Mark: Hey, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours, and today, we're discussing seven types of
seductive energies that men cannot resist. Now, the reason I want us to do this topic
and the reason I wanted to bring in my friend Anya Grace to do this with me, is that I've
been to workshops where I've seen this done. We have these in Australia and the women actually
get to enter these archetypes, these energies that we're going to talk about today, and
Anya Grace, who's worked with companies like Samsung, you've trained hundreds of women
around the world with this, you're a female empowerment and feminine energy coach. She
has created a lot of these archetypes and literally coaches them and runs summits over
the internet just like the one I went to in real life. So these are really beautiful feminine
energies and archetypes that we're going to share with you today. Anya, thank you for coming
in.
Anya Grace: I'm so excited.
Mark: We're kicking off with number one, which is the Goddess. What is the Goddess and how
does this help women get into their feminine, be irresistible to men?
Anya Grace: Love it. So the Goddess energy is all about being unpredictable and allowing
yourself to fall into that dynamic feminine nature that we really all are as women. It's
the energy of the tides and the moon fluctuations and phases. I like to say that the ocean floor
is kind of symbolic of the divine masculine energy and the ocean is the feminine and the
ocean floor does not request that the ocean warn him when sea is about to storm, that
he is ready to handle whatever arises within her wild form. So it's this total dynamic
energy of the feminine that's always fluctuating, that's never really predictable. It's changing
from moment to moment and it's when you allow yourself to really fall into your feelings
and to not hold them back.
Mark: Yeah, when I went to this workshop, it was actually presented as an archetype called
the Wild Woman, and I can remember this woman was totally in her unpredictability and totally
in her divine and and she was, she was losing it, and then came straight at me and like stopped
there in my face and was screaming and then just went back to it. And our job as a masculine
men's workshop was just to hold space. And when you create that safe space and go into
this unpredictable energy, it allows you to own that side of your feminine, that archetype
and completely freeze it. And it just releases it for irresistibility to men. Number two
is the Maiden, and this is one that I want to start on because the Maiden is this beautiful
vulnerable side of the feminine that I don't think gets brought out anywhere near enough
in society these days. I remember when I went to this, this feminine energy workshop, the,
the first energy that women presented to us in the masculine that we were holding space
for was their, maiden energy. And I can remember this woman, uh, I opened my eyes and she was
in front of me and she was kind of half curled up in this blanket on her side, almost like
in the fetal position. And she was just looking up at me and giving me like the most beautiful,
vulnerable essence of herself. And I'd never met this woman like this was a vulnerability
that she dived into immediately. And she could go so far into it in this workshop and you
help women do this, how do, how do you help women get into this vulnerable side of their
energy and how does it bring him in?
Anya Grace: Love it. So the Maiden is one of my favorites, for sure, and she is really
the energy of softness. As women, our bodies are literally softer, we're more supple, more
gentle, and that allows our, there's more energy that we actually hold in our body in
a way where when a man enters us physically or even emotionally into our heart space,
there's this, the softness that we can create. So the, the Maiden energy is that allowance
to be soft and to be really receptive and responsive. So I like to have women just practice
this if they're in a partnership, if they're in a relationship in sex and intimacy, just
really allowing yourself to be fully responsive to his penetration. What that means is not
just in his act of penetrating, but also in his touch and in his gaze. Like how much can
you actually respond to that? How can his hand create this like actual ripple through
your whole body that when we allow ourselves to really respond to a man, he feels his power
and he feels that he has an impact in your life. And so that's really also that energy.
Mark: Yeah, and the charges us.
Anya Grace: Exactly. Yeah.
Mark: 100%! Don't forget as well, if you do want to get more into these energies
and if you want to learn how to embody these energies even more, me and Helena Hart wrote
your free book free total report on Seven Secrets to Becoming the Woman He Cannot Resist.
That link we'll put up here and in the description below. So number three, Anya, is the Princess
energy. Tell me about the Princess energy and how does this make a woman so vibrant
and attractive to men?
