There are a few stereotypes that appear to circulate regarding each personality type.
These myths are caused by the flow of information that lacks real or relevant details.
People get these beliefs from one person they know or from not going deep enough when it
comes to understanding someone.
There are numerous misconceptions linked with each of the Myers and Briggs personalities
in the realm of typology.
However, one personality type, in particular, appears to receive the most attention: the
INFJ.
The INFJ personality type, considered to be one of the rarest of the 16 personality types,
is described as unusual and fascinating.
Some references go so far as to construct an entire romanticized narrative around the
INFJ, making them sound far from real, which can lead to a slew of misconceptions.
Today I will clearly separate facts from fantasy and talk about 5 Ways INFJs Defy The Stereotypes.
Be sure to watch to the end of this video.
I am confident it is going to be eye-opening and give you a lot of clarity for both INFJs
and those who aren't INFJ.
Let’s get into it.
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Starting things off for me today is INFJs Are Not Always Super Empathetic
INFJs have a reputation for being very sensitive to other people's challenges and problems—after
all, they're called counselors or advocates for a reason.
However, this does not imply that an INFJ is always eager to assist and nurture other
people.
Most INFJs are aware that they can be too courteous for their own good in some settings,
but they can also appear frigid to others who are unfamiliar with them.
True, INFJs have Extraverted Feeling (Fe) as an auxiliary function, which gives them
a broad knowledge of other people's feelings and needs.
However, it is vital to remember that an INFJ personality is characterized by Introverted
Intuition (Ni).
This means that most of the time, your INFJ friend is more interested in big picture concerns
than in solving your family problems.
They can, indeed, be compassionate, but only to a point.
Their focus is on the greater good of everyone and everything - not necessarily a singular
point of view.
Next up is that INFJs Do Actually Crave Recognition Too
One of the things that most people are surprised by when they learn that someone they know
is an INFJ is how much they despise being interrupted.
Most INFJ personality types have now trained themselves not to be affected by it, but it
still drives them crazy when people start talking over them, especially if the topic
at hand is something they are very passionate about and are very knowledgeable about.
This is because INFJs are renowned for being excellent listeners.
So you might not instantly link this personality type with a desire for attention.
However, there is a significant difference between desiring acknowledgment and being
an attention seeker.
INFJs are very private people.
When it comes to their own values and interests, though, they want a thorough understanding.
It's a bit of a conundrum, to be honest.
They are bad at complimenting themselves but want others to notice when they do well.
Also, an INFJ can be introverted, but they prefer people who understand their fundamental
motivations.
In essence, they are good listeners, but they also need recognition.
As long as it is the right kind of acknowledgment and not just recognition for the sake of attention.
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Number 3 on my list today is INFJs Appear Relaxed & Comfortable, But Only On The Surface
As happens with many introverts, people have always described an INFJ as quiet and soft.
Most people who know an INFJ would call them the "Zen" member of the group.
Apparently, to their eyes, they exuded an infectious air of peace and calmness.
What most people probably don't understand is that their minds are racing all the time.
INFJs may appear calm and collected on the outside, but there's a lot going on within.
It’s no secret that an INFJ personality enjoys spending time in their own little worlds,
but sometimes it can feel like their brain is always in multitasking mode.
As with most INFJs, their minds are constantly wandering.
They can be having a conversation with someone while simultaneously analyzing their body
language, thinking about how they perceive them, or even briefly musing about what they’ll
have for lunch.
Most of the time, other people may not be aware that they’re having all these thoughts
at once, but they do come up all the same.
In the runner-up spot, is INFJs Are Not The Most Outgoing Of Introverts
Another misconception about INFJs is that they are the most extroverted of all introverts.
While most INFJs may relate to being mistaken for extraverts on occasion, I wouldn't go
so far as to claim that INFJs are naturally more outgoing than their introverted counterparts.
Because INFJs have Extraverted Feeling (Fe) as their secondary function, they are frequently
extremely sensitive and tuned in to the emotions of others.
They are usually able to read between the lines and empathize with what others are going
through.
However, this does not imply that your INFJ friend will be comfortable initiating a discussion,
particularly with someone they do not know well or at all.
In truth, extroverted feeling is also about conforming to social standards and fitting
in.
INFJs are often concerned with what others think of them and fear making a fool of themselves.
So, yes, INFJs can be talkative and enthusiastic with people closest to them.
However, in large and unfamiliar social environments, this personality type will rarely take the
lead.
What are some of the most common stereotypes that you defy as an INFJ?
I'm sure there are a number of them.
Please let a comment and tell me your experiences below.
Topping my list and the number 1 stereotype INFJs defy is No, They Can’t Predict The
Future This has to be one of the weirdest myths associated
with the INFJ, but you hear it all the time.
I'm referring to the supposed ability INFJs have to accurately predict the future.
I hate to bust anyone's bubble, but that is simply not true.
The main function of an INFJ is Introvert Intuition (Ni).
This means they spend a lot of time thinking and love intellectual stimulation.
An INFJ's mind works by seeing patterns, fitting the parts together, and making conclusions.
However, this does not imply that INFJs can foretell the future or have a more expansive
vision than other people.
In reality, the reverse can happen.
When an INFJ has an intuition about something, they can become so fixated on it that they
lose out on what's there in front of them.
An INFJ's universe is always full with possibilities and ideas, which means they frequently think
far into the future.
They don't respond well when their intuitions are challenged, which can cause them to miss
what's going on beneath the surface.
This is because INFJs rely heavily on their introverted intuition.
Out of the 2 personality types whose dominant function is introverted intuition, INFJ and
INTJ - it is the most powerful for an INFJ.
This is a direct result of their combined unique and exceedingly potent blend of other
cognitive functions.
This video is going to take a deep look at why an INFJs intuition is so amazingly powerful
and how you can utilize it to its full potential.