there it is a nurse living in the u_k_ cool basically takes care of people at
the last weeks of their lives right and she decided to start surveyed band you
know right before they pass and ask that what do you regret most in your life and
what do you wish you can redo anne the answers were very very interesting and i
think it's something that we can all learn from so that's why i've read in
the sorry t right now
so another
one thing that people i would say is that they wish that they had the courage
to live life true to themselves rather than what others expected of them
yeah i love that that's so true
also said
that they wish to be
had worked so hard
wrong again
value
right here in a guy who's who's doing the survey about the majority and then
out that she had not been a while and back but she said that the majority of
that had that answer
the f_b_i_ that look at how people in the case and i'm not surprised by that
answer because it is the argument about that in your next on your whole life we
work it out so
he realizes that like
when i do that
i liked what was this post an endpoint wherever water from a and we lose sight
of the fact that it was towards an end goal and some of what passed yet the bag
also must own and then you get lost in the in the process
at now the reason that i have an disagreed for
with it for my son is that i'm very very lucky and i a do a job that i a lot
and so to me
be able to succeed in that job being able to do it forcefully winning et
cetera of and gillian actually learning and in the sharing with people is great
so i don't think that on my death but i think liked i did too many talk shows
prospective like it's possible that's possible but probably one very rare so
im died so i made it clear but also
if think about it not a personal level and you know for people in general
like when you become obsessed with work as much as you are right where you're
here all day long everyday there are certain aspects of your life that you
kinda miss out on
and i think that that's what people really think about what they're on their
definite and it doesn't matter fear factory worker doesn't matter if you're
doing a career that you absolutely love i think people in the end kind of feel
that way
and here in the united states you work
as hard as you possibly can blood sweat and tears non-stop everyday
they wanna take retirement age away from us and move it up to like seventy five
assassin a to be fair okay but it's right in that direction material right
so
backpackers stuff is really
troubling to me you know i understand and looking so it's time for drinks
lifeless spoke
so i think that this is your kinds of happiness to you should uh...
try to go for one is listen others bus
okay bosom buddies so blesses when you are pass it on paper for merely sitting
at home on a couch watching football eighty minor leaguers there relaxing or
go to a movie going on vacation a separate and then buzz is however you
get your buzzing in my deeply principled one minute by basque on the weekends it
might be news in your job and that you get a certain buzz out of that might be
gambling etcetera
and you need it to the right balance of those who thinks sobel here we go out
for is bosnia burned out by
you need some time to relax a center and these are all in the new ronna that we
actually get to pull that off all you know actually putting enough food on the
table for a family etcetera etcetera
but you know
but the reason we tell you all this is don't lose sight await your and it what
you're supposed to be working towards
because allot of people think
well you know i'll get that out later but in the meanwhile hot
have to do x_ y_ and z_ and some of that is very justified
abbott every single day
you know absolutely
but don't forget that your life is lit lived
in the meanwhile
you know like he's even meanwhile the meanwhile but there's no magic point
where you reach seventy one rs sixty one or whatever it is
uh... i've done
and and now what it is for us so
the birthday
now sixty one seventy one has its own downsize and when you get there you
might not have the things that you want it
life between one and seventy one it's a lot more important delighted to be
seventy one and however long you happen to live
so that part of your life is what you do every day
the ceo to make sure that you can enjoy that whether it's the
having a job that you served that you actually enjoying doing the things he
wants the first thing that they said and others have enough time to relax with
your family friends et-cetera
life lessons brought to you by the onto here's the thing that i thought about
immediately after reading this article and it was published in the guarded by
the way
outside heidi's eleven some people and
does your your conclusion up like seriously i think that we always forget
that were in it dot
out here so that it doesn't often forget that
light by pricey even to the point watch everybody did your whatever meet around
like if i see some pretty flowers right like i've got a so pettit high could be
dead to me
uh... articulate so you might be on one barrel i have that seems to be the
reaction you happy birthday party i think that's a crazy way to look at life
but ok and then my have my dad always do something for eating too much a review
bad stuff right date yet
spirits
yeah but i don't wanna get to the age of like seventy eight month haha read
broccoli for seventy eight straight years
i made it a while
i think this is what i was a so yeah i i mean within balance within the right
balance right before she should be two things that you love because of seeking
to part of life alright f a few other things that were mentioned
i wish i had the courage to express my feelings i feel like you and i don't
really have much of a problem with that hahaha highways and stay in touch with
my friends
uh... and also i wish i were at myself be happier
now but uh... i think that's uh... that i have a problem at all the time
and uh...
and i feel like i have to burn it to some degree
i think maybe a lot of people feel this way hopefully happy no no i i am luton
within my personal life extra money have to defector today
but sometimes again stresses setup especially morgan
in my life before anything right
i don't get to be happier i haven't checked off x_y_ and z_
right uh... and then i realized you
it's okay to beat you're actually on happy
i'm sorry you're actually happened
like if you're actually happy that's a terrific that yeah don't let anybody
talk uh... this by the way people are better and did you try to target like
all i guess you're going to go and do that
not when you have an even on this
anymore and service
apparently so