Anya Grace: Yeah, I love it. So Princess, I was actually really resistant to when I
was first creating this, these archetypes and working with these archetypes because
I always associated with her with just that needy sort of preppy energy that I wasn't
attracted to. It didn't seem powerful to me, but the more I learned about the Princess,
the more she stood out as actually a leader. And this woman who is totally coming of age
and everybody adores her and cherishes her in their life, and she is just the most beautiful,
really refined energy that is, I like to say that she's only ever known love. So she's
just offering love and kindness all the time and very playful, very spirit, you know, just
spirited. Um,
Mark: How do you help a woman get into that playfulness? If a woman's up and playful and
she goes, but my advice, by the way, it would be, take one from this video and think, how
can I embrace that energy more? Check out the guide as well for more tips on that. How
does a woman get more into that playfulness if she's like, I'm not a playful person. Well
you are, but how do we bring it out?
Anya Grace: Yeah, I mean it just find what makes you have joy in your life. It doesn't
have to be, you know, whatever makes you the happiest. Maybe it's your cat or maybe it's
playing with your, your kid. Whatever energy you feel when you are the happiest and the
most joyful, even if it's a memory from your childhood, think of that. Notice what, what
it makes you feel in your body and then connect with that feeling and bring that into your
life. Bring that into a party where you feel nervous or bring it into a date where you
feel kind of, you know, a little rigid and just bring that energy with you.
Mark: Number four is one of the most beautiful energies that that I've felt from a woman,
and this is one that many women will access a lot of the time and are good at accessing.
It's their nurturing and their caring energy. It's often referred to as the Mother and I
think the important thing with this energy is that it has to come from a place of abundance
when a woman is giving because she feels amazing and she just wants to give. She's not doing
it for a result. She's not doing it because she wants to get something from the man. Like
I'm cooking him breakfast because I want to get his love, or I want him to do a thing.
When it's coming out of pure abundance and it's the same for a man when we're doing things
out of pure abundance, not because we have an agenda to get something, but because we
want to care and we want to nurture, that energy coming from a woman that nurturing
energy in our lives, in a man's lives is, is irresistible. It's really one of the greatest
things about having a woman in our lives and it's, it's way better than sex or anything
like that that a woman brings to our lives. Number five, Anya, is the Queen. What is the
Queen and how do the women embody it?
Anya Grace: Yeah, so I think of a Queen as the woman who's elevated on her throne. She
works side by side with the King, so she's fully honored and respected for her gifts
that she offers in the partnership. She wears a crown, which actually represents this connection
to her higher self. This part of her that is connected to wisdom and understanding of
what's really good for all. It's not self-serving. So in that selflessness, in that, in that
connection to other people and caring about other people, she is highly honored and highly
respected. So she commands respect in a really graceful, dignified way. I like to use the
word 'honor' to describe the Queen as well.
Mark: I love the book. I don't know if you agree. I love the book, the Queen's Code by
Austin Armstrong. I feel it really does a good representation of that energy. If you
feel that's an energy that you want to get more into, I would recommend that book and
don't forget we've got the guide by me and Helena Hart available as well. Number six,
Anya is the Priestess. How does a woman embody the Priestess and how's it different from
what you might imagine to be the Queen?
Anya Grace: Yes, so the Priestess is really acknowledging that as women, our value is
in our energy. It's not in really the way we look. It's not in how much money we have
or what clothes are in our closet, what we do for a career. It's the way we feel ourselves
and how when we walk into a room, people feel something. When you're embodying your priestess
energy, you are a master of energy. So you're the bridge between spirit and matter. And
when a man enters your body, he is, it's a spiritual experience because you're actually
elevated to this place of your true power. You're not as much in the physical world.
You are connected to uh, to love ultimately.
Mark: So that's a very, a very deep one. What are the house like? How does a woman who feels
she's maybe disconnected from that spiritual side of herself her Priestess energy, what
can she actually do to get more into that?
