I got to feed my man, because he
be acting like he be starved.
Why does the woman have to feed the man?
You know what? You're sure right about that.
When's the last time you cooked a meal?
I furnish the meal. All she got to do is cook it.
Why does the woman have to cook it?
Society made it, not me.
What world are you living in?
Because I-- I promise you, I'm not in it.
I don't go by society.
How many-- that's married to an old-school man, honey.
They want you to cook. They want you to clean.
You can sleep in separate rooms, honey.
They still crawl up to the room, and read you a Bible scripture,
and say your body belongs to them.
That's sad.
Life with the Rogers family is very comical.
Cliff is just one of those old grumpy-ass men
who I can just do and say whatever, and it bothers him.
And I get turned on by that.
See Josh causing problems in our marriage.
Josh got to go.
Josh don't cause problems in our marriage.
This [BLEEP] is already there.
I just kind of stirred it up, so, I mean--
That's why you can stir your ass right out the damn door.
I don't think you stirred up anything.
I think that it was just like on the surface.
And it was, you know, about to boil over.
I think it's a Southern-woman thing.
Like as strong of a woman as I am, I still allow my husband--
To be a husband.
OK.
A understanding husband, a husband
that knows how to communicate.
I communicate.
Josh.
You barely can talk.
You never know nothing that's coming out of his mouth.
Like he should be walking around with like literally
like subtitle below his head.
Because nobody never knows what he's saying.
We got to get Josh out of here before I snap.
It's my house.
He disrespecting me.
I would throw him out.
What?
I'm finna go.
All right. Well, on that note--
I'm not her worker.
I'm her friend/worker.
All right. On that note, let's--
I'ma leave you alone.
Let's call it a day.
You better move out.
I'm going to sit on the Bible tonight.
- Let's call it a day. - I'm going to read the Bible.
Yeah.
I'm going to pray for you, Josh.
You might need to read and pray.
Let's call it a day.
Get on your knees this time.
The worst part of Josh living with me
is him being so vocal and so opinionated about things.
Like, you know, you're a GIF.
It's OK to calm down, stay in your place.
And when I speak to you, then you speak back.
Oh, [BLEEP], that was harsh.
Come in.
Hello.
I see you're still in your little cubbyhole.
Well, you know, this is by choice not by force, honey.
I mean, yeah, but, I mean, why?
That's my husband.
And I strongly believe in--
But I feel like you're not putting your foot down.
If I'm not feeling the vibe, if we're not communicating
effectively, you know, then I feel like,
let me distance myself from my husband until we figure it out.
Me and Zaddy are currently sleeping in separate bedrooms.
Because my marriage is not currently
where I want it to be.
And right now, I just need a peace of mind.
So until then, I'll be over here.
It's like he has a leash around your neck.
And he controls you where to go and what to do.
He does not control me.
There have been plenty of times
where I've asked you to go somewhere.
And he says, no, if I'm not going, then you're not going.
I respect my husband.
Because at the end of the day--
But you don't feel like that's controlling?
It's not controlling.
It just feels like he's overprotective.
When it comes to my family, my friends, I love hard.
I love my husband hard.
So I feel like I can put them above me.
And in a sense, you know, that does depletes my happiness.
But I feel like it's life.
But what about when it comes to you?
I"m good.
Like I feel like-- - I feel like who's there--
- --I'm a strong woman. - --to please you?
I'm a strong woman.
I don't want you to cry.
But I just feel like Cliff just holds
you back from a lot of things.
I just think that I have to see it for myself.
But do you feel you're happy?
No, I don't feel like I'm happy.
It shows.
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