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Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
On today's video, we're talking about some of the secrets signs that she's flirting with
you.
It's funny here because I use the word secret and it's a little bit redundant because flirting
in a sense is kind of secretive.
It's not necessarily a secret but it's subtle.
It's subtle.
It's something not overt.
When you're flirting with someone you're showing slight interest.
Flirting the whole idea behind it is used so you're showing a little bit of interest
and not too much.
And that's what people do when they're trying to get attracted to each other.
You flirt with someone.
When you're doing more grand gestures of love, that's not flirting.
That's just basically pouring your heart out to someone.
I wouldn't call that flirting.
Flirting is one of the best ways to get someone interested in you because it's mysterious,
because It's subtle.
That's the whole thing.
It's when there's a little bit of mystery behind it.
You want to know.
It's like when there's a present that's wrapped but you don't know what's inside of it.
It's like you see this wrapped present.
It's there, but you don't know what it is other than just this wrapped box.
There's some mystery so it makes you excited to want to open it.
There's that mystery there.
That mystery is what sparks attraction.
I also believe that when you're doing this mysteriously showing subtle interest, you're
also not coming off very desperate and you're not coming off needy.
Therefore it allows someone to want to like you because you're not seeing a lot of that
desperation and insecurity.
That's just the idea behind flirting so you get that.
Here's the thing though.
When some women are flirting with you, it's almost so subtle that you can't tell.
It's so subtle that you're not really sure.
What are some really big signs that she is flirting with you but it's just so subtle
that you don't notice?
Well I have a few here today that I'll be sharing with you.
Not that I think you're going to be doing this, but I just want to make sure I cover
all my bases.
Don't do these things.
These 3 things that we're gonna be showing you here today, don't do these when you're
flirting with the girl.
Don't take these and use these as a way to flirt with someone.
Just recognize that that's how the woman is flirting with you.
I'll explain why in each one why you shouldn't do this as a way to flirt with someone.
Instead just look at it as a sign and then afterwards I'm going to be telling you what
to do with these signs like what are you supposed to do when you finally see that a woman is
flirting with you?
We're gonna get into it.
First off, she's responsive to all your text messages.
Yes this is a sign that she is flirting with you, more than she's interested in you, but
definitely that she's flirting with you.
But I want to be very clear here.
This one is a sign.
However, it's not the biggest sign in the world because if they are responsive to your
text messages but they're not willing to meet up with you, this is a problem.
You have to make sure that they're willing to meet up with you or else it's really not
a true way of flirting.
They're not really flirting with you.
But I have to be very clear here.
All these are very similar in the sense that even if she's flirting with you that doesn't
mean she's interested in you.
You're always going to have to make sure that you leave the interaction and go for the close
which means you're always going to have to try to meet up with them or physically escalate
with them so you know that they're actually interested.
Because that's what flirting is.
Flirting is inherently so subtle that it might actually be a wrong sign.
You got to make sure that you're reading the signs clear but still I want to be able to
give you some of these signs so you can see if she's interested and then you can go ahead
and make your move.
Alright so she's responsive to all your text messages, everything you're saying she's responding
to whether it's a question or a statement.
There seems to be a lot of back and forth.
Remember, I said earlier, I don't want you to be copying this.
I don't want you to be the one who's using these flirting techniques.
These are just things that women are doing or people are doing in general that seem to
be flirtatious.
But I don't want you to do this because if you're always responsive to her text messages
and never actually asking her out, it doesn't go anywhere.
It's not gonna be a good idea for you to flirt in that manner.
We're going to completely remove any kind of text message flirting from your situation.
Facing you in conversation; this one is so underrated and I feel like people don't talking
about this enough.
If you first meet a girl and you do an approach and you're talking to her and she's completely
facing you in conversation, this is a way of her subtly flirting with you.
Because what happens when a woman isn't interested in conversation and talking to you, she will
make sure that she's not looking you in the eyes, that her body language is focused on
something else other than you so it's facing another way.
