Hi everybody, this YouTube is for those of you that really want to receive a text
message. I want to say this - it is not a text message that you want, really at the
base of it all it is a connection with someone in particular, someone who's very special to you,
someone who means a lot to you, someone that you love. But if you are focused on how to get,
how to get, how to get, how to get, how to get - you've got your ladder up the wrong wall. Why,
can it work to do a meditation or to focus on getting a text message? Yes,
but really if you're honest with yourself it is not the text message that you want,
it's the connection, it's someone spending time with you, it's someone acknowledging you, it's
someone giving you their time. So to create that which is way more important than a text message,
I'm gonna give you some things you can do to start to really understand the difference
between getting and giving. And if you want to have a great relationship with somebody,
there is something that needs to shift in you - and it's coming fully out of get mode. Okay,
relationships thrive when we give to them rather than when we try and get from them. Now how do you
do that? You work on you, you work on really feeling loved within your own self, and then
giving that to the relationship. What do I mean by that? Giving it in your thoughts, in your energy,
in your focus, however you spend time engaging with this other person in your mind. It is to have
thoughts of giving. Now you can bless somebody for them to have a great day, for them to have enough
food, a wonderful sleep, that they have enough money, that they spend time with loved ones,
that they're healthy and they're happy. That's a real energetic giving rather than thoughts of
how can I get love from this person and how can I get a text message. Okay, because that really
at the basis is trying to get something from someone that you're not doing for yourself and
then you are not really able to be someone who is in a loving and meaningful relationship. When
you are in a loving and meaningful relationship with someone specific or not, someone brand new,
if you come to the table with this attitude, with that energy, with that feeling of I've got enough
love and I'm here to give it - that's how you create meaningful and wonderful relationships. Now
in my relationship with my wonderful partner, the relationship gets better and better. I try as much
as I can to work on my own self-love and give that to the relationship. It has made this relationship
the best relationship I've ever had. The person is very giving to me, but I try to see how I can take
care of myself and then give to him energetically, to not be a burden, to not put the love that I
need to feel within onto him and that is therefore a wonderful thing to contribute to a relationship.
No longer needing okay. Now I did this YouTube because there was a wonderful person that made
a comment in one of the videos I did a few days ago - so thank you for this idea because I thought
it was really funny to put this video up knowing people were going to want to come and "get," but
giving them the real information if they want to have good relationships to practice this, so that
you really can come out of the suffering of not feeling loved, not feeling wanted, and becoming
somebody who really can live in that relationship that you so desire. Alright, so lots of love. I
will put down the real how to get a text message down below for those of you that still want to go
that route, not my favourite way of going about it but to each his own, totally up to you. And I
will also put down below one other YouTube that relates to giving rather than getting - there's
a playlist, I'm going to put it down below for those of you that are serious about having these
wonderful meaningful and loving relationships. And also there's two other YouTube's I'm going
to add in to help you as well. Lots of love and I will see you in the next YouTube.