- How to spot a weak man,
and how do these insecure weak men
end up dealing with women?
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And in this video, I will share with you three signs
on spotting a weak man,
a weak, toxic man that you should never date.
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So, now without further ado,
how do you spot this weak guy?
The number one sign is he is a chaos,
which means he does not know what he wants.
A strong, secure man will always know what he wants
and he will come after you strongly, powerfully.
He will test you to see do you tick his boxes,
and then he will firmly offer you a relationship with him.
If he sees that you don't tick his boxes, he will move on.
Yet, this is not what weak, insecure men do.
Instead of coming to you strongly and giving you security
and safety, what they do, they bring on chaos.
So one day he says how much he's into you
and how amazing you are.
Next day he says, "Oh, I don't know what I want.
I don't know how I feel.
I'm not ready for this or for that."
So what the weak man will give you,
he will give you uncertainty.
He will make you feel very insecure.
He wants you. He doesn't want you.
One day he's hot, next day he's cold.
He's gonna make you feel very uncertain about everything.
He is gonna make you feel anxious.
He will make you overthink things
and he himself will come towards you as a wishy-washy.
If you look at his actions and at his words, you will see
that you can never trust this guy,
because one day he says "I want you,"
next day he says, "I don't know what I want.
I'm not ready for this or that."
So how can you trust this person?
You ask him to do something, one day he says yes,
next day he doesn't know, right?
So this type of like wishy-washy, hot and cold,
"I don't know what I want," unstable,
Peter Pan, immature, teenage type of feel.
Number two sign that you are dealing a wishy-washy guy,
a guy that gives you hot and cold,
a weak, insecure man is when he splits the bill 50/50.
A secure confident man will never put a woman
in a position to pay for a date.
Why? Because he will feel embarrassed himself as a male.
In my country where I'm from,
maybe the culture is a bit old-fashioned,
but men are embarrassed not to pay for a woman.
If a guy is going out somewhere with women,
he would make sure to pay for all of them.
He would not let anyone pay
because it'll be embarrassing for him as a male.
So a secure provider-type of man will take that bill
with pleasure and confidently when he takes you out.
On the date, you won't even have a feeling
or a question in your mind that,
is he gonna split it 50/50, or what's gonna happen next?
You will just see by his presence, by his confidence
by the security that he gives you,
that he will cover the bill 100%.
The thought of him not doing it
will not even cross your mind.
And of course, a weak, insecure, chaotic type of guy
thinks he's the prize, who thinks he's the gift,
who thinks he's the catch, will make you feel uncomfortable,
will embarrass you and will belittle you
by splitting the bill 50/50.
One thing that these guys don't realize
is when you make a woman pay 50/50,
you don't just embarrass a woman
like she's not worthy of that meal,
you also embarrass yourself as a man,
because you're saying, I'm not a provider,
I'm not a real masculine male.
I'm just an immature little boy
who doesn't even have the right manners,
who doesn't perhaps even know about the right manners,
and is comfortable in doing the wrong thing
and making a woman pay.
Number three sign how to spot a toxic, immature,
weak man is he is not a protector.
He does not know how to protect a woman.
So perhaps he doesn't pick you up, he doesn't drop you home,
he doesn't check that you got home okay.
When you guys are not together, he doesn't text you,
he doesn't call, he doesn't check how are you,
he doesn't check do you need anything,
he doesn't check is everything okay with you,
he doesn't check do you need help.
Ladies, when a man cares about a woman,
he will check in on her.
So if a guy cares about you and he's a masculine male,
if you are going out and you're telling to your boyfriend,
that you're going out, he will stay,
"Babe, I hope you have an amazing time.
Let me know when you get home,"
or "Please let me know where you are going
and please keep your phone not too far from you
just in case something happens."
When you are dating a strong, secure, masculine man
that cares about you, you going to get a feeling from him
that you are protected at all times.
You're gonna feel insanely secure.
You're gonna feel confident,
literary, like he's watching over you,
that nobody would dare to put that finger on you.
An insecure, weak man will just not have this presence.
He's not gonna know how to look after you,
he's not gonna know how to protect you.
And even if you are confronted on a street
or somebody's approaching you on a street inappropriately,
he's not gonna know how to stand up for you.
Ultimately, weak, insecure men,
they don't live in this world
following some sort of moral standards, moral values.
They more like in this world to take advantage of you.
Whatever he wants, he will think of some sort of strategy
to go and get it.
Even if it means playing games with you,
even if it means manipulating you,
even if it means using you
and when leaving you all damaged.
You might think, how could a person do something like that?
Well, it's usually because we don't take responsibility
for other people.
We only take responsibility for themselves.
So when he's coming after you with the strategy to use you
or to have you, he's only covering his tracks
and giving himself, and if confronted to the public eye,
all types of excuses just to cover his own tracks.
However, he does not care what he will do to you,
he does not care what type of damage
he will cause towards you,
because he feels like he's not responsible for you.
So now, if this weak, insecure man's so horrible,
how do they get these pretty girls?
Now, ladies, pay attention, I said pretty girls.
I didn't say high-value women.
These weak men will get insecure, toxic, pretty girls
that are intrigued by drama,
don't really have moral values or moral standards too,
that are naive and gullible and easily manipulated.
These girls, same as the Peter Pan guys, never grew up.
These girls find the drama thrilling and exciting.
These girls allow the chaos because we are little girls
and not the high-value women.
These we can secure boys end up dealing these little girls
because they allow 50/50,
because they believe that men and women
are exactly the same.
After a while, they start to compete with men
and even prove to men
that women perhaps are better than men
or stronger than men or more achieving than men.
You might say, okay, that's great.
You know, a weak man, a weak woman,
they may live happily ever after.
Well, that doesn't happen either.
If you as a woman start to compete with a man,
you are actually behave masculine,
and a man who is a weak, insecure man, he is still a man.
He is still not a woman.
So when a woman behave masculine
and starts to compete with a guy,
end up having two masculine energies
rubbing against each other.
And what about work in a male and female's relationship?
Of course, not.
So ladies, I hope I gave you
quite enough of red flags to observe.
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