This is her subtly saying to you (well, not that subtly) but saying to you that she's
not interested.
I want you to pay attention for when she is finally matching your body language.
That means that you're shoulder to shoulder with her as if you're looking into a mirror.
A way for you to use this in your flirting is I want you to try to force this.
So when you're going over and talking to a girl, I want you to try to maneuver in such
a way where you are facing her.
She might not be doing it to you and it's not like you want to wait for her to face
you in conversation.
You want to just do that as soon as possible so you can make that connection.
People who are conversing with each other, who are making a connection with each other,
who are in an interaction with each other and mean it, are ones that are facing each
other as much as possible.
Of course, if she's sitting for example at the bar or she's facing in a way where she
can't actually physically maneuver towards you, just do your best until finally she can
eventually get to the point where she's shoulder to shoulder with you.
Meaning, across from you.
Just understand that you want to actually manipulate this.
You want to get to the point where you are doing this but just know that if you haven't
yet and she's doing it, this is a sign that she's interested in the conversation and it's
a way of her flirting with you.
You have to understand though that even if that's happening, that doesn't mean she's
interested.
Remember flirting doesn't mean interested, it just means subtle interest which could
lead to actual genuine interest in the way that you're going to figure out if she is
interested for sure is by asking her out or like I said, physically escalating.
Here's a good one and this is pretty big.
Smiling for no good reason.
If you're talking to a girl and she's just really smiley or she's laughing at the things
you're saying and you're not making any jokes but she just has a big smile on her face.
This is something where a person, whether it's a man or a woman, can't really help it
if they're having a good time, they smile.
If she's smiling when she's with you, if you're talking to her and you just met her or maybe
you're even on a first date and she's just smiling, you can see that this is a way of
flirting with you that is so subtle that she's not even doing it on purpose, she can't help
it.
A lot of the things that I'm talking about here are things that she's not doing on purpose
and that's what it makes it so secretive.
The fact that she is being responsive to your text messages, she's just doing that because
that's our natural reaction because she might be interested.
Or she's facing you in conversation.
She doesn't know she's doing it, but she is doing it.
Along with smiling for no good reason.
There's no reason for her smiling, she's just doing it because she's with you because she
potentially likes you and is at the very least having a good time.
You have to understand that these 3 here are so powerful, so powerful in the way that she's
interacting with you.
I want you to pay attention to them.
These are the 3 really good signs that she is flirting with you.
Then it's up to you remember to go for the close or physically escalate to see if she
is interested.
Meaning if you go for her number or you go for a date and she agrees to it, then you're
on the next step and she is interested.
Or if you're on a date and you go to physically escalate, meaning you go for a kiss and you
take it to that next level, if she's not reciprocating, she's probably not interested.
It all leads to is she complying to your advances?
My program Hooked which you can check out at Get Her Hooked dot com goes even deeper
into this topic.
Meaning how to know if she's for sure interested.
But more importantly, it teaches you how to flirt.
I actually have a whole module, it's an hour long inside of this program called Effortless
Flirting that teaches you the ins and outs, my best most powerful techniques for flirting
with women so they become attracted so that they know that you are interested in such
a way that does not look desperate, that does not come off cheesy and does not come off
creepy at all.
I teach you how to do it so covertly that it completely works with the woman that you're
talking to.
I teach you all of that and more at my Get Her Hooked program at www.getherhooked.com.
It's a whole 10 hour class that's going to teach you everything you need to know step
by step to be flirting with women and to be using your personality in such a way that
gets women to enjoy you, like you, become invested in you so you can get to the point
where you have that active dating life that you're looking for.
Check it out, www.getherhooked.com.
The link is in the description below or you can just type this URL in the browser that
you're on right now and you can learn more about that.
Don't forget these are key signs that she's flirting with you.
Responsive to your texts.
Facing you in conversation.
And smiling for no good reason.
Pay attention to all these when you're talking to her and make sure that you're getting it
to the next point and you're leading it all the way to you guys being in person and then
getting to the point where you're being physical and then you'll be off and running.