I am sex and relationship coach Caitlin V. And today we are
talking about male grooming, aka man scaping and I am going to
cover it all from your head down to your toes. Why? Well, for
starters, grooming is a great way to express yourself. And
since men don't have all of the amazing, expressing themselves
options like bandage dresses, or, you know, things to dress up
with, I think that your ability to groom and how you choose to
style your hair, maintain your beard, teen your brows? Well, it
tells the world a lot about you and you best believe that women
are taking note. As with everything personal grooming is
individual to the person, and so are women's preferences on the
topic. What I will say though, is that no matter how you choose
to groom, women notice and are attracted to men who put some
effort into projecting their best selves. So whether you've
got a man bun, or a military cut, a big bushy beard or a
fresh clean shave, how you grill tells women a whole lot about
you. So in this video, I'm not going to tell you what's right
or wrong. Only you can decide that for yourself. I am going to
guide you through what I have broken down into the three main
manscaping categories and what they tell women about you. Also,
make sure to stick around to the end because I'm going to be
laying down three hot tips about how to groom with a woman in
mind. Because no matter what your situation is a pube in the
back of the throat is nobody's cup of tea. Let me know in the
comments where you fall in your personal grooming routine. How
has it changed over the years? And how does it affect your sex
life Sharing is caring. And I want to know, plus i read all
the comments. So check it out. Alright, without further ado,
let's break down some categories. Number one, the
precision room. I called this group of landscapers, the
precision room crew, these are the dudes that are really into
maintaining their locks. And I mean all of that we are talking
about the corporate hunks, the clean shave and the standing
appointment at the barbershop. Oh my god. So we are talking
about the guys who pluck their brows, wax their backs, and
shave their chests. If you're someone who keeps things
pristinely pruned, you fall into this category. For women, the
allure of the precision groomer is that this is a person who can
clearly take care of himself, it sends a message that you care
about your appearance and you are willing to put effort into
keeping things the way that you like them. It tells a woman that
you're organized that you can be counted on and that you can keep
up a routine. All of these things are great and super
dreamy. The downside is that sometimes it's intimidating for
women who aren't as meticulous with our own appearance. So if
you're one of those guys more power to you, just make sure
that the women you sleep with feel like if they skip a day or
a month or a lifetime of shaving their legs that they're not
going to be judged. And keep in mind that this can take a ton of
work and cost a lot of money. I once dated a really cute Italian
guy who had double jointed shoulders, and he used to shave
his entire back on his own. Now unfortunately, we can't all be
that guy and honestly the double jointed thing kind of freaked me
out no offense if that's you. But if you are a shaver,
especially if you keep a shave down there, I do ask that you
keep in mind the very, very real threat and danger. That is
cactus pubes, that shit hurts like a million little razors
stabbing your vulva and clear as at the same time, so I'm sure
also Do you know this if you've been with a woman who shaved
recently and she gets a little cactus prickly things going on.
There are ways that you can deal with it. You can soften that
hair, hot water oil, taking a shower and a bath or even using
a hot compress in a pinch to make sure that you are nice and
soft before you get in to the bedroom. By the way, if you ever
use oil on your genitals, make sure that you're not pairing
that with a condom. Because oil causes condoms to break category
to the medium man escaper. If you're laid back when it comes
to your grooming routine, but still keep things under control.
You fall into the middle category you serve maybe a
medium landscaper. These are the dudes that let that five o'clock
shadow grow into a full blown scruff. are the guys with beards
today tidy and oiled? I am talking to you hipster
lumberjacks and hot Professor types out there.
The media man's keeper doesn't worry so much about hair removal
but he does concern himself with maintenance. My experience is
that these guys, typically the carpet matches the drapes. These
are the men whose chests are rarely bare, but sometimes
trimmed. waxing or shaving is typically reserved for the back,
if at all and the pubes get a touch up when it comes to
length, but we rarely see a full shave or much shaping going on.
Because this group of men is right around the middle of the
manscaping spectrum, it also tends to be a safe bet that they
attract a wide variety of women, like you're in the middle of the
bell curve, which means you're going to attract the most women.