Anya Grace: Yes. So the Priestess is, is very deep like you said. And this depth comes from
allowing ourselves to actually dive deep into our darkness and our pain as much as we cherish
those moments of light and joy. Because I like to say like when we embrace that darkness,
it carves us out and it makes us so intricate and powerful and the more we can really, you
know, embrace that darkness as part of our power and turn it into our light, that is,
we become just so expansive and beautiful I think as as human beings
Mark: Is this, side question, is this important for men too, to dive into this side of, of
their energy and the darkness to become more full? Is this, do you teach this to men too?
Anya Grace: I do. Yeah. Because you know what we are is exactly what we're attracting. So
you, if you want to attract a high value masculine man who can handle you in all of, if you want
to own your emotions and own your full power without holding back, you have to do the healing
yourself. Because it's not about ever being a victim. It's not about putting your emotions
onto a man. It's about being able to develop your inner masculine as much so you can handle
your own self. And then the level by which you develop that will exactly mirror who you
can, um, attract into your life.
Mark: Yeah. Nice, I love it. Yeah. And number seven is the Seductress. And I remember
when I went to this beautiful workshop in person, there was about w we were sitting
there in the middle of this circle and there had to been 20 to 24 women in their Seductress
around us all at the same time. And it was literally one of the most memorable, intense,
polarizing moments of my life because they were all so in their seductress, their sexual
energy. And it was almost like there was this vortex around, it was, crap, I can't, this
is why I was so passionate about doing this video because until I'd actually experienced
women going to the extremes of these archetypes in person and fully owning their feminine
archetypes and energies, I, you have to feel that. You have to kind of be there to
explain how powerful that is. And you can see how healing it is when they accept that
side of themselves. How does the woman get more into her Seductress and really own that?
Anya Grace: The Seductress is so powerful. The Seductress is when, so feminine energy,
it doesn't come from our head. You know you can watch as many of these videos as you want,
as you can, but it's, it really, you actually drop it into the body and you feel what you're
talking about in these videos and what you feel, your power from your body and your heart.
That's when you step into your true power. So the Seductress energy is going so deep
into yourself where all you care about is feeling good and experiencing pleasure to
the extreme. And that is the energy that's magnetic. When you're worried about how you,
when you're worried about how you look and what that guy thinks of you in that moment,
you're only tapping into that much of your power. When you dive into yourself and you
experience your pleasure, that is, it's like the whole world orients toward you. So the
other really important thing with the Seductress is she's tapped into all of the feminine energies
so she can go into the Maiden energy. In an instant and then a moment later she's in her
Queen and that is intimacy in sex and just in your life, like in relationship with a
man. He is. He's like from moment to moment, she's changing and it's like, Oh my gosh.
Mark: Yeah. She shifts in. It's just like, "Wow,!" Hey Anya's website, if you want to check
it out, how do they find you?
Anya Grace: Yeah, you can find me at elevatedwomantrainings.com.
Mark: elevatedwomantrainings.com make sure you check that out. Don't forget as well,
me and Halena Hart created the guide to the Seven Secrets of Being A Woman He Can't Resist,
so make sure you download that. It's up there and in the description below.
Mark: Anya, thank you so much for coming in and sharing your amazing feminine wisdom.
That was really beautiful. Thank you! Thanks for being here. I hope you enjoyed. Leave
your thoughts, your comments, your questions, any questions you have for me or for Anya
as well. Put them all in the space below. Which archetype do you feel you could embody
more or improve the most in? As I say, my advice would be don't overwhelm yourself.
Just pick one and go, all right, I'm going to really embody this. I'm going to spend
the next couple of weeks taking action steps to really embody whether it's my Queen, or
my Seductress, or my Priestess, my Maiden whatever it is, really embody that. And if
you really want to get more into your feminine energy and be irresistible to men, that's
the way to do it. So thank you for coming in, Anya. Hit the like button. Make sure hit
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