- In this video, I will share with you 15 signs
that he will marry you.
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Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite.
I'm a dating and relationship coach for women.
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And just before I will share with you the 15 signs
that he will marry you, don't forget to take
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And ladies, without further ado,
I will start with the signs.
However,
you will probably get nowhere
even if you pass the 13 signs
but will fail on the last two.
The sign number one is he never cancels the dates on you.
Why is such an important sign?
Because it shows that he really likes you
and that he's really eager to see you,
and it also shows that he's putting you as a priority.
Therefore, if something else comes across
that may interrupt him seeing you,
he will still figure out how to see you
and keep you as a priority,
and will not cancel on you because of those interruptions.
A guy never canceling on you is a huge, massive sign
that he loves spending time with you
and that he is taking you very seriously.
Sign number two that a guy will potentially marry you is
when he introduces you to his family
and friends as his girlfriend, not by your name,
not this is my friend, not this is my whatever else.
This is my girlfriend, or this is my love,
or a lot of times if he really sees you seriously already,
he might even introduce you as his wife
or as his future wife
even if he has not proposed to you yet.
Sign number three that he will marry you is
he talks about a future with you a lot.
He talks about the future plans with you,
maybe in couple weeks' time, then in couple months' time,
and then later on, if he's truly falling for you,
he will start to talk about the future plans with you
in years and years to come.
If he's doing that, there is a huge possibility
that he's being honest with you
and is seeing you potentially as his wife.
Number four when a guy sees future with you,
he talks about having kids with you.
He talks about the names for the kids,
how the kids would look like,
what school they would go to and so on.
He talks about having a family with you.
Number five sign that he will potentially marry you is
when he really pays attention to what you say,
whether you're talking about your past
or you're talking about your family and friends
or your future goals, or you're just generally speaking,
he seems most of the time really focused on you
and paying attention to what you say.
Why?
Because he wants to figure you out,
and he's checking, are you a wife material?
Therefore, if he agrees with many things that you do say,
in his mind, he'll tick that yes box.
Number six sign is he shows that he cares about you.
If you're sick and you guys don't live together,
he might order some soup coming to your house,
or he might show up himself with a medicine,
or if you have some kind of emergency,
he'll be there the first one to help you out,
showing you that you can trust him and rely on him.
He will show you in many ways that he cares about you,
even if it's just giving you a call at 10:00 PM asking,
where are you and are you home safe?
Number seven, he is protective of you.
So if a man sees you as his future wife,
he will cherish you, he will adore you,
and he's gonna be protective of you
because he's not going to want another man
to snatch you off him, right?
So if he'll see
that there are potentially high-value men approaching you,
he might come across a bit protective of you.
He might start to check in with you more
or calling you more, let's say,
in the evenings at 10 o'clock at night or 11
just to check in and see, are you home safe?
And ladies, caring about a woman and being protective of her
is very different from controlling her,
and here is the difference.
Let's say the controlling part would be
he is not allowing you to see your friends or family
or have fun with them,
whereas the protecting and caring part would be calling you
to see are you getting home safe
after you finish spending time with your family or friends.
Number eight sign that a guy will marry you is
when you control your emotions,
when you don't behave like a child.
I remember I had a conversation with my mom recently.
She said, "Greta, I cannot be myself with your dad.
"I always have to control myself."
And I said to my mom,
"Well, Mom, welcome to reality of happy relationships,"
meaning that we must have self-control.
We cannot just behave whichever way we think of
and be inconsiderate to others.
We must think before we speak.
We must control our emotions.
We must behave in the mature, secure, confident way,
thinking not just about ourselves,
but about the other person too.
And ladies, when you will be in charge of your emotions
and you're not going to behave like a child,
throwing tantrums, screaming, yelling, shouting,
trying to control, or perhaps victimizing yourself,
he will start to see you as a secure,
confident, high-value woman.
He will enjoy spending time with you
and will want to have more of you.
Number nine sign that a guy will marry you is
when you bring out the best in each other,
when you are inspiring him
to be a better person.
And ladies, we inspire men to be a better person
when we are bettering ourselves.
So whether we are focused on our goals and dreams,
or whether we are doing some kind of charity
and helping others, whether we are just not allowing a man
to manipulate and set in boundaries when he does that,
then he will see these qualities in you.
If he is a mature guy, he will see you as an inspiration,
and he will want to better himself.
However, this does not apply to men that live in the chaos,
and seeing the toxicity and chaos
is something very, very attractive.
Therefore we are manipulating ladies,
we take advantage of them, we are lying to them,
we're trying to date a few girls at the same time,
we try to sleep around.
