After years of keeping her personal life and the chaos within it under wraps.
A popular twitch streamer and only fans,
creator Amaranth was revealed had revealed over the weekend that
not only is she married, her partner is incredibly abusive,
psychologically abusive and has been manipulating her and
forcing her to continue streaming even when she doesn't want to.
Now the disgusting responses to her incredibly vulnerable moment is also worth
discussing and we're gonna get to that in just a moment, but before we do let me
give you the context and share with you what she has disclosed with the public,
Amaranth whose real name is Caitlin Saragosa regularly streams on twitch,
either playing video games or sitting in front of the camera and
chatting with her audience of 5.9 million followers.
She's also one of the top creators on only fans and in july she revealed that she
makes as much as $1.5 million per month from the site, so she's doing really well.
And part of the reason why she does really well is because people,
you know pay for her content.
You know, donate to her twitch stream.
You guys get the point now during her stream this past weekend on saturday,
she divulged that she was not only married, but
she also alleged that her husband has threatened to kill her dogs and
live streamed a phone conversation she had with him to prove just how abusive he is.
I should give you guys a warning for
you know anyone who has a difficult time with this type of content.
You know, it could be triggering to people who have been victimized in a similar way.
I just want to tell you that this is not an easy, you know, story to share.
So I can only imagine how difficult it might be for you.
So I want to give you that warning before continuing with that said,
here is the phone conversation that she streamed.
>> Why did you say you were gonna kill my dogs?
Leave the house, Okay.
I can leave that.
You know what? Actually,
I don't think I shouldn't leave the house because my dogs are here.
We'll take the dogs.
And you're asking the question I'm telling you.
And you're like telling you literally literally, what are you saying?
You just told me you were Gonna Kill Dogs.
I didn't do a 24 hour stream.
No, I did not say that.
Now. You're just being a liar.
I'm not.
I said I'm going to tell you what I said in terms
of the earlier in saying you did not say that.
I tried to tell you what I heard from you and
there's a new you,
then you tell me, What did you say?
I don't even understand what you're saying.
I know that's my point.
My point is, are you listening or not?
If you're not, the gas lighting in that phone
conversation is just, it's mind blowing.
>> Obviously psychological abuse and and threatening to harm her dogs.
I can't even imagine dealing with that.
He also has complete control according to her of their finances,
complete control of her accounts.
That's another way of keeping people trapped.
It's another way of manipulating individuals.
What I found pretty interesting about this was that he Did not want her
to disclose the fact that she's married.
He wanted her to keep it a secret because he wanted her to continue making
the money that she makes on twitch.
He would force her to stream for hours and hours on end.
He had tried to force her to do a 24 hour stream against her will.
And for those of you who haven't experienced this kind of psychological
abuse, it's just really important to understand like the amount of control
he had over her her finances, all of that.
And and we have more evidence that she shared with her viewers in just a moment,
but I also find it fascinating and damning.
It's a commentary about our society that a woman has to provide such clear
evidence of the abuse she's dealing with for individuals to take it seriously.
And even after doing so, she's still met with incredibly disgusting arguments and
discourse about her personal life while she's in this
vulnerable moment and clearly is seeking help.
So jake, I wanted you to jump in.
Yeah.
So that was a little bit triggering not for
anything that's happened at at at home for me.
I'm lucky in that count.
But but I've seen a lot of people talk like that and
that's that's exactly how gas lighters talk.
So I don't know the specifics, so that the threatening,
the dogs was not on that particular portion of the tape.
So I'm not talking about that.
I'm just talking about the way that he spoke in that loud voice.
Then when he was like, you tell me, what did you say?
Right?
It's it's gaslighting 101 and and he says, are you listening?
They always try to browbeat you with.
I'm obviously right, you're obviously wrong.
So I'm going to lecture you, okay?
It creates like, look in some ways it's it's an emotional torture, right?
Psychological torture.
Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not holding anybody that in a court of law, I'm not
saying, okay, He's got to go to jail because of the way that he talked to me.
No, I'm not saying that, But does it deeply depressed and
harm the people that are at the receiving end of that, definitely, definitely.
And so I don't know, man, just hearing it.
I just couldn't it was it bothered me massively.
So please if you're in one of those relationships in any shape or
form, get out, get out while you still can.
I Want to go to the next video where she discusses just, you know,
obviously she makes a lot of money that self reported 1.1.5 million a month.
>> But he has control of all of her financial accounts and
that's another form of you know keeping her trapped in manipulating her.
So let's take a look at the next clip that they're perceiving,
told him that it's a form of like psychological abuse and
that basically living in a fancy prison and then he was changed for a bit and
then the hearts have met arose and he was like this is an opportunity and
then he turned into an asset and when I agreed to commit to the grind because it
was a good financial opportunity for us, I'm gonna leave you with one million and
I'm gonna take the rest because I worked harder than you.
It's like if we don't agree that I'm gonna burn it all in court,
I'm gonna put it on crypto.
Always threats, always threats, all the counts.
Like two factor under his number and
all the he has all like the login information of things.
