this video will show you three ways to attract a relationship using reality
tram surfing I'm going to share with you ways and steps you can take in order to
create that in your life using this powerful manifestation process welcome
back to another video my name is Erin and I help people expand their
consciousness now as I've been sharing a lot on this channel about the idea of
reality train surfing which is a manifestation process that was written
in Russia by a Russian quantum physicist it's now being translated to a whole
bunch of different languages kind of like the best-kept secret when
it comes to manifestation or like the processes we can use to create what we
want in our life because we written by a guy named videos eland there's five
books in the series what I've been doing is I've been sharing the content the
information from it breaking it down and easy-to-understand
ways and examples using the process itself so first off let me just say that
what I did is I was actually recommended this book from a friend to read it I
read it I started to apply it and things just started happening so much easier
there's a couple concepts in the book that if you apply it makes things so
much easier for them actually happen and some of them actually go against the
grain of what we learned with the law of attraction and even though they do they
bring in the eastern philosophy of detachment of letting go and of really
just having the awareness of parallel realities which is something I've
mentioned a lot especially in the beginning of the channel maybe like a
year ago so now I'm kind of getting back to that kind of explaining it and I
recommend you just to simply try it for yourself and to see if it works don't
just take my word for it but I've had a whole bunch of people emails me since
I've been sharing this process telling me that it's been working so I'm gonna
keep doing I'm gonna keep making videos on it and this video is the three steps
we could take in order to attract a relationship so how can we apply reality
tram surfing to that of attraction what we want in the form of a relationship
now first off let me say that just to give the context for what reality Tran
surfing is it's a process and more of a way of thinking it's a philosophy on
life and the way things work and then within that there is the manifestation
process that we can be using now first off it comes with this
awareness that there is what is called the alternative space this is what you
can think of as infinite number of parallel realities now any possible like
a mat is something you can imagine when it comes to parallel realities any
possible it's called a variation or potential that you can imagine exists
right now in this moment now the idea to make it a little bit easier is even as I
go like this right now I'm shifting through different parallel realities as
I do this the only moment that exists is this moment right now and what we think
of continuity is actually the brain able to piece together the different parallel
realities think of this like a filmstrip but if we had like a filmstrip where the
light goes through and it makes a movie it looks like one continuous moving
picture but in the actuality there's different frames that overlay each one
and if you were to stretch out that filmstrip you would see individual
different frames now the idea behind this is understanding that every
possible reality you can imagine and when you think of reality transfer theme
think of it like surfing through those different parallel realities think of it
kind of like a wave and you're like surfing on a wait you know there's
certain principles that go into that that make up what that works like the
idea is you know when you think of a way for example you can think of you can
have an intention to go on the next wave that you see coming up but it's not like
you're controlling every different aspect of it you have the inner
intention to go on the wave the way you want but the idea is the outer intention
is the form of the wave and that's one of the concepts in reality tramp surfing
there's something called inner intention and outer intention now just to get
clear the most powerful thing that you can do to create what you want your life
is to simply set more intentions when you set intentions that is kind of like
the direction of you pulling from those infinite parallel realities you are then
pulling the potentialities from there by setting intention and most people just
simply don't set intentions and therefore they don't get the results
that they want now the idea behind reality train surfing as well is that
there is something called pendulums pendulums are thought structures that
are teamed up from people so think of it like this every
time we think of thought we put it out there it actually has some type of
electromagnetic existence now we think thoughts throughout our day
and constantly we are putting something out there not the idea is that other
people may be thinking thoughts as well and that is all going into the
environment think of the collective consciousness as in a way having a
thought bubble around the whole planet and every time we think thoughts
consistent to something else to somebody else those thoughts team up together and
in a way it creates a thought structure so many times we may think that we are
having the thoughts of ourselves when in reality we are absorbing a pendulum of
some belief system of some type of ideology
you know there's pendulums around any kind of like constructed ideology you
can imagine like for example being republican-democrat being for certain
sports team there's a whole pendulum around NFL and NBA there's pendulums are
on all of this and that's why when you go to a game you may feel the energy of
the crowd where you're feeling the energy of a pendulum now not all
