hey you my name is Marni and from here on out I am going to be your very own
personal wing girl it's my job to give you the no BS honest truth about what
women want versus what they say they want and I put up new videos every
Monday so please keep an eye out for my videos in this video I'm going to share
how to talk to women when you approach them so that your conversation
sparks attraction versus coming off as super creepy I'm also going to give you
one solid example of how a guy talked to me that instantly had me feeling
butterflies so keep watching how much importance do you place on the specific
word you use when talking to women if you're anything like most guys oh the
guys that I work with my guess will be a lot that's because men tend to be more
logical and pay attention to the content of what said whereas women are more
intuitive and focused on the context of what's being said in other words how you
say something is way more important than what you say as women are paying
attention to things like your tonality your body language your sense of style
and dozens of other things that were not even consciously aware of and the reason
we do this is because it makes sense from an evolutionary perspective we know
that it's much easier for you to deceive us with your words but it's much harder
to hide the truth with everything else that you're doing and what a guy
approaches us we had indistinct if they want to size him up as quickly as
possible to see if he's worth our time or not so if you only focused on what
words he's used we'd waste time by ignoring what he's really saying to us
without his words let's use a recent success story from a student as an
example so here's what happened in his own words
Marnie had to share this crazy but true story I can't believe this worked so I'm
out and I see this very beautiful women first thing I do is I do the glance at
the ring finger there's nothing there check done then I approach I walked up I
introduced myself and then said if I'd realized earlier that you were more
beautiful than the falling star I'd have caught you awhile ago and put you in my
pocket yes I know it was a totally corny one-liner now Marnie I've been
practicing not worrying about what happen
snacks just having a blast welllook story short I got her number and an
instant coffee date which led to a date for later in the week I never really
understood it when you first said it to me
but after getting more into your method I finally realized what you were talking
about it wasn't so much what I said it was the attitude behind it yes I had a
Marni inspired epiphany okay so what's your impression of the line he used to
approach this woman probably the same as mine and you probably think it's super
cheesy as anything and you'd be a hundred percent right to think that but
that's the whole point there's nothing special at all in what he said and if he
hadn't been having fun with it chances are he would have completely bombed it
however she picked up on this vibe of confidence and having fun and the fact
he wasn't saying it to impress her but because it was a genuine expression of
what he felt in the moment it totally worked for him so if you're watching
this thinking wow you've got a magical new opening line to use that would be a
huge mistake again it's not about the words it's about what's going on behind
the words that are really important the how not the what I really want to drill
this into your head because it's so important if you were to line up ten
guys in front of me who all deliver the same guaranteed panty-dropper line I
know with 100% certainty that my panties would only drop for a couple of them one
guy I want to pounce on instantly it makes we'd love to him another guy I
want to punch in the face or just run away from him and I'm sure there will be
at least one or two that I want to befriend and make sure no woman ever
hurts them even though they're all gonna say the same exact words I'll hear them
differently based on how and who is delivering these lines to me so how do
you learn how to say things to women so that your words ignite attraction versus
get you a direct ticket to Trinity town or the dreaded friend zone and I'm going
to tell you that in just a minute but first I wanna share another story with
you it's a story that will put all this into perspective it's also a great
example of how to escalate a conversation with a woman from friendly
to flirty in under 60 seconds so I was at Trader
Joe's the other day and started chatting to
this guy in the veggie aisle in a typical
this guy was probably five foot nine not overly attractive but had a very nice
smile he dressed well and I remember thinking god this guy seems so
comfortable with himself not at all in a cocky way but in like this really calm
way and he was obviously trying to flirt with me and even though I'm taken I was
fine with a little healthy flirting while shopping for my produce so after
about two minutes he looked at me smirked and said you do know I'm
flirting with you right and he said it just like that you do know I'm flirting
with you right confident proud clear and amazing when he said
this to me it instantly sent shivers running through my body I stumbled for a
second and said yes it's very clear but I have someone in my life but you know
thank you for this I left feeling wonderful and thinking I have to write
this day honestly don't forget to share it with you because how he talked to me
was perfect the outcome of the story would have been very different had he
said that same exact sentence like this you do know I'm flirting with you right
do you see how different that sounds well to experience it from the female
point of view magnify that difference times 10 and you'll feel what we feel so
now the question is how can you learn to talk the way that this guy talk to me
you do a little something I call engaging in juvenile dysfunction and
here's how it works for the next few weeks your goal is to get comfortable
with being uncomfortable just like a little kid kids are so free they scream
at the top of their lungs they move their bodies and faces so freely without
caring about what they look like they say anything they want because they can
and for the next few weeks I want you to act just like that free open comfortable
and not giving a damn about what other people think and you do this by doing at
least three of the following things all right number one break out into dance in
the middle of the street for 30 seconds and then continue walking like you don't
care number two say something to someone random that makes no sense to them but
only make sense to you like I love it when bumblebees sing happy birthday or
just random and then again just keep walking number three break into song
the subway or in an elevator just awesome number four blasts the music
really loud in your car and just starts singing and when you start to think ah
someone's watching me get even louder and more animated you
can do any variation of these and I'll give you bonus points if you can share
in the comments section below other things you did to show you don't
care what other people think these exercises are meant to push you out of
your comfort zone in a safe way and get you more comfortable with you you
realize nobody cares anything they'd like it I know you're probably thinking
Marny all of this sounds great but how the hell isn't this going to help me
talk to women it's going to help you because as soon as you get out of that
sticky head of yours and just say screw it that's when women will notice doing
this will help you be more comfortable with you and in turn will alter how you
talk to women and how they see you instead of stressing over what to say
when you approach a woman they're much better off focusing on how you feel when
you approach them if you feel freaking good and comfortable and full of life
instead of dread we're going to feel that it's going to tell us more about
you than anything that you would ever say to us because when it comes to
creating deep powerful attraction that makes us go weak in the knees for you
it's not so much about what you do it's about who you are guys who understand
this about women are incredibly rare which is why the few who do get it also
have tons more sexual options than they can handle
and that's what I'm here to help you with you've been confused and frustrated
by women not sure where you're going wrong and why you just can't seem to get
it right then I can help you I put together a free 45 minute video that
tells you exactly how to project a women that you are a man of value without
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I know you're gonna be eager to put my suggestions to work immediately just
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