You know it's like that keeps you there with the fear and
the threats you fear he's gonna do something to your animals and
then he's nice again and says everything's gonna be okay.
>> So I want to emphasize something she said because this is how he controls
all the accounts he set up the accounts to where there's a two factor authentication
and if you try to change the password well he would be notified right?
Like he has complete and utter control of all of those accounts.
And so that kind of manipulation, that kind of control.
Again, it's all about keeping her trapped.
And look, I don't think I'm going too far and saying it.
So I'm just gonna say it, this is what for lack of a better word, johns or
pimps do right, where they make money off of exploiting women and they
they're abusive towards the women that they're exploiting to make money off of.
I mean, how is this really any different?
And what is particularly gross about the way we still in this
incredibly puritanical society?
Think about the way we think about women, the way we think about women who do
things like, you know, have accounts or whatever on only fans.
It's almost as if like they're considered throwaways, like,
well you you've objectified yourself this way.
So why are you surprised that you would be treated poorly and no,
we need to progress as a society to the point where we value people regardless
of what they do for a living.
And yes, sex work is work, People deserve protection.
And I just feel like she's been God, she's been abused in so
many ways by this person that she's been married to and the fact that he wanted her
to hide the fact that they were married just so he could continue exploiting her
to make money off of her is just unbelievable and gross and
what's also unbelievable and gross is the way that some people reacted to her.
So she also shares some text messages of you know,
the abusive things that he has sent to her.
We don't have enough time to get into all of those details, but
she provided a lot of evidence.
Actually want to move on to some of the gross reaction that she has
received a lot of stuff.
Dreamers came out defending her, supporting her, showing her love and
that makes me feel really good to know that there are good people out there who
are you know trying to provide the support that she needs right now.
Then there are other idiots like this guy keem star who tweeted this.
It's since been deleted but he wrote this clearly husband is abusing,
she showed the text, just kind of going back to how far women have to go to
provide the evidence before anyone takes their accusations seriously.
Then he continues with the butt, amaranth herself has scammed so
many guys online claiming she was single for years.
These twitch streamers don't care about their viewers by the way he's a twitch
streamer.
They all just use you and your low I.
Q. S to fill their pockets.
Okay?
Just as a woman, I'm gonna state this and this is a message to everyone
online in regard to content creators but especially female content creators,
we owe you nothing you're not entitled to any part of our lives.
Okay?
If you pay for extra exclusive content, whatever.
That doesn't mean you own us.
That doesn't mean we're gonna ever sleep with you.
It doesn't mean we're gonna even respond to your messages.
You are not entitled to us.
Okay. It's, I mean,
I have experienced it firsthand with like, especially dudes feeling super entitled
to like your time to your responses to their messages and all of that.
I can't imagine how difficult it is.
For amaranth and especially women who, you know,
make some money through sex work, right?
You're not entitled to anything other than the clear content that you are paying for.
That's it.
Yeah.
So just quick advice sam rath lawyer up instantly.
Two factor authorization works, both ways.
So you can't access your money, but neither can he you get a lawyer instantly
make sure that he cannot touch that money because he'll take it all.
Don't, don't be nuts.
Okay?
So make sure that he cannot take the money and then you gotta go to court.
There's no way around it.
Okay, What's this?
I'll give you a million.
I'll keep the rest.
Yeah. No, no deal.
No deal.
Okay.
I did all the hard work.
Did you, did you?
Because it doesn't look like it.
And if you made a 1.5 million a month.
Make sure you protect that money, keep it real.
And then the guys who judge, right are almost always the guys who partake, right?
So they'll watch the pictures of the videos and they'll love it and
then they'll turn around and judge the woman.
It's that kind of hypocrisy drives me nuts.
I cannot stand it.
It's nails on a chalkboard.
And then finally to Ana's point on the sense of entitlement,
there's tons of guys who are like super mad at her for lying about being single.
Why were you going to date her?
Like if she was single, that you were this close to getting her,
Did you really think that I just I am stunned by that.
I can't I can't believe that.
So like do most do a lot of guys not, there's no way it's most do a lot of guys
think that way like, I saw a hot girl and whether it's an adult movies or
or a celebrity and things like, yeah, I'm this close.
She lied.
She's married otherwise I was I was about to get her.
No, you weren't.
Are you insane?
I know, I know.
I know it is insane, but no,
you would be shocked jink I I I'm sure that guy's experience it.
Like mail content creators experience it to some extent, but
it's on a different level with women and the rage that I like.
So I'm just talking from personal experience.
I've had so many people get so
angry with me because I don't respond to their messages.
I'm flooded with messages all day long, all day long.
I can't even keep up with, like,
work related emails I'm supposed to respond to day of, so like, no one is
entitled to my time unless you're paying me and I work for you, right?
In that case there's, you know,
a transactional relationship there in the case of the show, we do you know,
if if you're a fan and I've communicated with you before and I'm supported, like,
I'm grateful for your support, Great, but you're not entitled to constantly
interacting with me, especially during my off time, which I desperately need.
Like, women have to protect themselves, especially when they're in the spotlight,
especially when their content creators and public figures.
We don't owe you anything other than the content that you're paying for period.