Jonathan Majors, the star of Creed III and Marvel's Ant Man Quantumania, was arrested
on Saturday, March 25, and charged with two counts of assault in the third degree, aggravated
harassment, and attempted assault against a woman, believed to be his girlfriend.
But now, Majors' attorneys have released the alleged texts that said girlfriend, and alleged
victim, sent him in a way to redeem him.
And there is one sentence in these texts that is incredibly common in cases of domestic
abuse.
I am not saying that he is guilty, but you will understand as soon as we go through those
texts together.
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The screenshot of a text exchange, seemingly between Majors and his alleged partner, and
provided by Majors' attorneys, was shared by TMZ.
Let's read between the lines.
"Please let me know you’re okay when you get this.
They assured me that you won’t be charged.
They said they had to arrest you as protocol when they saw the injuries on me and they
knew we had a fight”
OK, first of all, a woman was sent to the hospital.
And these details are not nice to know, but Majors is accused of hitting her, and I quote,
"causing substantial pain and a laceration behind her ear,".
There are also signs that he put his hands on her neck "causing bruising and substantial
pain."
That's plain old strangulation.
So it is truly concerning when the first text message that she writes when she gets out
of the hospital, is please let me know your OK when you get this.
OK, he could be under arrest, but she was sent to the hospital in a very bad way.
There is no way you can compare both situations.
Then she writes, they assure me that you won't be charged.
That sounds like she is afraid of Majors getting into trouble.
It begins to sound like she's trying to protect him, right?
That is one of the most important red flags in cases of domestic abuse.
And it doesn't matter if the abuse is physical or psychological.
Because I remember vividly the Case of Gabby Petito, when she insisted over and over again
to blame her self to whatever was happening with Brian Laundrie when they were detained
by the Utah police.
Now, let's continue.
They said they had to arrest you as protocol when they saw the injuries on me and they
knew we had a fight.
In this words, she is justifying herself.
And at the same time, she is being very clear that this was not a role-play or anything
alike, because she says they knew we had a fight.
So we are just getting started, and we already have a confirmation that this man sent his
girlfriend to the hospital, and the first thing she does upon getting out is trying
to justify what happened.
that has only one possible meaning: fear.
Now, it gets worse.
"I'm so angry that they did.
And I'm sorry you're in this position.
Will make sure nothing happens about this."
Three sentences: she's angry with the officers who arrested Majors, she is sorry that he
is in this position, and she goes as far as to say that she will make sure nothing happens
about this.
I only want to make a question with what we have read so far.
How many times something like this could have happened until she landed at the hospital.
Because in my experience with victims of abuse when they finally have the courage to break
free from those toxic relationships, it's because the abuser has crossed a line.
And sometimes, not even then.
But the most concerning line of text is the next one:
"I told them it was my fault for trying to grab your phone.
I only just got out of the hospital.
Just call me when you're out.
I love you"
I highlighted that sentence because that is the most concerning words of all those texts.
There is not a single time, where a victim of abuse will not eventually blame themselves
for what happened.
And it's something heartbreaking when it happens to a loved one and you feel like you cannot
help them.
Maybe it's your mother, or a sister, or a son, or a daughter, and you know they are
being abused.
Again, it doesn't matter if it's physical or psychological.
It has the same long lasting impact on their psyche, and it's far worse when they have
reached the stage in which they not only justify their abuser, but blame themselves for the
abuse.
Again, there is an investigation ongoing, so we cannot say that majors is guilty or
not.
But what I am absolutely sure her off is that you or someone close to you at some point
of their lives suffer some degree of psychological manipulation to the point that you sincerely
thought it was your fault.
And this is one of the most dangerous states in any relationship.
Because it means that you have lost enough self love to place the blame of the abuse
in yourself.
This doesn't happen overnight.
This always happens over a period of time that is usually weeks, or more like months.
We haven't even mentioned that according to the alleged victim, this was for trying to
grab Majors' phone.
Again, I'm glad that majors attorney's released this texts, but I really don't see in which
situation or in which multi-verse, these texts could actually help to redeem Jonathan Majors.
The next lines are just at reinforcement of what she has written so far.
I only just got out of the hospital.
Just call me when you're out.
I love you.
Now between this previous texts and the next batch of texts there is a gap of three hours.
And after those three hours, this is what she wrote:
"They just called again to check on me and I reiterated how this was not an attack and
they do not have my blessing on any charges being placed."
I already described what the police revealed about her injuries.
But she wants to double down in the version of the events in which this was not an attack?
that he sent her to the hospital?
"I read the paper they gave me about the strangulation and I said point-blank this did not occur
and should be removed immediately.
The judge is definitely going to be told this.
She ensured this to me."
This so-called paper is like a guide, when doctors spot the obvious signs that some kind
of strangulation has happened, they want to make sure the victim can recall the events.
Because anybody can pass out in these situations.
But she's more concerned with making sure the judge is told this.
That no strangulation happened.
But my question is, why the topic of strangulation was mentioned in the first place?
And the answer is, of course, doctors found signs on her neck.
"I know you have the best team and there's nothing to worry about I just want you to
know that I am doing all I can my end."
Again, reinforcing that self blaming and reassuring that it is HER who's gonna get HIM out of
trouble.
I also said to tell the judge to know that the origin of the call was to do with me collapsing
and passing out, and you're worried as my partner due to our communication prior.
Out of care.
She promised all will be relayed.
Again, she has just confirmed herself that she collapsed and passed out.
Well, we have two options here, then.
He either hit her in the head and knocked her out, which apparently did not happen,
or put his hands around her neck until she...
well, collapsed and passed out.
That sounds a lot like strangulation to me.
I wanted to cover this topic, because this is a recurring theme in victims of domestic
abuse.
Even when they try to justify what happened, they inadvertently revealed inconsistencies
and contradictions that ultimately expose the very people that they are trying to protect.
And as I mentioned at the beginning of this video, this is critical to spot in case one
of your loved ones are going through this kind of abuse.
Because they will genuinely believe that they are at fault.
And they will do whatever it takes to justify the actions of their abuser.
So, in the end, it boils down to your ability to spot this kind of signals before it's too
late.
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