when was
the last time you had sex
you can say when was the last time you
did it
a polite way of saying the same thing to
have sex
is to say to sleep together for example
we slept together last night this is a
political way of saying
we had sex last night so be careful with
this one
if you go on a sleepover with a friend
you don't want to give people the wrong
impression another example
instead of saying how long have you been
having sex
you can say how long have you been
sleeping together
and another expression that you should
definitely know is to netflix and
chill now this is slang code
for to have sex so if somebody says do
you want to netflix and chill tonight
what they actually mean is do you want
to come over and have sex tonight
and then there is another common slang
expression
which is to have a quickie this means to
have sex
quickly when you don't have a lot of
time so you might find yourself
in the mood for sex in the morning
before you go to work
and you can say fancy a quickie this
means
do you want to have sex quickly oh
i really hope my mom doesn't listen to
this so now i want you to imagine
you're with your partner and you're
feeling a little romantic
now don't get too excited how can you
tell your partner
that you're feeling sexually excited in
a nice way
you can say i'm turned on this is a
softer way of saying
i'm in the mood for sex you can also say
i'm feeling hot
but i wouldn't say i'm feeling horny i'm
feeling horny is another expression
which means i'm in the mood for sex
but in my opinion it sounds a little bit
creepy it's also important to know a
good expression to tell your partner
that you're not in the mood for sex
in this case you can simply say i'm not
in the mood
or i'm not feeling it okay as you
already know
it's very important to have safe sex
right
you don't want any unexpected babies
coming along so you might want to ask
your partner
if they have a condom and it's perfectly
fine to say
have you got a condom but we've also got
some
slang words that mean condom in american
english a condom can be called a rubber
and in british english a condom can be
called
a johnny for example i've put a new box
of rubbers
in the bedside cabinet or excuse me mate
could i borrow a johnny obviously in
this example you don't mean
borrow but it's a polite way of asking
if you're a lady you may tell your
partner that you are
on the pill this means you are taking
birth control
tablets so yeah you may also want to
tell your partner
that you're on your period a nice way of
saying
this is to say it's my time of the month
and they will know what you mean okay so
shall we talk about
casual sex this is when someone has sex
with someone else
but they are not in a relationship if
someone has casual sex
we can say they hooked up for example
my friend hooked up with a guy she knows
from work
another example he's never had a serious
relationship
he just hooks up with different girls if
you go out
and meet someone who you never see again
we call this
a one night stand for example she
regrets having that one night stand
she can't even remember his name and of
course
there are also friends with benefits so
these are friends who have sex
but they're not in a relationship they
don't have girlfriend boyfriend
responsibilities they are friends with
benefits
or you can also say sex buddies no
they're not girlfriend and boyfriend
they're just friends with benefits and
there we go
i've talked about sex and now it's your
turn to talk about sex
you've got a lot of really useful
expressions that you can use with your
friends
or your partner probably don't use them
with your parents or
informal situations this is really
informal english
a lot of slang but these expressions are
really useful because they are softer
it's a lighter way of saying
difficult things lots of people are not
comfortable if you mention the word
sex or [ __ ] okay so these expressions
are a bit
polite a little bit lighter and you can
use them
a lot because native speakers really do
use them a lot
so i hope you found this lesson really
useful
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