Rejection can be so tough when it comes to a girl that you like. And I get how frustrating it can be
when you're trying to attract a girl, especially one that you're really interested in. And then
once again, you come to the point where she's just not that interested in you. Once you learn
these 3 secrets today that most guys don't know, you're going to be able to get to the point where
women are going to start paying attention to you, and not just pay attention to you. But they're
actually going to start to chase you if you do this correctly. And stick around to number 3,
because this one's going to be one of the most important ones to really tie everything together
here for you. First, you want to react unemotionally to everything. Another way
of saying that is you're going to be nonreactive to everything and anything that's happening when
you are with her. But let me explain, I don't mean that you're going to be a complete zombie with no
emotions whatsoever. Obviously, you're human and that's going to be very robotic and weird. But
what I'm saying is you need to not react too harshly or emotionally when things come up in
conversation, or something happens that can really kill the mood. Here's a few examples. For one,
let's say that you're going out with a girl, and they're a little bit behind on the reservation,
and you have to wait an extra 15 minutes. Well, the guy who's going to be very reactionary is
going to be complaining about it, going to be upset about it, obviously in a bad mood.
Or you can have the guy who's reactionless, who's more stoic, and realizes okay there's
a problem and there's nothing we can do about it so let's just have a good time. In the meantime,
let's say that she teases you or make some light fun of you and is just joking around.
Are you going to get defensive? Are you going to be a person who is going to just try to make sure
that you look the best and not take any shit from anyone? Or are you going to be a guy who's going
to be able to go along with the joke and just be reactionless to whatever she's saying? So of
course, if she tells a story, or she's engaging with you in conversation, this is not a time to
be emotionless and reactionless. Yes, react to that. It's just those little moments where
she's going to be looking to test you to see is this guy going to be full of reactions in
a situation that might be uncomfortable? Is he not going to be able to take a joke? Is he gonna
complain a lot? Is he going to show me that his life is really hard? Once those things happen,
you start to lose attraction. Number two, women are not going to be with a guy who doesn't have
some sort of purpose or vision for his life. Now I know a lot of guys, especially you, you might be
commenting down below that step one be attractive, step two have money. And yes, those things help.
The most important thing you can do if you're not super tall, if you're not super attractive,
and if you're not super rich, is have purpose and vision. Because if you have that women will be
attracted to you. They just want to know that you have a life, that something's going on with you,
that you are in love with your career, that one day you might be successful, or maybe you are
successful right now. And that doesn't mean making multiple six figures, it just means that you're
on some sort of path and mission and purpose. And you can be 22 or you can be 50 years old or 60, it
doesn't matter as long as you have something going on in your life, a life that she can be part of,
then you will see that she will be head over heels and will want to continue to spend time with you.
It's those guys who have nothing going on, who are at home on their parents' couch, completely lazy,
no friends, just nothing going for them. Those guys are not able to attract women as easily as
the others. Next, you want to make sure that you have her feeling something emotional around you.
That means that if she doesn't have any spike of emotions, she's not going to want to continue to
be around you. And here's the real secret. The emotion can be one of many. It can be happy,
it can be excited, it can be scared, although we'll get to that, you don't want to scare
her. It can even be dangerous. It has to have something because if there's no emotion in your
time hanging out with her, in your interactions and conversations, she won't remember you and
attraction can't be built. So when you're with her, you want to joke around, you want to make her
laugh, you want to be flirting with her. You want to be doing stuff with her out of the ordinary,
like going on an adventure. I remember a time when, and I know this is gonna sound lame, and
I've never done it since but God did it work. I told a girl before she came over on a second date
to bring over three random objects. I told her what to bring. I said when you come over, I want
you to bring a pen, garlic salt, and a scissors, three random objects. Why did I do this? Because I
wanted to give her an idea that something weird, interesting is going to happen. Now I'm not
telling you this so you should do this. It's not really good advice. But it's a great example where
a girl came over she actually brought those things and she was very intrigued of what was going on.
Now I didn't have anything going on and I made a light joke of it just to tease her and see if she
would actually bring those things. Again, not something you should do, it was a weird pickup
tactic that I used. But it worked. And the point being is that when you're doing something out of
the ordinary, when you're not like the rest of the other guys out there, and you're able to spike
those emotions, she's gonna remember you. If you guys are going on a roller coaster ride or doing
something fun and adventurous, spike of emotions, she's gonna remember you. If you're driving really
fast in your sports car, she's going to remember you. Now I know that some of these things might
not be practical advice, but one way you can spike emotions is through your conversation and
the way that you flirt with her. And I actually have a video that you can watch right after this
one that's going to teach you exactly what to say to a girl when you're flirting with her to
spike those emotions. And if you're struggling to do this on your own, and you feel like this
is a big leap to get to the point where you're making women attracted. You can always come over
here to the Tripp Advice Accelerator coaching program where you can get a one on one coach
that will teach you everything that you need to do to get more women interested in you whether