Hi everybody!
It's Jannine & Ploy
we've gathered together today cause we're free
and don't have any work to do
yeah no work, and since covid is back again
we've only been staying at home
so we decided to do a video together
but today's a special video we've never done before
because today we're gonna give all the fellas advice on
how to get the girl!
we can't give advice on how to get the girl since we don't know how
we have no experience
but I think you can also apply these tips with
Womales-
Womales?!?
I think you can use-
but I think that-
take a deep breath
but I think you can also apply-
Jannine!
but I think you can also apply these tips with girls as well
without further ado, let's get into the topic
let's go
first thing is, you gotta check if she likes you
cause if you're talking with each other and suddenly-
-if it's just you who feels that way
yeah something like that
you have to pay attention if she texts you back
gauge her reaction
that's right
not like, you text her and she texts back a decade later
if you text her at 9AM and she responds at 4PM
or like next week
you got to think, maybe she's not that into me
and don't be too aggressive in the beginning stage
cause a lot of girls are scared of that
it's kinda scary if they suddenly come up to you and ask
"do you have a boyfriend?"
hm, but I guess it depends too
it depends on the person
but there are girls who get thrown off by that so take it slow
at the end, love is something you should take slow
next up is, remember details about her
like, what movie does she like? What's her favorite food? her favorite color?
it's the small details that will amaze girls if you can remember them
and especially if you can remember their birthday or special day
it'll be impressing
we find it really cute! All it takes is these little tricks like
remembering details about a person
if I'm talking to a guy & he knows what songs or type of music I like
it's really cute
and it helps when you're trying to buy gifts for her
because you already made the effort to know what she likes
so that makes it easier
this is close to the previous one which is pay attention and care
I think girls are very observative when guys take care of other people
it's not just taking care of her, but people around as well
with friends and elder
like, when you pour water for everyone at the table
yeah, we notice that
I have another trick
you'll be real gentleman if you also tear the package of a straw for her
it'll be like "wow, he does that for me?"
yeah, I think this is a little trick that really cute
I have a story, I have this guy friend who
who's been trying to get with this girl
they're together now
but because he's in Asia and his girlfriend is in America
he still takes really good care of her
he always tries to schedule calls with her daily despite the time difference
and he sends her gifts monthly
little things like flowers for example
and he always asks his friends for opinions on what would be best to give to her
or like, he once made brownies for his girlfriend too
but it's a very special brownie
since he knows that she likes lavender brownies
he took the time to extract the lavender
which took many days of preparation
when I heard that I was like "I need to find a guy like this"
that's so hard to find!
don't know where to find a guy like that, but she's very lucky
if you take care of a girl like that they will be very impressed
yeah, and the relationship will last too
And I was like, this friend went the extra mile, I didn't even know guys like that existed
are there really people like this in this world?
that's really cute
another thing is, you have to have your own passion
it's a flirting technique where you don't have to flirt
because when you see someone who has a really strong passion or drive
whether it is a job or a hobby
and they really love what they're doing
it's really charming
and it's something that they own for themselves
it comes off as an independent person
I feel the same way
it's very impressive when someone has a strong passion
and they don't even have to try too hard with us in that way
but it just leaves a really good impression
the main point is that you have to focus on yourself first
and get better in your own way
and it'll make you a charming person
good answer
next one is, taking care of yourself
because when girls first meet a guy they see their appearance first
yeah, you don't have to be super handsome like a hollywood star
it's just that you dress nice and take care of your skin or what not
that can already help a lot
yeah, honestly you don't have to be handsome
honestly, I don't like handsome guys that much
or is that false? I'm not sure
no, you like people who look good/take care of themselves
yeah I guess that's accurate
personally I think guys who know how to dress are charming
yeah, someone who has their own style
it doesn't have to be a lot, just try to find something that's you
maybe try switching flip flops for some nicer shoes, or try something that seems fit for you
your honesty to her when you start talking to each other
you have to make her know that she's important to you
for example, you're passing a coffee shop that you know she likes
so you snap a pic for her and say "thinking of you" just that
the little things
or when you have lunch, just send a pic to her as well
and ask "what are you doing?" is also cute
but you don't have to do this every meal
wake up in the morning-- here's a glass of milk
is this a girlfriend or a personal trainer?
