(couple beatboxes)
- Yeah, unh, unh.
- Cin with the pretty (censored) hair.
Got me at BuzzFeed playing truth or dare.
- And Cush.
- Some people like whips.
Some people like chains.
(record scratch)
- You're making me blush.
- You're not about to get R rated up in here, Buzzfeed.
- You're trouble.
- I'm trouble.
(upbeat music plays)
(camera click)
(bubbles pops)
(camera click)
- Hey, my name is Cin.
I'm actually newly single.
My last relationship was very toxic.
My ideal guy would be someone who is very honest.
Someone who's very trustworthy.
Hopefully you guys can help me.
I need help.
I'm like losing hope in mankind.
(Cin laughs)
(camera click)
- I'm Noah.
I'm located in Los Angeles.
And the reason why I'm single is because I just moved here.
I've been here for about four or five months.
I'd love to be set up on a blind date with somebody
who is educated or is interested in learning things
or teaching things.
(camera click)
- Hi, my name is Josselyn Morris.
And the reason why I'm singles
cause the girls been playing with me, man.
Girl I hoped to be matched with is
someone who's funny, smart, go getter.
Preferably black or mixed with any type of black, please.
(camera click)
- I'm Desiree.
I'm single because
I'm very selective about who I choose to take seriously
or really just spend my time with in general.
Love to be matched with a fine man, who can dress well.
(camera click)
- My name is Kiohana Brown and I feel like I'm single
because I don't feel like anybody's good enough for me.
That's the honest to God truth.
If I could create like my perfect person,
I guess you could say, it would be someone who is tall,
dark, handsome would be nice, with a nice smile.
(camera click)
- What's going on.
It's Barett Cusher. Why am I single?
No real reason. I'm a real go with the flow kind of guy.
What am I looking for in a woman?
Definitely somebody attracted.
(upbeat music)
- I'm on my way to Buzzfeed, about to do this blind date.
You feel me?
I'm a little nervous.
I'm not going lie.
- I'm excited for this date. To see if we hit it off or not.
- Hopefully my blind date
is someone that I want to go on another date with.
- I'm so nervous.
I've never been on a blind date.
- I'm feeling surprisingly chill.
I'm not sure what to expect.
- Pretty excited.
I'm kind of nervous, but we'll see how it goes.
(heart beats)
(groovy music)
- Oh. Well. (censored) it's good.
- Hi. - Hi.
(Kiohana laughs)
- How are you?
- Good. How are you? Nice to meet you.
- I'm Kiohana. - Josselyn.
- It's nice to meet you.
- Hi. - Hi.
- Sorry. I didn't know what was going on.
- Oh Jesus Christ.
I'm so glad that's off and we can see each other
and I can see everything in the room.
I was tripping.
- Good Morning. - Good morning.
- What's your name?
- Desiree. - Desiree. I'm Noah.
- Noah. Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you, Desiree.
- What's your name?
- Cin. - Cin. Cush.
Nice to meet you.
We can wrap this up now.
(couple laughs)
- Whew. Okay.
Who's first.
- I mean ladies first, right?
- Okay.
- [Kiohana] What's a flaw about you
that often ruins your relationships?
If I don't get what I want,
I make it known that there's a problem
and you need to fix the problem.
I'm very assertive.
- I could be really petty.
I could be spontaneously vindictive, sometimes.
- Lack of commitment. Definitely.
It's like a signature Gemini thing.
- Cool.
- Yeah. Yeah. It's like, 'yeah, I know.'
- I remember the first man I ever loved,
we were laying in bed and I was like,
'you never get me no (censored) flowers.'
You know what I mean? I was just going off.
And it really scared him. And it frightened him.
And at the time,
I didn't realize that I had done anything wrong.
I thought I was doing the right thing by expressing myself.
- If I could have given my younger self advice
it would just be stop overthinking it.
Just follow your feelings.
- I'm learning to just communicate more
and stop trying to one up.
But if I feel like I'm being played,
I want to play harder.
- Oh, okay.
- Sometimes.
So tit for tat.
- But I feel like I've grown a lot from that little girl
who just didn't really know how to communicate well.
- I like that you not only gave your flaw,
but you also talked about how you're aware of it
and recognizing it and changing.
So that's the first step. You saw it.
(Noah laughs)
Accepted it.
So now...
- Application.
- Yes.
- I'm kind of the same way.
- I feel like you lose my evil twin.
- Oh my God. Its hot. Okay.
- [Desiree] What's the most cringey thing you've done
to get someone's attention.
Oh God.
(Desiree laughs)
The most cringey.
I feel like I've done a lot for...
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
(couple laughs)
The most cringey though.
- Probably show up at their work.
And I talked to his manager.
