- So, in today's video,
I will share with you three reasons
that makes men lose interest in women fast.
And I will cover it for the ladies that just started to date
and for the ones that are in a relationship already.
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So, without further ado,
there are many reasons why men lose interest,
but today, I will share with you three of them
as we kind of been on my heart
since I've been seeing them
in my clients recently, quite a lot.
So, the first one,
it usually happens in the beginning of dating.
What might happen is after you date a guy for a while
and start to like him,
you might jump in and tell him how you feel.
For example, sharing your feelings
and telling him that you're really into him,
that he's your type,
or that you are developing feelings for him.
Maybe that you even fell in love with him.
Ladies, this is very off-putting for men
because not only you are coming across as a pursuer
and acting masculine,
but you are also putting pressure on him.
In order for a quality, masculine man
to pursue you and be into you,
you must be in your feminine,
and let him do the work.
Otherwise, you'll turn him off fast.
Ladies, please watch my video right here
for more detailed explanation
why you should not tell a guy how you feel.
Now, ladies,
I'm also talking here about the quality man
who has standards,
who can get the girls easily, (fingers snap)
who is confident, successful, ambitious, et cetera.
I'm not talking here
about the insecure, feminine-types of guys
who cannot get any women.
As ladies,
I'm pretty sure if you will approach this type of guy,
he will be more than happy
that someone is actually interested in him,
and might respond differently from what I have described
in the first reason.
So, the number two is giving him attention
will not get you attention from him.
Let me explain.
You are giving, pursuing, and going out of your way
to please a guy in order to get his attention,
or in order to receive more.
This simply is not going to happen.
While there are some exceptions, for example,
if he really loves you a lot,
and when you give him a bed, he might give you more.
But this only happens when both people
are in a healthy relationship
and love one another a lot.
If, on the other hand, he is awaiting you
and you giving in order to receive
or to get more attention,
most likely he'll just enjoy your giving for a bit,
but will not do anything back
'cause it will be forced from his side,
rather than feeling like it.
Ladies, he needs to feel like giving.
He needs to feel like sweeping you off your feet.
And if he doesn't feel like it,
well then, instead of giving him more,
you need to dig deeper and figure out why is that.
What is the actual problem?
Ladies, check out my video right here,
what is a woman of low value,
and most likely, you'll find the answer to that question.
Or alternatively, just book me or a member of my team
for one-on-one, and we will tell you what we think.
However, if you will ignore that there could be a problem,
and if you will just keep pursuing
and giving in order to get attention,
as my sister Yeva says, "It will not happen."
And he will just see it, like,
whoa, I'm putting in minimum effort
and getting maximum results?
And if he's not a very nice person, he might think,
well, let's continue this way.
It's cool.
Or, how desperate is she?
If he's a bit more of a nice guy,
he might feel guilty,
but you don't want a man to give you
because he feels guilty.
You want him to give you
because he feels like it.
Reason three.
When you put a blame on him
or when you call him out on something.
A lot of men, nowadays,
they don't go forward and apologize
or take responsibility.
Majority of the time,
they step back and ghost you,
hoping that you will forget about it
or that you are too scared to lose him,
so you will let this go and will come after him.
And if you do end up coming after him,
then you are just telling him,
"Whenever you are in the wrong and run away,
I will chase you."
So, in other words,
you're basically shooting yourself in a foot, down the line.
Unless, when you confront him,
there are stronger feelings from him already
and he's too scared to lose you,
then he's most probably will apologize,
or at least will take responsibility
for the wrong he has done.
However, if he comes and apologizes,
but in the long run,
if the blaming and complaining from your side
doesn't stop and it continues,
it's very likely that he will start to drift away
as he will start to lose attraction for you.
Yet, it does not mean that you cannot confront the person
when he did you wrong.
You definitely can and you should.
However, there are many wise ways to do it.
And ladies, remember,
confronting in a form of blaming and nagging,
always backfires.
It even says in the Bible, "Better to be on top of the roof
than sleep in the same room or stay in the same room
with a nagging wife."
Therefore, if you would like to know
how to set in healthy boundaries in a relationship
in a feminine way,
check out this video right here.
So, ladies, these were three reasons
why men lose interest fast.
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