pendulums are bad but the idea is to be aware of what pendulums may be having
power over you and how to become aware of it and then decide how you prefer to
live now the other parts we'll get into in a minute but that gives a very
general context for what reality Tran surfing is and the first one the first
step you can take to attract relationship into your life has to do a
mix of two things one it's acting on your passion when we create from the
space of connecting our heart to our mind what we do is we start to become
the-best-version-of-yourself and that's when in reality Tran surfing
you have the most leverage and you're most likely to go on what it's called a
life track of what you want to experience now you might be like how
does that relate to attracting a relationship
well the idea is that you get a one-on-one reflection of who you are and
if you aren't following your passion if you aren't on that highest life stream
of those parallel realities you won't meet the person that resonates with you
in that deep way you might meet somebody that resonates with you know the version
of you that doesn't do what they want to do for a living so therefore it's like
there's maybe potentiality for that to grow but at the same time you want to
meet the best person that's a one on reflection for who you want to be you
want to become whole and complete already so that you meet somebody else
that's also whole and complete so that you're not in a codependent relationship
where you're bouncing and kind of reacting to the other person and playing
out with us you know could be called karma so the idea is to become the best
version of yourself by following your heart by following your passion by
choosing the lifelines that coordinate with you being excited to do what you do
so that's the first part the second part of this number one is to set an
intention simply set an intention that you are going to meet somebody that
resonates with who you prefer to be and as you set the intention you are putting
the direction out there and from there that's where everything really starts
just see synchronicity in your life you start to see things coming back but
remember this is the important part as well life is like a mirror it will
always reflect back to us who we are how we are feeling and our beliefs that we
have now the thing is is there is a delay process between us looking into
the mirror and us seeing our reflection so sometimes we might say I've changed I
feel whole and complete I don't need somebody else to make me feel happy and
there may still be a reflection that takes a while for it to adjust they give
it like this you know those picture frames or like that old school pictures
that you would take a picture of and then the pitcher pop out and it would
take a minute for it to form to see what the vividness inside of the picture
that's similar to the kind of mere reflection we get it takes a minute for
the mirror to start to show the new reality because there is a delay process
and that delayed process will take whatever time that it really takes but
if you trust it and you don't keep going back and then say you know what I don't
see it now I'm gonna change my state of being or change my thoughts or drop that
intention then you start to scramble like an etch-a-sketch that picture that
was forming so the idea behind us is to set an attention and to also make a
decision and a choice to follow your passion because as you follow your
passion you start to line yourself up on what is called a life track which is in
the direction of you loving what you do and finding that person that resonates
with that version of you now the second point is the most
powerful point in general with the reality Tran surfing process now this
idea is what it's called decreasing importance so many times if somebody
wants to attract relationship into their life they may say this is what I want
this is what I need this is really what I prefer and what happens is is they may
meet somebody that they start to like but what they may do is put this person
on a pedestal they may really like them and think that it's meant to be but the
moment that you put someone on a pedestal is the moment you start to feel
like you're not connected to that person it's the moment that that person will
feel off of you that kind of desperation and you may have noticed that personally
in your own life if there's ever somebody that you really like you put
them on a pedestal that that cause resistance and that's what this point is
about anytime we make something more important than it has to be balancing
factors come into play to make it so that that balances out so if you really
really really want it it's actually not conducive because anytime that you say I
really really really wanted you're also saying I also really really really don't
have it so this is where you have to become much more aware of what your
desires are and this is where you can learn to create from a more of
observation point of view we're gonna get more into that next one as well but
mostly we think of desire as such a good thing right a lot of the stereotypical
lob attraction processes talk about how to have a white-hot burning desire and
this isn't wrong this is just a different philosophy and it can work
remember all of these processes work based on the belief that we put into
them now that can work because a lot of times desire will lead to taking action
will lead to intention but this comes with the awareness that many times the
desire can block us so what we can learn to do is to see it as natural for us to
be in that kind of experience you know this is something I realized I've given
this example before but just to get give you like an actual you know real-life
example of what this could mean I remember that when I was first at like
maybe seventy eighty thousand subscribers on YouTube I was thinking to
