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I know Tonya is upset because of my sit down with Nico
because she wants to talk.
And I'm happy to share my side of the story
as well as Nico's side.
How you been feeling?
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You know, just tired.
I was talking to Nico.
And he mentioned that he was glad that he spoke to you.
I didn't know that y'all even talked.
He reached out to me.
He reached out to you?
Yeah.
He felt like he could talk to you?
Wait a minute, the last time y'all were together, y'all were
screaming and yelling.
I wasn't screaming and yelling?
He was screaming.
He wouldn't let me talk.
But he wasn't going to scream and yell with me.
What?
You didn't feel like you should have, like, hit me
up and been, like, bitch, this man done
reached out to me talking about he want to talk to me.
I feel like I'm grown.
And I didn't have to let you know what I was going to do.
TANYA: I'm hearing a lot of excuses from my girl Juicy.
I just want her to admit that she
was just there for the gossip.
So tell me, like, what--
He didn't say that you was a bad person.
He didn't say that you was a bad mama.
He didn't say anything negative about you.
But girl, he told me that he had came out of the closet,
that he was bisexual.
Did you know about it?
Yeah.
And you knew about it before Jaidan?
Yes.
OK, so before Jaidan, I've been with females.
I like females too.
So that doesn't bother me per se.
So you like women?
I do like women.
You still do.
Yeah.
What does all that have to do with anything?
Like, what was his--
Just telling you what he told me.
Unless I [bleep] you, what you need to know for?
I assume that Nico talked to Juicy about our relationship.
But why is he sharing all this?
What's this got to do with our kids?
How does all of this talk help anybody?
But anyway, this is what he told me.
He moved down here, you know, so he can be closer to the kids.
And you kicked him out.
He was saying that he didn't want to be
in a relationship with you.
And it just got overwhelming.
So blame it on me.
It's my fault now.
And then when you told him Von was coming,
he thought, now that you and him done got into it,
you're going to use your other baby daddy now.
No because--
I'm just saying.
We're not looking to be in a relationship.
But that's what you said about Nico.
No, I didn't.
Well, sort of.
But it's different.
How is it different?
Because you enjoy being with Nico more than
you enjoy being with Von?
Bingo, I knew it all along.
She been in love with Nico.
That's the reason why she didn't tell
us the truth, the whole truth.
I didn't feel like no one in this world
loved me as much as Nico did.
I felt that way until--
until all of this happened.
So-- [bleep] I did not expect to start crying.
Ugh, thank you.
So this man got all my business out in the street.
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I haven't seen Nico since the gender reveal party.
And I'm meeting him at the recording studio tonight
because he called me and said that he needed to talk.
I'm feeling really conflicted.
I need to make a decision on how me and Nico
are going to move forward.
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(SINGING) You pretend like you get me.
You don't got me.
Stop lying to everybody.
You pretend like you know me.
You don't know me.
Hey.
Hello.
NICO: Hey.
Sounds good, man.
Definitely, definitely, bro.
So I'll excuse you guys for a minute.
Thank you. Yeah.
Hey.
want to come sit closer.
Sure.
How you been?
Fine.
You wanted to talk?
Yeah.
I just kind of wanted to talk about how we're going to move
forward from everything.
I just feel like the last couple of times
we've seen each other it's been really emotional.
And I feel like if we could try to talk it out,
that maybe we can come to some kind of agreement.
OK.
I just want to make sure that moving
forward that we can realistically,
really co-parent.
We can.
I'm on board as far as the kids are concerned.
That's really all that matters.
Emotions aside from that don't matter anymore.
I've done a lot of soul searching
about this relationship.
And I've realized that there is no Nico and Tanya anymore.
Moving forward, it's strictly about the kids.
All I need from him is for him to be a good father.
It's about the kids.
It's not about me.
If you want to be there for the kids, I have to deal with that.
And that's fine.
But I don't want to see you, honestly.
Moving forward, as far as us keeping everything
about the kids, I feel like you talking to any of my friends,
there's no reason for you to be talking about me,
especially to my friends.
I would like it if you don't talk about
me at all to them too either. [interposing voices]
Even about the kids?
Only about the kids, nothing in regards to me.
Right, as regards to the kids.
- Just making sure. - Yeah, no.
No, like I said, there's nothing to talk
about regarding you anymore.
There's nothing more to say.
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Here's what I need from the father of my child--
scheduled visits, diapers, and baby food.
Cocktails with my girlfriends, not so much.
As far as Von moving in, I know I
spoke to you about that before.
We feel like it's the best thing so that Jaidan doesn't
have to be away from you.
I don't got to be away from them at all.
So it works out really good.
I'm just glad that we're all on the same page.
I'm on the same page because I'm
forced to be on the same page.
It's just a little bit different from the program
that I was originally walking into.
Well, things changed.
I get that, I'm not saying--
Tanya, I'm not saying that things didn't change.
I understand that things changed .
They had to change.
You chose for them to change.
They're going to continue to change until Jaidan is 29 or--
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All I want from Nico is for him to look me in the eye
and be honest.
Why does it bother you that Von's moving in?
Honestly.
It's kind of obvious.
I mean, I still care.
I mean, I do.
So you have a problem with me being with him.
Yes, I do.
Why?
We signed up to do the parenting thing.
Of course, things got messy, emotions got in the mix.
We messed up.
Now you and Von are doing the just parenting thing.
The fact that you're able to do that with him and not
me does hurt my feelings, period, it does.
I'm sorry that it hurts your feelings.
But when you say, we are not friends,
we have nothing to talk about, you can't be yourself
around me, you don't want a relationship with me,
you're not ready for another baby, OK.
That's not what you want.
I'm not what you want.
So I'm going to move on with my life.
Not saying I'm moving on with anybody,
but I'm moving on with my life.
Be fair. Be fair.
You also said you didn't want a relationship.
You also said you didn't want a baby.
You also said that you weren't ready.
- I also was trying to make-- - Don't do that.
--you comfortable.
Yeah, I obviously lied.
I love Nico.
But he's hurt me too many times.
It's clear that Nico is never going
to be the man I need him to be.
At this point, I just need to stop waiting for him
to step up and cut him loose.
I'm like, so, kind of broken, so.
Oh, I don't want to talk about that.
As far as the kids, you can contact me.
Moving forward, I don't want you in the room
when I give birth because I'd like to be in peace
and just be crying from pain and not heartache.
I want to push with my mom.
Got it.
If I want you or need you, I will call you.
When I go into a labor, you will know.
Guess I'll just reach out to you next time I can come
see Jaidan. And we'll just go from there.
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So are we good?
Yeah, we're good.
[music playing]
(SINGING) I pretend like I'm living
when I'm dying deep inside.
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