he should be worried about losing you he
should be thinking he has the greatest
woman on the face of this Earth he
should be feeling like I never want to
let this go and he should be cherishing
you respecting you and loving you in the
way that you desire and deserve so I
want to help you experience that by
giving you ways to make him worry about
losing you now listen if you've been
watching me for a while then you know
I'm not about tips and tricks that are
manipulative acts to get the desires or
to get our needs met
um though some of these things may sound
that way it's really about establishing
good healthy positive relationships and
then getting the positive results that
come from that all right I also want you
to understand that we don't want to make
him worry in the sense of striking fear
in his heart all right to where he's in
panic mode or on edge or even feeling
insecure about the possibility of losing
you no but we do want him to see the
value in the woman that you are to
understand that he has something special
but it's not just in him recognizing it
through his own admission and it's also
through you taking the steps I'm about
to lay out that's going to ensure that
he is going to worry or regret or be
concerned about losing you but let's get
to it number one on the list of ways to
make him worry about losing you is to be
his peace now I know some of y'all
already shaking your head like give me a
break why I gotta be his peace why can't
he be my piece listen you came to find
out how to make him worry about losing
you so yes you need to be his peace
peace is something that men crave and to
be quite honest with you a lot of men
aren't getting it a lot of men are in a
relationship with a woman who may be a
good woman quote unquote but that
relationship is not filled with peace
not filled with joy and so when there
isn't peace why would someone crave
holding on to that why would someone be
worried about losing that if anything
they might be wondering how the hell do
I get out of this because naughty wants
to come home to war nobody wants to deal
with uh their woman being difficult and
negative and all these things that only
create more problems no man wants to
have to embrace a negative woman
so when you can learn to be his peace
you strengthen the relationship but
listen it's not just about being his
peace how about be your own damn peace
you need peace you can't be his if
you're not yours you gotta understand
how this works you can't fake
manufacture being this peaceful woman
who brings joy and love when from within
you are battling your own demons you are
going through your own issues so please
understand because again like I said
this isn't just about tips and tricks
this is about healthy things that are
going to create healthy relationships
and that starts within you so make sure
if you need to go to counseling go to
counseling uh if you need to resolve
some things within you that's throwing
things off which I'll mention later
about the things that we eat how we our
sleep things of that nature that can
really sway Us in the right or wrong
direction look at all of these things
start to create that peace and joy
within yourself so that it naturally
comes out so you won't find yourself
trying to force yourself to put a smile
on your face when you're not feeling
that way way at the end of the day I can
tell you from sitting down with so many
men and let me just give this important
part because I'm very big on connection
all right and one of the things that
I've seen with men who felt like they
had a connection with a woman is that
they all mentioned that they felt peace
in her presence so I'm only bringing
that up Cindy because you can't force a
connection you can't just manufacture
one but the bottom line is I want you to
understand how peace is a part of the
equation for a man to even feel like
damn this is the one this is the one I
cannot let go so if you want him to
worry about losing you find the way to
be his peace but again be your own peace
as well number two on the list that
pretty much goes hand in hand with B is
peace is speak love and positivity into
that man even though I have a video
about not dating Mama's Boys right I I
want you to understand that the reason
why some men not oh man but the reason
why some men become Mama's Boys become
so attached to their mothers is because
she is that peace she is speaking that
love and positivity she is the
encourager she believes in him she
uplifts him these things draw that man
to his mother and they can draw him to
you when you become the source of
positivity and love he wants to be
around you when he has to go to work and
deal with the nonsense of work but he
knows he has a woman that when he's in
her presence only speaks love and
positivity into him he wants to be there
he doesn't want to be on about when he
can be relaxed next to the woman that
makes him feel good so learning how to
speak love and positivity into that man
learning how when you guys are
discussing things not to go to the
negative not to always sound so
pessimistic it doesn't mean that you
cannot be honest about how you feel and
sometimes your honest feelings may come
across as negative or pessimistic but
again it's not how you it's not what you
say but how you say it and learning how
to convey your message in a more loving
peaceful feminine manner is going to go
a long way and again it it causes you to
be the person that he wants to be around
that he wants to talk to that he
cherishes now as I mentioned in number
one it's easier to be positive and
loving when you're at peace from within
when you're doing the things for you to
feel better about yourself to feel good
to have the energy that you need so you