my mind you know it's creating daily videos I was putting a lot of work into
I was thinking where I get to and this channel gets to 100 it's going
to be this amazing feeling it's gonna be like this you know just this static
feeling like maybe on a scale of 1 out of 10 I'm gonna feel like a 10 out of 10
right and I remember I went to bed one day at 98 thousand I woke up the next
day at 101 because there was a video that went viral
it was the Sedona video I did in Sedona on raising vibration and I remember
waking up and I thought I was like wow we did it was so cool it feels so good
and here's what happened it really was just natural if I felt like it was just
a part of who I was it wasn't this high expectation of this is how it's going to
feel and that's a lot of times what we do is we put this high expectation that
almost makes it so that we can't really feel into it it was kind of just a
number in my head and then what is the mind do the mind goes a hundred is cool
but we're by 150 what about 200,000 what about three or four hundred thousand
subscribers you see that's what the mind does and there's always an availability
to up the ante so this is why it's important to decrease the level of
importance by knowing it's just naturally who you are when you're
following your passion when you have an intention it's natural for you to meet
people that resonate with you there and it's natural for you to meet somebody
that you're attracted to that you have great chemistry right if you have that
perspective it becomes much more fluid it becomes much more smooth think of it
like reality Tran surfing you are surfing through the different parallel
realities it's much more smooth right and something you have to force all of
the time and that's why this is about understanding that degree of observation
and how to create from more of an observation point of view that is
detached from the outcome because you are already whole and complete now the
third step you can take has to do with actually a technique that you can apply
in your life now this technique is called a slide now is the slide
technique involves understanding that there are an infinite number of parallel
realities exist that you've set your intention that you want to move in a
certain direction that it's not that important because it's just natural for
who you are now this part is about knowing that there is a certain snapshot
that you could start to think of so think of a representation of what this
ideal reality would look like maybe and it is you going somewhere with this
person you at a beach or you guys are you know what
would be the daily life be like or what would you do me doing if you guys went
out to dinner together you know once a week or whatever it is
think of it like this because what this does is this starts to imprint a frame
into your mind that begins to pull from the alternative space it begins to pull
that reality more into your experience now there's a couple keys to this first
off don't make it more important than it has to be this is a process that you can
use but if you use it too much and you put too much importance on it you may
create resistance remember this is more about the observation of it now the next
part is the consistency do this continuously but not too much to where
you build resistance so what you want to do is you want to make sure you do this
maybe four or five times a day and what this is is this is a snapshot of the
ideal reality of you experiencing what you want so for me for example it would
be me you know I use this in general for me
being able to travel the world share at seminars I imagine myself in front of
like a large crowd speaking people enjoying what I'm saying getting a lot
of value out of it me then after that you have to go with friends to like a
restaurant or something like that and then deciding what we want to do that
day in the city that we're in and then having this like level of abundance
coming through you see so that's an actual like picture in my mind I can
imagine it doesn't have to be a pitch or two it can be a moving picture it's kind
of like you're watching a movie but the important part is that you're looking
through your own eyes you imagine it as if you're in first person and you're
looking around and seeing it versus you like seeing it as if you're like walking
around your house or something you see it like you're watching a movie of you
in it so that's the idea is to create a slide that slide will pull from the
alternative space you can do this with the relationship by imagining yourself
you know in a specific scenario with your other person the person that you're
intending to attract into your life and as you do that you will find those
things starting to come up you will just have to simply trust the process trust
the process know that there's a reflection of what you believe to be
true and what your current energy is but it's kind of like an old school picture
that it takes a while for the picture to form you have to simply trust that and
as you trust that everything can begin to change now if you want to learn how
to decrease the level of importance if you want to learn how to wire all of
these in I've created a free mp3 meditation that you can listen to that
will show you exactly how to go about this process how to decrease the level
of importance and how to resonate with what you want to experience using NLP
using imagery and really just wiring in all of these ideas it's something I
think is very powerful you can get it it's going to be in the top of the
description box and I think that if you do it for 21 days you'll start to see
profound changes in your life so what that mean you've said I hope you guys
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you guys haven't already and as always I'll see you guys on the next big piece
what you love and namaste