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- [Trevor] The wow
- [Lawanna] What was that?
Let me see.
- It's called the wow, you throw it up,
you see it up in the air, and you catch it and you just.
- That's a new dance
- It's called the wow, yeah.
- Let me see.
- You just. It's like not like wiping the window
but I mean like. You got to do it when like the beat drops.
- Yeah, it dropped.
- What do you remember from the first time we met?
- O my gosh, I'm so glad we can curse.
So, our mom got you at six months and you were a fat ass.
You were a little fatty, a beautiful baby.
I'm like, who would leave a beautiful child
like this but okay, all right,
but yeah it was just with the blonde hair I'm like
who little black baby is this, Yeah.
(laughing)
- Yeah, I don't remember the first time we met, so.
- Well your first recollection when you can remember
like o that's Lala.
- I think it was like first, second grade.
It was on the little patio at the clark house.
That's pretty much like all I remember.
It was like faint, I don't like remember anything.
I was just O Lawanna.
- Yeah.
- The funny one.
(laughter)
- When do you feel closest to me?
- Not even gonna lie, probably, when your yelling at me.
(laughter)
- Really, why is that.
- It just shows you care.
Pretty much, you don't want me to end up like a bum.
- So while I'm yelling at you.
Giving you the business.
- Yeah, the business.
- Why do you think I do that?
- Cause I fuck up.
- Why do you do that?
- I don't know.
- And remember when I told you a long time ago
If you don't know why you are doing something.
- You shouldn't be doing it.
- More than likely you shouldn't be doing it.
I'm need you to be a leader not a follower.
How do yo describe me to others?
I want to hear this.
- Funny, loud,
very blunt.
Nobody really asks I mean like that's pretty much all.
- okay.
- How do yo describe me
- You to others
- To others, yeah.
- It depends on who I'm talking
but in general, like he is so intelligent, he's so smart,
but he lies his ass off for some strange reason
and its really working my fucking nerves
but other than that very talented,
he's a Gemini like myself, this is what we do,
you know but I just want him to get it together.
That's something I do tell like people
that's very close to me
because I don't want you to be wasted talent.
Do you understand?
- Yes
- Okay, all right.
- Where do you think you misunderstand me?
- I don't think I misunderstand you.
I think that like I know.
You know you'll tell the truth
and sometimes I know its the truth
and I'm like I don't believe you
because you lie so much and I need you know like
I don't believe shit you say, you know what I mean.
'cause I need you to really understand
that going forward in life.
Your mother not always going to be there.
Your fathers past on, our father,
you know what I'm saying, past on.
I'm not talking about you biological mother or father.
I'm talking about who raised you, you know what I'm saying,
because when she's gone you have to think
and you know what's gonna happen to me.
Who's really gonna be their for me.
I have your back no matter what
but if you continue on as,
your 18 now, as an adult with the bullshit.
You are going to force me to step back,
and the streets are there.
Your a young black man,
do you understand what that means in this society?
- Yeah
- Some people looking at you from a far,
may think, you know, caucasica or whatever.
So whatever you identify yourself as is what it is
but understand you are a young black male in California,
south central L.A., number one on the list.
Do you understand?
So, when I'm going hard on you,
I don't want you to be incarcerated.
We love.
You have to look at what people do
and you learn from it.
- Yeah
- Okay.
- You good?
- I'm good.
- All right.
- I'm chillin', chillin' chillin', like a villain.
- What's something you think I need to hear?
- You need to hear.
- Please, don't hold back.
- I got to think about this one.
- Really?
I thought it would come off your head quick.
- Naw, not really.
- Like shut the fuck up.
(laughter)
- I'm not even gonna like that was
the first thing I thought about.
I'm not even gonna lie.
- Shut the fuck up.
O my gosh, you just get on my nerves.
I'm not lying
- That's probably what it is.
- You owe her.
- Your lying, you are.
- Probably just like chill out, just like chill.
Like its not that serious, like probably that.
- Yeah
- Just chill
- But it is that serous from do you understand
where I'm coming from.
- Yeah
- Now that you, but yeah.
That's the first thing that came to my mind.
Shut the fuck up.
(laughter)
- What's one thing I can do to improve our relationship?
- You can really talk to me, you really can.
you know what I'm saying like even with
you know like me being on your back.
I'm like just know you can come like,
Yo, this is what's really going on or whatever,
you know what I mean.
That's just, don't ever feel like you can talk.
You can talk to anybody, anybody that you choose to.
You know, your mom
- Yeah
- That's something different.
(mumbles)
- You know, yeah she gonna be like what.
- Get out of my face.
- Exactly, like you know what I'm saying,
you got brothers you should reach out to them.
You know what I mean. You should do that,
you really should.
Do you feel like that?
Like you cannot like.
- I feel like that with most of them.
I feel like if I say something they gonna be like
wait what, like, like
- Yeah
- Like hold on, like.
- I'm saying like with me do you feel like that too or like?
- No, not really.
I feel like your the closes one I'm too.
Out of the who family.
- I feel like that too.
- Yeah, I don't know, maybe cause we're Geminis.
- Maybe.
- We just connect.
- 15, 12, no 13
- Yeah, 12, no 12, 12
- O is on the 13th.
When are you the proudest of me?
- Proudest of you.
- Are you proud of me?
- Yeah, probably when I heard you graduated
out of college in New York, that one
- I was just like.
- I got my masters.
- I was just like o.
- Criminal justice.
- Nice, I like criminal justice.
- Yeah
- I was just like she's doing big things.
- Yeah, I was happy for that like with
the going back to school.
I mean you know being a nurse after all that time
and going to a whole different field of criminal justice
and do you know why I went into that
because this justice system is so.
- Horrible.
- Its a conveyor belt.
You just see so many of us, black and brown incarcerated
but I went back for my family, for.
And then the passing of our father.
That was, that right there was.
I have an ugly cry.
(laughter)
- I do, too.
- But that was for Mr. J.
That accomplishment.
- I love you.
- I love you, too.
- I lost my card.
- Yeah, so I didn't really, the degrees.
I don't really give a shit about stuff like that
as long as your happy but after all that stuff happened
when I was standing there I was like, this is for you daddy.
Cause that was my best friend.
I didn't come here to cry but shit happens
- Yeah
- Nick, where's my tissue.
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