do have to make sure that you are
locating the negative influences in your
life that throw you off from staying in
that more positive and loving mindset
what is causing you to struggle if it is
a struggle for you to do these things if
right now you're sucking your teeth or
rejecting this idea of speaking loving
positivity why why why are you so more
inclined to think this is unrealistic
and to think that being more negative or
whatever we want to call it it is what
it should be or how it should be
accepted the reality is that you can
achieve being a more positive loving
person but you have blockage there
there's something that we have to remove
it may be Trauma from childhood uh it
may be that you're not prepared to be
fully vulnerable and the reality is that
being positive and loving requires a
level of vulnerability and because you
struggle in that manner you may tend to
reject such ideas as this but you have
it in you I want you to know that you
have it in you you are capable and again
understand that becoming that positive
loving person isn't not is not only
going to make him worry about losing you
it has a positive effect on everyone in
your life because again the same woman
who may struggle in her relationship
ships see struggle in other areas see
conflict in other areas because that
negative energy carries over into other
areas of our life so when we can learn
to create more positive environments
whether that be at work our
relationships with family that tends to
have the reverse effects and now the
positivity starts to spread so we have
to turn the tables in every area that we
can to make sure we're walking in more
love and positivity but without a doubt
when you are that woman he will be
concerned about losing you he will be
worried about losing you he will want to
make sure he holds on to this because
I'm telling you right now y'all see a
world and many of you say there's so
many good women but there's not a lot of
positive women there's not a lot of
sweet loving women not like you think it
is not when it comes to being in a
relationship some of these women may act
all sweet and loving on the surface but
behind closed doors with that man they
are hell they are trouble it is not what
you think of it I said that all wrong
it's not what you think it is okay so
please understand that when you can
bottle that up and become that positive
loving woman that's a that's a powerful
force and that's something that he will
regret or he will worry about losing
number three on the list
is you're gonna find out his specific
needs and desires and then actually
Implement these things or actually
provide these things one of the greatest
mistakes of women is that they assume
what this man wants they assume well if
I this is what I've been taught to
believe should make him happy rather
than learning what actually makes him
happy so they do things based off their
own logic or their own assumptions and
they don't realize it doesn't always
connect with what that man was looking
for it's almost like you're with this
man and you say what would you love for
your birthday and he says you know what
I would just love
um a box of pizza some liquor me and you
watching the movie and we have some sex
I'm just throwing that in there because
some that's what some guys would say all
right now you hear this and you say you
know what he needs a new wallet let me
go get him a wallet no pizza no liquor
no set no nothing just the damn wallet
and in your mind you're thinking he
should be so happy because he needed
this wallet but in his mind it's like I
I asked for those things that's what I
yeah I appreciate that you're so
thoughtful that you that you recognize I
needed this and this is a useful gift
but there was a different need that I
wanted to be met and you ignore that and
I give you just a simple example but
this happens in so many ways with women
where what he's actually Desiring is not
connecting with what you're trying to
pour into
so when you take the time to find out
his needs and desires specifically to
him and then you pour into that oh my
gosh you immediately become a woman like
no other because the average woman does
not do that I'm not gonna tell you to
compromise your beliefs or your values
to satisfy any man so that is where okay
well maybe this is an indicator that
we're in the wrong relationship that we
we see things differently because now
you will be able to see clearly you are
unwilling or are not capable of
fulfilling his specific desires and you
can't distribute another rug and say
well he just has to deal with it because
anything that's left as a void leaves
the door open for someone else to fill
it not saying that's okay not validating
it not saying it's right I'm telling you
this is what happens so if you notice
that this is a void you can't fill then
maybe this is an indicator unless it's
something super simple that he generally
feels like it's not that big of a deal
other than that then that may tell you
okay we got to just keep it moving and
move in a different direction but to get
back to the main point find out what he
needs specifically find out what he
desires tap into that and when you do
and not just tap into it once not just
tap into it for his birthday no
consistently the same way you don't want
a man only doing the things you really
like when it's a special occasion you
want him to take initiative to do that
on regular days too it shouldn't just be
when it's a special day to get these
things that you really really want so
it's the same thing for him be
consistent with those things keep
pouring into it and I'm telling you when
that happens this man is not going to
want to lose you plain and simple hey
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