They focus on the shallow things in life,
and they think that those shallow things
will bring them happiness,
whether it's girls, drugs, sleeping around or whatever else.
So if he's mesmerized by this type of mindset
and he's literally living in a chaos,
then bettering yourself will not impact this guy
to be better also because simply not ready for it.
He's enjoying his drama.
He's enjoying his chaos.
He has not matured for you yet.
Number 10 sign that he might potentially marry you is
when you let him be the man,
when you let him feel like a man.
Ladies, we enjoy dating men
that makes us feel as women, right?
I love dating guys that make me feel feminine,
that bring out the femininity in me,
that make me feel girly,
'cause I'm a woman, and I like to feel like one.
So the same goes with men.
Men like it when they feel masculine,
when they feel like men.
In order to make a man to feel like a man,
you need to understand the differences between men and women
and treat him accordingly.
If you will treat a man as your female best friend,
long term, your relationship will fail
because you're not going to make this man feel good.
You're not gonna make him feel masculine.
You're gonna make him feel feminine instead.
The same goes for us.
For example, when men behave in a feminine way
and make you feel masculine by,
let's say, putting the situations
where you have to split the bill
or pay for him or look after him
or provide for him or chase and pursue him,
or perhaps even initiate intimacy.
If you're put in this type of position
and you're actually behaving these ways,
you as a woman, you'll start to feel masculine
and you're not gonna enjoy the relationship.
Therefore it's so important for men not to treat women
as their blokey friends,
and for women not to treat men as their female friends.
As I always say, God did not design us all to be men
or all to be women.
God designed us to be completely different,
nearly opposite of each other
in order to complement one another,
in order for two to become one.
And if you would like to know the differences
between men and women, I have an awesome playlist
which I will drop in the video description box below,
or you can find it just by following the link right here.
Number 11 sign that he will marry you is
he is happy to hang out with your family.
He likes your father, he likes your mother,
he enjoys spending time with your brothers and your sisters.
And if, let's say, him and your father
or him or your mother don't get on well,
'cause he potentially sees you as a future wife,
he will try to please your father and your mother.
He will try to be his best self with them,
and he will try to impress them.
Number 12 sign, he invites you
to all really important family gatherings.
So whether his brother is getting married
or whether he's invited to a huge family gathering,
he will bring you along
and will start to slowly make you feel
as a part of the family.
Number 13 is he is generous with you.
He is happy to take that bill.
He is happy to take you on that holiday.
He's happy to get some furniture,
some pictures for your flat.
He is being generous with you and he is giving you freely.
Maybe he's even paying your tuition fees for the college.
When a guy sees you as a future wife
and sees you as being his other half,
he will feel more giving,
and he will feel more free to invest into you,
because by investing into you,
actually investing in his life with you.
Keep it in mind, ladies, that in the beginning,
when you meet and you start to date somebody,
if a guy is smart, he will invest a little bit in you
as in he might be generous, he might treat you nice.
As you keep dating, and if you're being high value,
your relationship will just start to grow.
You guys will start to bond more.
You guys will get to know each other more.
You guys will fall in love more.
Your relationship long-term will become better and better.
Therefore you will see him gradually investing
in you more and more and more.
He will truly start to see a future with you.
And here comes the two last ones.
So even if you have all these 13 signs
and you are in a happy relationship,
this number 14 could ruin it all,
and what is it?
It is your religious views, right?
I had quite a few clients, so let's say,
where the guy was Muslim and the girl was Christian.
Let's say they got on really well,
but they both are quite strong in their religious beliefs.
And this is when it actually, a lot of times
it cannot work unless one of them compromises,
but this can get really, really complicated
if your religious beliefs are strong.
If, on the other hand,
you both don't have strong beliefs
and you're kinda like on the shallow part,
then this can potentially work without too many issues.
But if you really do get on,
but your religious beliefs are quite strong
from this side and this side,
it can literally break everything apart.
I'm not saying it's impossible,
but it can become very complicated.
Therefore if you would prefer things to flow easily
without too many complications,
I would really recommend dating somebody
from your own town and your own background.
And the number 15 where,
even if you have all of these things, it may not work,
is if he does not have marriage views,
if, let's say, his parents experienced
some kind of tragic divorce
and he's now got serious commitment issues,
or perhaps he does not believe in marriage.
Perhaps his point of view is we'll stay together
until we love each other, and instead of proposing to you
and offering you marriage,
he offers you to live together and enjoy the moment
until the love lasts.
This can be, again, very different to somebody who,
let's say, is coming from a background
where the parents are still together
and who sees marriage as
until death does you part,
not until you fall out of love,
but being there for each other for better or for worse
until death does you part.
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Kisses from Dorset.
Mwah.