Hey guys,
so are you nervous around women,
especially beautiful women?
How about are you really nervous around women,
especially beautiful women?
Well, I had an interesting conversation the other day
with a close girlfriend of mine
and her 20 something year old daughter
who's also very beautiful.
And what women think about your nerves
is actually a little surprising.
Welcome to just the tip.
So, of course, I'm always talking about relationships
in my friendships
and the other day I was chatting
with a really close friend
and her daughter was back from university
and we were chatting about
guys and nervousness.
And whether or not women find this attractive
or a really big turn off.
And the truth is
sometimes it's a good thing
and sometimes it's a really bad thing.
So, here's why.
If you're a little nervous around her
and she already has some attraction to you
then she's going to see that as endearing
you are a little bit vulnerable around her,
she can tell that she has an effect on you
and it's not a turn off
because she has an attraction to you.
So in this case,
your slight lack of composure
is actually a sign that you're being genuine.
However, if you're so nervous
that you can hardly form a sentence
or you're fidgeting a lot,
whether or not she's slightly attracted to you
or neutral or not
it is going to be a turn off.
Because then it goes from being
slightly nervous around her
because you're interested in her
even though she maybe
knows you well enough
or knows of you well enough
to know that you're otherwise
a pretty confident guy.
But if you're so nervous that you
just can't handle yourself around her
then that's a sign of low self-esteem,
low self-worth, not being masculine
or dominant enough.
And if you haven't watched my video
talking about dominance
I will definitely put a link at the end of this,
you're going to want to watch that one
really, really important.
One of the most attractive
and effective features
that women are attracted to
even when they don't want to be is dominance.
But there's good dominance and there's bad dominance,
so you're going to want to watch that one after this video.
And if she doesn't know you at all
and you display extreme nervousness
or social anxiety around her
then she's not going to have any inputs
from past perceptions of you
where she has experienced you as being
confident or dominant
or just assured of yourself in other situations.
And if you're so nervous around women
that you can't even approach them
then you end up waiting
for women to approach you
and what kind of women do the approaching?
Yeah, exactly dominant women
who are often what? Right, feminists.
So, do you want a dominant
masculine woman approaching you?
If you do, that's great
my videos are probably not for you,
but just be prepared
if she's masculine and dominant
at the very beginning
that's going to continue
and she's going to be the boss of you.
She's going to be the boss in that relationship.
And remember, just because she looks feminine
or she dresses feminine
doesn't mean she is feminine.
There are feminists out there
who are not butchy with purple hair.
So, if that's not what you want
then yes, you're going to have to learn
to approach women.
You're going to have to be the one to take the lead.
Because if you're interested in equality
and you want that equality,
it comes with some other side effects
that maybe you don't want.
It's much better for you to develop
some of your naturally positive masculine traits.
They're going to serve you in every area of your life
not just with women
and that's the key point there.
Positive masculine qualities,
not being a jerk,
you don't have to be arrogant
or loud or pushy to be masculine,
those are not positive masculine qualities.
You don't need those, you need not to have those
otherwise, you're only going to attract
emotionally damaged women.
So, if you're a little nervous take heart
it's usually going to come across as endearing.
But if you're so nervous around women
that you either can't even look at them,
won't approach them or when you do,
you just get so tongue-tied
and your body totally betrays you
by getting foggy thinking
and sweaty palms and nervous gut.
(Sigh)
Well, you need to learn
to be more confident around women
so you can display
your positive confident masculine qualities.
And if you want to know more about
positive dominance versus
negative unhealthy dominance
then you're going to want to watch my video on the three keys
to attracting and seducing
a high value woman in modern times.
And if you're like yeah,
I know that's positive
I know that's what women really want
but how do I get there?
I just can't do it.
Well, if you need some help
my WakeUp2Luv program
gives you the step-by-step guidance
for how to get there
in a non-direct but more effective way
so that when you do approach women
that you're attracted to
it is going to be coming from
a place of genuine confidence
and you get to learn
from where you're at
and go at a pace that
is mostly comfortable for you.
You can be
a masculine confident man
without being a bad boy player
or jerk and then you can be the kind of guy
to get the kind of good attractive keeper
rare bird that are out there.
So, buy my program,
do the work, get the girl.
Thanks for being here, God bless.
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