these types of things that you can do that are really cute
cause guys don't usually do this but it makes them seem gentle
and maybe use some pickup lines too, this is not necessary but nice
it makes them blush and will also make you guys laugh
it makes you seem like a fun person
don't start to serious cause girls can get tense that way
but you have to look at the girl too, if she's more serious you shouldn't joke or play too much
they'll stop talking to you
this is something you'll have to do sometimes too is text her first
cause a lot of times girls are shy to text first
and sometimes girls are actually waiting for the guy to text first
try to find something to talk to her, especially when you already kinda know what she likes
for example movies, "have you watched this movie? It's fun you should watch it"
"do you know this actor?" just find something to talk about
there are so many things you can talk about, you just have to find some common things
like movies and all that
or music, just try to talk general stuff
and don't get too serious or rush into it
don't talk for 5 days, then get into a relationship
some people do it, but I think before dating someone you have to observe and think a lot
because your life really can change if you hang around the wrong people
very important
that applies to friends too
yeah, whether it's friends or significant others, you really have to know the person
at the end love is something between two people so they have to see for themselves
rushing into relationships isn't wrong but
to be safe please take your time
we are saying this out of love
especially girls I suggest that you take your time and to be careful
don't fall in love with texts if you haven't met the person yet
especially with online dating apps you have to be very careful
cause people nowadays are scary
some people might be really nice on text but are actually thieves
or it's like, the person on the profile and in. real life is a different person
not saying that they're photoshopping their pictures, but I mean completely different people to catfish you
they might use somebody else's picture, who know
please be careful
or if...or if... no it's nothing it's just
I just want to tell you a story of when I got scammed
I was gonna buy concert tickets, and the guy who sold it was really nice and sweet
and I'm really gullible so I trusted him based on my impression of him
so I transferred him the money on that same day
and it turned out that he scammed me and I got blocked
comes to show that you can't trust people on the internet
this is coming from someone who is really gullible, I just trusted someone based off what they texted me
you have to be very careful with people online
this is a personally bonus
I think it's very admirable if a guy tells me they like/love me first
I feel like, even if they confessed and I didn't feel the same way
I still have a lot of respect for these people that they took up the courage to say it
I respect them for their braveness
I don't mean it in an audacious way
in a positive way
because it's not easy to tell someone you like them
yeah it's really not easy
a lot of respect, it shows respect to the girl as well
but I feel like if you told someone you like them and they don't like you back
it still leave a good impression on you
it makes that person feel good
the person that likes yo- that you like- what?
the person that you like
cause everybody feels good that they're being liked
it feels better than being hated
it feels good being liked by someone
I wanna ask you what you think of persistent guys?
first off I think...personally I dont like it
especially if I tell them that I'm busy
and they still keep texting
I wouldn't like that either
I don't like it but I guess there a different types of persistency
there would be the type that like
let's say they tell me they like me but I don't like them
and the nexct day they still keep texting me
that's another type of persistence
if they see how much you try MAYBE they might have a change of heart
if her response is good then it's not wrong to do so
some girls like that behaviour
but if they keep telling you they don't like you but you still try you might need to take a step back
they might get really annoyed of you instead
this is just in general, we're not talking about anyobdy in specific
yeah very general, we're not tryna throw shade at anybody
for real, there isn't anyone
no you're right
what's next?
let's just hold hands
when this video comes out people will probably ask about our type
like, so many people are asking
wait, now it seems like I'm trying to flirt somehow
nothing much but I just wanna say that
I like guys that...
if it really happens
I like guys who text good morning to me in the morning
are you tryna say sum'?
Jannine! Don't do me like that
I'm just tryna give advice so the guys can get the girl
which girl though?
I don't know!
no I meant like
everybody watching this video
who watching?
Jannine!
you okay?
no, I just wanna say that...
...it's...cute
I'll stop talking now
that's pretty much all the advice we have for you
but it all depends on the situation and person
so if you think if our advice helped anything tha'ts great
we hope that at least we helped in a tiny bit
we tried our best from the knowledge we have
from our very unexperienced selves
we both dont have any experience but we've really tried
we just tried to think from our stand point
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