- This video is for you if you're dating a guy
that you really like and it's been a couple of months now,
but you have no idea what does he feel about you?
Where is this going?
Or where do you stand with him?
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And just before I share with you about five reasons
why you should not ask him where is this going?
Don't forget to take my free self awareness test.
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So ladies, let me just give you five points
why you should not ask him where is this going
and what exactly you should do instead.
Number one, it is not lady like.
A man needs to tell you he loves you first.
A man needs to ask you to be in a relationship with him.
A man needs to ask you to marry him.
Why does a man need to do that?
Because as a gent, he leads the relationship.
And why would a man should lead the relationship?
As it says in Proverbs 18:22,
"He who finds a wife, finds a good thing
and obtains favor from the Lord."
So if he finds the wife, he's a lucky guy.
You see how precious you are?
So why would you undervalue yourself
and put yourself in such desperate situation
by asking him, where is this going?
Number two, you are pursuing him.
If you will ask him this question first,
you are showing your impatience and you are pursuing him.
By pursuing him you are automatically turning him off
as now you're not letting him lead and be a man.
Think about it.
When a man acts feminine, does he turn you off?
Yes, of course he does.
So the same goes when you act masculine.
And if you would like to find out more reasons
why you should not chase a man,
please watch my video right here.
Number three, there is literally no point
to ask this question.
He's not going to ask you to be his girlfriend
when he is not sure about you.
He's not going to give girlfriend status to a girl
that he does not love yet.
So what's the point to ask him this question
if you know the answer already.
Number four, you are showing him that you care too much.
A man likes a challenge.
He deserve a woman but men sweep off their feet. Why?
Because one of the main love needs for a man is uncertainty.
By asking him this question,
you are taking uncertainty away and instead you are hinting
that you want to be his girlfriend.
Don't tell him anything.
If he wants to know would you be his girlfriend,
let him ask you, let him try and figure it out himself.
Put him a bet on the edge.
Let him wonder would you say yes or would you say no.
Guys love a bit of a game,
a bit of uncertainty, a bit of playfulness.
By being a bit of a challenge, you give him just that.
So have fun with it and enjoy yourself.
But here's a warning.
Do not overdo it.
In many case, just letting him ask this question first
will be the right amount of uncertainty that he needs.
Number five.
Now you might say,
but Greta, I don't want to be in a limbo.
It's been six months and I still don't know
where I stand with him.
Well, instead of asking him then do this,
keep your options opened while dating,
ladies I said while dating,
not when you're in a relationship.
If you're keeping your options open in a relationship,
that's cheating, that's not high value.
And let the best man win.
Who is the best man?
Watch my video right here
on how to identify a high value man.
If a guy you're dating three months or later
still has not asked you to be his girlfriend,
either stopped seeing him or friend zone him.
By putting him as an option F for example.
If he doesn't see your value three months later
while you are being the best version of yourself,
well, frankly, you know what?
He doesn't deserve that much of your company.
And try not to take it personally, do not get offended.
Have self-esteem, have self-respect.
Know your value and do not let people abuse it.
So ladies these were my five tips
on why you should not ask him where is this going?
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