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Not everyone had their guards up.
During her journey, Kayla made connections
with Swasey, 'Zo, Randall, and Mike, embracing the process
and with open arms and puckered lips.
But would that turn out to be the kiss of death?
Take a look.
KAYLA: I do think I'm navigating through well.
I think I'm making solid connections.
I was definitely feeling Swasey.
I'm looking at you like hmm.
Loser has to do 20 push-ups.
Whoo.
I'll take that.
And winner gets a special surprise at the end.
Whoo!
Child.
I like to see men fight over me.
You said something special, right?
Something very special.
WOMAN: Oh, God.
MAN: Nice.
Damn, that boy's smooth.
'ZO: (SCREAM) Ay!
MAN: Don't flex on him.
'ZO: Dang.
KAYLA: Anyway.
'ZO: Oh.
Hey.
- Call me [INAUDIBLE]. - Thank you for dinner.
Yeah.
I'll let you know when I get home.
RANDALL: Kayla has the most erotic vibe with her.
That type of energy is dangerous.
I will say that.
Immediately, I knew I was in trouble.
I heard about some kisses.
Ooh!
If you been kissing, raise your hand.
Ooh!
Kayla is, like, doing too much.
Like, don't be ooh'd up, huggy duggy, kissy kissy.
Is we betting anything?
Because I know you like to bet.
I think kisses would be appropriate.
I don't think you're going to beat me, but let's go.
A strong personality like Kayla's is definitely my type.
You lost.
All right. Come on.
Let's go. - What?
What you scared of?
No, but I don't, I don't want those guys' lips on my lips.
Oh! So that's what this is about.
Knowing that you kissed two guys already,
I had put some tape around my lips.
Get me out of here.
When I sit down, Kayla is, like, squirming in her seat.
She's definitely uncomfortable.
I mean, I'm be honest with you.
This is the guy--
Stop.
--that the lips was on that lip.
So, what you mean what can I bring?
You see what I'm saying?
This man is, is crazy.
I feel like Mike, his answers not straightforward.
Meanwhile, you're not giving Randall a proper chance.
When he was sitting here, Kayla, he was looking
at you the whole, entire time.
Like, I was staring into his eyes,
and you was looking at Mike.
Oh God.
I really do like both of them.
So it's a really weird place to be.
Because in your head, you're like, what if you pick one
and it's really supposed to be the other?
I know.
I don't want to see you cry. I want you just to be happy.
I know.
I just don't know if Mike gives you that.
It's really [BLEEP] messy.
OK.
I'm just-- it's a mess.
All right, Kayla.
You were real popular with the men.
How did you handle all that during the process?
I was really embracing the process,
in terms of really trying to make a genuine connection
with more than one person.
Really feeling it out, not just going with the first person
that I vibe with and being like, "Oh, that's the person."
Because I feel like, dating in Miami,
we've all seen how you meet someone.
It's hot, and then three months later, it's over.
- It's, it's, it's over. - You know what I mean?
So I wanted to take the time with each of the guys
and, like, let it develop to see,
like, who is really for me.
I will say, you seem pretty enthusiastic about being
kissed, though.
What girl isn't?
If you have a connection with someone,
we've been here for a month, and you haven't kissed them,
you don't really have a connection with them.
You just doing whatever you doing for the show.
We're grown.
I don't see how you wouldn't kiss them.
Do you think anybody was upset with all the smooching that
was going on? - I do.
Clearly, Mike felt some kind of way.
I think Randall also felt some kind of way
about what was going on with Mike.
I think that, in this journey, it's
100% acceptable for the men to explore their options.
But when the woman does it--
It's looked at differently.
--it's like, "Oh my God."
But if it was one of the guys that
connected with a bunch of the other girls,
girls would still want him.
They would still chase him.
But when men have competition with other men,
they tend to go for the safer choice.
Mike, why did it bother you?
Who said, who said it bothered me?
MAN: No one said-- - Clearly it bothered you, Mike.
No, no, no no, no.
I, see, I'll be sarcastic about mine, in the sense.
I'm the type of person, man, if we dating, we dating.
Cool. No problem.
But there's no way I'm actually sit through this process
and know you kiss-- you know, this boys over there
'Zo and Randall.
She kiss who she kiss.
That's just not me. TOMMY MILES: Right.
I'm too alpha for that.
If I know you actually kissed somebody
within this whole process, that's not for me.
TOMMY MILES: You don't get to kiss me.
MIKE: Yeah. - Well, that's not true, so.
[BLEEP]
Sh, sh, sh.
What's not true?
We didn't kiss too.
TOMMY MILES: Y'all did? - Yeah.
MAN: She did kiss Mike.
Oh she did kiss Mike?
She just said that.
Oh, [BLEEP]
So Mike, y'all kissed?
Is it on camera?
KAYLA: No, it's not, it's not on camera,
but that doesn't mean it didn't happen.
Because we know it happened, often.
This is on camera?
For some people, only thing that happened on camera
the only things that matter.
Things that happen off camera don't matter.
OK, let's just clear that. Who been kissing?
Uh, oh.
Here we go.
Don't nobody want to step up to the kissing plate, huh?
WOMAN: Hell no!
You ain't see it, you ain't see it, it didn't happen.
We already know everybody on that stage been kissing.
MAN: Everybody been kissing on the [INAUDIBLE]..
Right.
I kissed.
I kissed, I kissed Shareese on the first date.
- Thanks, Sampson. - Yeah, it was nice.
Wasn't it? - It was.
It was nice.
Kayla, the kiss you had with 'Zo--
KAYLA: Mm-hmm?
--was that fire, or you think, you think
it was blown out of proportion?
Oh, it was definitely blown out of proportion.
It was just, it was just a bet.
But I think it's just very hypocritical for everyone
to be like, going off about this kiss, when like,
a lot of these men have slept with women
that they don't even know their name.
But that woman not going to be my girlfriend.
Now, if I wanted just to talk to you and--
-- But it's, but it's-- --that's different.
I don't care who you kiss, but for you to be my woman, for me
to hold you on my arm, you ain't going to be kissing everybody.
No, but what I'm saying is the hypocrisy.
MAN: That's how men look at it.
Because when you're not on this show,
you don't know what the person is doing
when you're not with them. - True.
But because we're on this show, and you have to see it,
that's literally the only difference.
But, you know, it is what it is.
But like she stated earlier, kissing is a part of dating.
So I don't think we should have all,
anybody should have been really surprised.
Huh?
I, I'm still shocked on why it's, like, even a thing.
Why we even talking about it?
People over 40.
He's crazy.
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