Hey man, what's going on? Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Today I have a special
guest. Her name is Kasey Neill. And she's a sex and intimacy expert that is going to
help teach you the art of fingering. You want to learn this because this is absolutely 100%
gonna happen once you're getting sexual and intimate with a woman and you need to know
the proper way on how to do it so you can have more fulfilling experiences and be able
to completely blow her mind in the bedroom. If you're having trouble getting to that point,
you can always get my Hooked program. There's a link in the description down below. This
is the program that's going to help you get to the point where you're meeting lots of
women and then be able to have these experiences that Kasey will be talking about. Check that
out if you still need help. Otherwise, here's Kasey Neill. Check it out. Hello. I'm Kasey
Neil. I'm a sex and intimacy coach who specializes in helping men like you have the hot, juicy
sex life that you desire for the rest of your life. Tripp invited me here today to give
you 3 tips on how to finger your woman so that she is begging you for more. So excited
to talk about these. They may seem really simple, but I promise you, if you do this
with your woman, she is not only going to be begging you to do this more, she's also
going to be letting her girlfriends know when you're not around how amazing you are in bed.
And I promise you, you want that as well. The other thing I want to let you know is
that every woman that you're with is going to be different. And what I mean is every
woman's got a different speed that she likes, pressure she likes, movement that she likes
and more when it comes to getting her off. These tips are basic for any woman that you're
with. Now with each woman that you're with, I will recommend that you ask her straight
up what it is that she likes and what is it that she does to get herself off. If she doesn't
want to necessarily tell you or if she's telling you and you're not quite getting it, what's
even more fun is to invite her to show you. And she can show you in two ways. If she's
a little bit shy, a little bit apprehensive, one way she can show you is on your hand.
Have her show you what is the pressure. Is it really hard or is it light as a feather?
What's the speed like? Is it slow at first and then it speeds up really fast with more
pressure? Does she like it up and down? Does she like multiple fingers? She's gonna let
you know. What's even more fun and what I have my partner's do is have them show you
by masturbating. I want to know what it is that they do. What are they watching? What
are they thinking? Is it slow in the beginning and fast near the end? Do they like to go
up and down? Is there any insertion? I'm fully present with my partner watching everything
that they do because I know that if this is what gets them to orgasm and if I do it, I'm
going to get them to orgasm. Now that we have that out of the way, let me do the 3 tips
that are going to make her beg for you to do this. The first one is warm up. You want
to warm up a woman's body and it's not just her vulva. You want to warm up her whole body.
This is things like massage. This is things like making sure that the bed is comfortable.
This is things like making sure that the room is a little bit warm. That the music sounds
really great. Set the stage for it. It takes between 15 and 20 minutes for a woman to orgasm.
You want to make sure that you have things set up so that she can fully surrender and
open herself to you so that she's ready to go. Other ways of warming her up or just playing
with the pussy. Just revering it, looking at it, worshipping it, telling her how much
you love it. Playing with the labia, playing with the perineum, playing with the clit,
playing with the inner and outer thighs. Everything. Give it full attention. Take your time. Which
is going to bring us into the second one which is slow the F down. Let me tell you that again.
Slow down. There is no rush. You do not have to rush. If she is ready for you to go down
on her, you've won. Taking your time. Literally go slow. If you think you're going slow, go
even slower. Take your time with it. Ask her to tell you. What is it that she wants you
to do? Play with the different areas. Just go slow. Don't go right into penetration and
do this. That's what we see in porn. Don't do that. Don't go on the clit and do this
in the very beginning. We need to warm ourselves up and get aroused. The more you arouse us,
the more we want you. Doing this is gonna help you with that. And then the next and
final thing is to use persistent and rhythmic stimulation while maintaining presence and
focus with her. What do I mean by that? Persistent rhythmic stimulation is when you are noticing
that her breath is increasing, she's breathing more, you're hearing more moans, the sound
is getting louder, her body is getting tense. She might be getting flushed. She's getting
close to orgasm. What we need from you guys is to keep doing what you're doing. Don't
stop. Keep doing what you're doing. If it's working, keep doing it. The reason for this
is if you change it up, my body might go into shock and it might not know what's going on.
And so it's going to take me a while to get back into my body, get back into the arousal
and get back into where I'm like okay now we're back at it again. If it's working, keep
doing it. Please don't change. The other thing is maintaining presence and focus. The more
you're paying attention to her, the more you're paying attention to what her body's doing,
the bigger the turn on is for her. There's nothing I love more than watching my partner's
body and watching what they do as I'm doing the movement. I can tell what they need based
on their movements. And again guys, this is going to help you win. Big time. The 3 things,
warm her up, slow down, and if it's working, keep doing the same stimulation that you're
doing. Alright that's it. If you would like more information, I have a PDF that gives
you the top 10 tips on how to get her begging for more and you can email me at ask Kasey
which is askkayce@gmail.com. I'll have you fill out a short survey and get you over that
PDF right away. Or if you're interested in working together, you can go to www.xokacey.com/schedule.
Again that's X O KAYCE dot com slash schedule. Have a delicious pleasureful day.