I was like, 'have you seen him? Where's he at?'
- Okay. I used to play college basketball, right.
And there was this girl on the team that I had a crush on.
She was roommates with like some other girl.
And I literally was not friends with this other girl at all.
But I asked her, 'hey, let's watch a show. Just as friends.'
But just so I could see her. And so that's pretty cringey.
Why would I... - That is pretty cringey.
- I literally didn't...
we were not friends at all. And randomly I'm like,
'hey, let's watch this show in your room.
- Why wouldn't you... - With my crush.'
- It would've make more sense for you to talk to your crush.
- I was 19. I don't know.
- I sent this guy a Chipotle gift card.
- [Noah] Yeah. Yeah.
- In the mail to his house.
You know, people don't send mail.
- No. Yeah. (Noah laughs)
- So yeah, that was probably really cringey.
- So was it somebody that wasn't responding to your text
messages and you felt like you have to pull up on him?
- Yeah.
- He wasn't responding.
I don't like not being responded to.
- Did you wind up talking to the girl
while you were in the dorm?
- Kind of. Well, luckily for me,
I guess she was showering. She walked out naked.
I was like, 'oh my God.' You know?
- What was his response? Yeah.
- He was just like, 'thank you.'
- He Was just like, 'thank you. So busy.'
- Yeah.
- Did it work in the long run?
- No.
- What did the manager say?
- He was like, 'no, he hasn't been here.'
Manager was lying to my face.
- Oh, he got... yo that's my boy.
(couple laughs)
- Did you wind up dating her?
- Yeah.
- You did?
- For like a year.
And she played the (censored) out of me bro.
Messed my whole life up.
- No.
- Played me. All that.
She played the (censored) out of me.
It was really bad.
- [Cush] Kiss your date.
- Oh, for real.
If you're comfortable, I'm comfortable.
- I'll kiss you on the cheek.
- Just give me a kiss on the cheek.
- Oh, period. Okay. I'm gonna come over.
- We're not about to get R rated up in here, BuzzFeed.
I know what y'all was trying to go for.
- Come here.
- I don't want get lip gloss all over you but...
- Very nice. That very sweet.
(Desiree laughs)
- Aww
- Period.
- Oh, you're trouble.
- I'm trouble.
- Oh my God, yeah.
- [Desiree] Have you ever cheated on someone you loved?
Why'd you do it?
Short answer? Yes.
- Okay. First off, I've never cheated, but...
- Ah, there's always a but.
- He cheated on me first.
- No, no. I've never cheated on someone.
Period.
- Period.
- I'd say if anything,
it's been like more emotional cheating.
Or just someone just showing me attention
where my partner wasn't.
- And I found out. Or he didn't tell me,
but I literally found out.
So I was like,
'all right, I'm going to go (censored) my trainer.'
- That's why I don't (censored) with those trainers, bro.
- It'll happen, yeah. - That's exactly why.
- In high school, I really did.
I was going on dates with someone. Public places.
I'm from a place where we could have easily seen
people that we knew.
- I've been the other girl and didn't know I was the other
girl until I found out. And that was (censored) up.
- When you found out your ex cheated,
how soon after did you cheat?
- Almost immediately after. Maybe like three days after.
- Okay.
- [Josselyn] Have you ever forgotten a date's name?
- You did mine three times.
- Yeah.
- What is it?
(Kiohana laughs)
- I have actually. It's almost embarrassing.
I have to pretend I'm on Instagram, to go like...
- Okay. But like remembering.
Oh, so you never got caught?
- Never got caught, but it's happened.
- I believe that. (Cin laughs)
- Wait, is it Key... Q...
It's Key something.
Say it one more time.
(Kiohana inhales)
- What was your name?
(couple laughs)
I'm so serious cause I really forgot.
This is going so good I kind of just...
- Cush.
- Cush. Okay.
- Is it Kiohana?
- Yeah. Okay.
- See I got it. I got it.
Okay. Cause I was scared, bro.
(upbeat music)
- Cush definitely sounds like a player.
So I mean, we'll probably hang out,
but I don't think anything serious will come out of it.
But I did have a lot of fun.
- All right. So just get off my date.
Fire. Definitely going on a second one.
- It was fun playing truth or dare.
I would definitely go on a second date.
- The date was fun.
He was cute.
I definitely think he needs some more experience
with being committed and taking his time
as far as dating goes. So I don't know that I'm the woman
for that role in his life but I would be open
to going on another date with him.
- Yeah, the date was cool. I had a lot of fun.
I probably wouldn't go on a second date just
because I didn't feel there was a real connection
like that there.
- Sweet Jesus.
Oh, I'm just still in shock.
Josselyn seems very cool.
Would I want to date her again?
No, she's not my type.
(upbeat music)