the power of thoughts we all know this we all read Eckhart Tolle the power of
now the untethered soul all of it sounds so amazing but tell me that's not hard
being the observer of your thoughts it's like control your thoughts I mean
it sounds really good but it's tough I work on it every day but it's also the
greatest gift in the entire world we could give ourselves what's standing
between you and your next level yes last night the girl the lady asked I forget
your name I'm sorry you know what questions should you ask
what's standing between you and where you want to go is always the story
between it your next level there's only a story between here there's no physical
guard there's no guns there's no blockade it's what's going on
in here and when you can understand that your thoughts can make you have a great
day or a bad day when you understand that your thoughts are things and
they're not true in most cases your thoughts lie to you I live we had this
conversation with my dad about a month ago I said if your thoughts ever lied to
you he's like I don't think so I said no I said ever in your life think someone
you were dating didn't like you Navarro they're actually talking to someone else
and it wasn't true he's like oh yeah I remember this story you ever think a
friend cheated you or ignored you or didn't call you to go the movies and you
got upset and got worked up and then it wasn't true yeah and I named like 10
things he's like yeah thoughts lie to you I said of course they do over and
over again but you could step back and check that thought and just make it a
habit I'm not perfect at this but I obsess on it every day when I'm in a
good mood I want to observe what I'm thinking so I can have more of that when
I'm worried stressed or a little anxious I want to know what those thoughts are
what makes me anxious when I feel like I have everything everyone and why am i
anxious today and I'm looking a holy crap that thoughts been hanging around
since I was 14 that one's got to go so I want to give
you a little story it's the greatest gift that you could give your family
yourself in your company for the next week obsess on everything that you do
after the fact and observe what your thinking was to actually make it happen
and I want to simplify it again I always want to tell you I'd love to give you
all these things think you can go do them all and life's perfect I understand
you're busy you got life you got a million different
influences so I want to give you the things that you could just plop in and
not make a big deal out of it just observe your thinking good mood just
step back say I'm in a good mood bad mood step back and just look at the
thought I want to give you an example of because I've been obsessed on this
mostly the last 18 months kind of obsessed for five years obsessively 18
months last six months ridiculously obsessed so I'm a breakfast with my kids
and my son has this crazy memory so he's got these crayons a box of like 40
crayons and they're not like red blue and pink they're like lime lime green
tequila gold like they're all these exotic names right and he's loving these
crayons and he pulls one out and he goes dad look at this color I'm like oh
that's cool is that green he goes no it's lime exotic to kill a Gold I don't
know I'm making that shit up but so he remembers it and I'm like wow you
remembered that one and he pulls out another one like what's that one and I
grab the box from him and I go through this this little guy remembered all 40
names I couldn't remember all 40 if I studied for six months so I'm like dude
that's amazing that's your gift that unique ability my daughter's sitting
there sees all the praise he's getting and says I can do that like that's not
your unique ability God gives us all unique abilities dad couldn't do it but
you're my inventor you're the visionary my son's the implementer if they ever
would like each other enough to be partners they'll be badass so so my
daughter goes in the other room she studies she goes then I got this pull
the first one out what do you think she gets it wrong and like Bri we all and
she starts crying that's not like her she's like upset and I'm like baby no no
I said you have a gift Brody doesn't come up with the ideas you have I'm like
sorry tell her about her gifts and she blurts out and she says it's because you
spend more time with Brody in the morning like so me thinking I'm doing
this right I said or Briana don't tell yourself a lie and don't tell me a lie I
spend equal time with you too and I go in that phase right and all of a sudden
she tucks it down she goes from crying tuck sit down she gets dressed or she
gets ready and it's the first day she left since she was born without giving
me a kiss going off to school and I'm like it's all right she's learning
lesson until she left and I could our relator I'm walking
around and I do what I'm sharing with you I observed my thinking and like oh
shit like literally just like that I'm not kidding you and I'm like I just told
my daughter her feelings don't matter that's what I told her she tried to
express whether right wrong or other ways that's how she felt in that moment
and what I told her was your feelings don't matter tuck it down go to school
if she gets married to a guy does it through I'll kick his ass and if he's
bigger than me I'm Italian of someone kick his ass and all of a sudden I'm
feeling this and I'm like oh my god I literally got in my car I blew a couple
red lights I drove 90 miles an hour I got to her school because the best way
to fix stuff is just fix it right not think about it because I observe this
thought again I'm just giving this lesson of what it does for you because
you can observe these things like like a third party so I get to this school and
there's two people waiting in the line at the principal's office so you're
supposed to get the little tag and put the name thing on and sign in I like the
hell with I jumped the fence and I ran across the the field where they all play
right the playground and I'm like imagine if teacher sees means give me
911 like there's a security guard if the school's gonna tackle me I could care I
literally jumped the six-foot fence I knock on her door she comes out and like
baby
dad made a bad parenting decision your feelings matter to me I got on my knees
I'm like baby your feelings matter whether you believe that or not thank
you I said whether you believe it whether I believe you or not whether it
was true it doesn't matter that's the way you felt in the moment I should have
acknowledged your feelings dad was wrong and we talked we hugged we kissed I
literally left sobbing like a like like I was like bye baby
like literally sobbing and then I was in a great mood I the radio cranking I felt
amazing but it never would have happened if I wasn't the observer of my thoughts
and I'm not great at it I'm not perfect at it but make it a part of your life
and watch how your life changes wherever it is you want to go when you have that
vision remember what's standing in your way is nothing more than a thought and I
tell people all time I'll sell them I'll send my daughter sewing but I don't
think it should give me the story I'm like can you go grab me that story in
the other room can you go grab me that thought no you can't grab it it's only
in here Bree or Brody it's only in here so let's just change that font and all
of a sudden there's nothing in your way that's not physical it's in here what's
up what's up hey before you go you need to watch these next few videos they're
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