Of course, there are women who are into the highly ruined man
and those who are into the caveman look, we'll get to in
just a second. But the reason that the middle zone is such a
safe bet is because there's enough maintenance to keep the
ladies who like a tidy man and enough hair to attract the ones
who prefer a little more. animalistic luck. Middle man's
keepers project to women that they care enough about what they
look like to make an effort, but it's not their top priority.
They've got a laid back vibe and they tend to make the women that
they're with feel more put together by comparison. There's
also something super hot about an effortless Look, there's
something hot about being with a man who looks like he can chop
some wood. Don't ask me about it, it just his if you fall into
that category, and especially if you have a beard, there are a
few important things to keep in mind. When you're washing your
face. Be sure to scrub up into the beard. This is so close to
where her mouth and her face is going to be and any remnants of
like the drippy burger that you ate for lunch, or just you know,
your pheromones and your individual sort of Musk, your
bodily oils and sebum and all of that gets stuck up in the hairs
of your beard. So make sure if you've got a hot date that you
do wash it thoroughly and then follow up with a beard oil.
There is nothing I tell you nothing better than a attended
soft oil beard, especially if that oil contains like a really
really light scent. Like Gosh, I could just like crawl up in
their little nest for myself and live there forever. They love it
so much. And if you leave that hair totally unkempt and you
just like let it dry out and get all scraggly then it feels kind
of like the hairs that you may have in your nether regions.
Take a pubes pubes are great cubes are awesome. cubes are
fine cubes belong. They belong more cubes go not up here. Three
the extreme naturals. Does anybody smell chewy? I'll be
honest, this category is not getting as much love and
attention as it used to. But the truth is a can be super duper
hot. To keep things way
natural. I'm
talking long hair beards full on bush. What goes around comes
around and this look from the 70s is how do you see it as long
as you're keeping it clean. When it comes to grooming your hair,
you can do as much or as little as you want and still attract
the women that you want. But when it comes to hygiene, it's a
totally different story. See, hair care and hygiene just two
different things. The extreme natural guys are the free
spirited hippie types the burly modern day, caveman and anyone
who has watched that hot guy in Game of Thrones can totally
attest this look can be super sexy. When done right letting
your hair grow and flow can be a very hot vibe. IT projects to
women that you are easygoing, unconventional, even a little
bit rebellious. And there's an undeniable coolness to the guys
who can pull this off. But when done wrong,
you can have a bit of like Charles Manson energy, so you
got to watch out. Even if she loves watching shows about
serial killers, she probably doesn't want a day one. The key
to pulling off the natural look is maintaining your hygiene. So
like smelling clean and delicious, and wonderful. That
is going to make her want to visit all of your exotic
locations. Remember also that women's noses are a lot more
sensitive than men our ability to smell what you've got going
on including your pheromones and make decisions on whether or not
we want to have sex with you aka mate has been a part of our DNA
for hundreds of 1000s of years. So maintenance is pretty crucial
because we can smell you from a lot further away than you would
guess. And I've got a pro tip for you all out there. Invest in
some cheap old dry shampoo. It will help your hair look clean
and smell nice in a pinch if you don't have time to get all nice
and roomy. It's as simple as saying women are attracted to
men who take care of themselves. It is the 21st century and it is
time for all of us to just acknowledge that we live in a
world We're how we present ourselves what we look like how
we smell matters. If it didn't matter, then social media
wouldn't exist. Okay, it just does matter and there's nothing
wrong in it. But it is time for men to take responsibility
because it is not just us ladies who are getting plucked and
plumped and trimmed and waxed and pinched in product anymore.
Welcome to the future gentlemen, you get to enjoy all of it too.
So which of these three categories Do you fall into, I
guarantee that whichever it is, couple bits of simple
maintenance, easy to establish habits are going to add not just
a boost to your attractiveness, but also a boost to your self
esteem. Because women are going to be noticing you and you my
friend are also going to be noticing yourself. It actually
is an incredible boost to your confidence. And if you are
looking for more than just a boost to your confidence if you
want like a springboard rocket ship grenade launcher of
confidence, I invite you to apply for my coaching program
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