What are the 3 signs that a woman wants you to make a move?
I'm going to give you some of these ideas.
They can happen when you first meet her, whether it's in a social situation like a party, bar,
club.
It can also happen when she's back at your place.
How do you know that she wants you to make a move?
That brings me to one of the first ones.
If she's at your place and you guys have pretty much stated that this is some sort of date,
that this is not some Friend Zone situation, there's a good chance that she wants you to
make a move.
When I say make the move, what do I mean?
What I mean is, at the very least go for the kiss.
Before I continue this video, I do need to say one thing about consent.
You can get all the signs in the world, but the #1 sign is that a girl says yes.
I don't think that you have to ask for consent before you go for a kiss.
I think you can just go for it.
I think it's a little awkward, a little weird.
I think it's totally okay to go for the kiss without asking for consent.
But before you guys are having sex or doing anything sexual, yes you should go for consent.
That's the #1 sign.
Just understand that if she's at your place under a dating mindset here or I should say
dating context (that's a better way to put it) a dating context, that means that there's
a good chance she wants you to make a move.
She wants you to go in for the kiss.
And then of course from there ask for consent when it gets to the more sexual stuff.
What are some other signs?
Let's just say that you guys are at the bar, at a party, something like that.
How can you tell that she wants you to make a move on her, that she's interested, that
she wants you to go for some sort of kiss or some sort of touch?
If she's giving you really intense eye contact this is a girl who is like seriously paying
attention to you.
She's looking directly in your eyes, like I'm looking right now into your eyes.
She's looking directly in your eyes and it's as if there's nothing else going on in the
same room.
It's like she's so locked into you there's this almost invisible bubble over the two
of you and whatever's happening in her peripherals, she's not paying attention because she's locked
into you.
That means that she's getting attracted to you.
That means she's interested in you.
And this means that this is probably a good sign that you can go for a kiss and that she
won't reject you.
Again, this is you guys talking, chatting, you're talking to her, you're saying something.
And she's just looking at you.
They call this the puppy dog eyes.
But it can be a combination of these puppy dog eyes, which is when she's looking at you
with wide eyes and listening and smiling.
But if she's doing that with this combination of she's not paying attention to anything
else around her and she's locked into you, boom, this is a good sign.
Alright, #3.
If she is doing that, the intense eye contact, puppy dog eyes, but she's also frequently
touching you.
You make some sort of dumb joke and she playfully taps you or touches you for some reason.
If you say anything that's interesting and she's like oh yeah, me too and she touches
you.
By the way, you should be paying attention to this because those are good ways to break
the touch barrier with her.
In the same exact way, you can mirror that if she's doing that.
But if she keeps on touching you or she's finding some sort of excuse to touch you.
And sometimes it's very overt.
She's grabbing your hand to pull you somewhere, she grabbing your elbow to pull you somewhere.
These are all signs that she's interested.
But these are physical signs that she's interested.
That is something you can think about in terms of taking it to the next level and making
a physical move on her like going for the kiss.
How do you go for the kiss?
Very simple.
If you guys are just hanging out and you're at a social situation, bar, whatever.
Or even if you guys are back at your place, just create a silence.
It's very simple, just create a silence, don't say anything, let her not say anything, create
that 3 second silence and then just go for the kiss.
It's going to take a little bit of putting a fire under your butt to push it and do it.
I know for some guys, it's really scary.
But just go for it.
If she's looking in your eyes and you don't say anything and she's not saying anything,
there's a good chance that she you won't reject you and then you can go for it.
What you'll be doing to get to this point is creating what's called sexual tension or
just plain tension.
It's part of my TED formula that I talk about in my program called Hooked which you can
check out at www.getherhooked.com.
I also have a link in the description down below.
In this program, I teach you how to create that sexual tension with a woman so you can
get to the point where you're creating that silence and then she really wants you to kiss
her and make a move on her.
I break down all about what tension is and how to do it in the TED formula.
If you want to learn the TED formula and you're looking to take your skills to the next level,
check it out, www.getherhooked.com.
I'll leave a link down in the description below.
Check it out.
That's how you're going to know she wants to make a move.
Don't forget consent is sexy and very important.
And if you've got her attracted enough, asking for consent is not going to turn her off,
it's actually going to turn her on and she's going to be even more happy that you have
gotten to the point where you're comfortable enough to do that it's mature.
Make sure you do that and I'll see you on the next video.