Once a woman comes over to your place, you want to make sure that you have the essential things that
make her say, you know what, that was a good time and I want to come back. Now here's the problem,
a lot of guys... and by the way guilty of this for way too many years, they don't pay attention
to their place, this setup, and they don't have a setup that says, hey, I'm a mature guy,
I have my act together, I have my life together, and I am not a complete mess. So on today's video,
I'm going to give you 5 essential things that you need to have in your condo, in your home, in your
apartment that say to a woman, hey, I'm mature, I have a nice place, and a place where you're going
to want to come back to. Some of these things you're going to be able to implement right away,
some things are going to take a little bit of time, but let's get into it because they're all
important. Follow me into the bedroom, where I'm going to show you something that is so critical.
Okay, so we're going to talk about the bed. Now, this is not the item, well, this is obviously the
item that you need in your place, but let's get more specific. This is kind of a two-for. Meaning,
there are two things that I want you to have for your bed that are going to make it so she's
going to want to come back. The first one is a headboard. Alright, so this puppy right here,
this is what a headboard is. Now it's connected over here, and that's where the mattress goes,
the boxspring goes. Now this is a little bit feminine. I will admit I'm in an Airbnb right now,
so we don't have much choice over the design. But still, we can admit this is pretty awesome as
well. And the headboard adds such a crucial piece to this. Imagine if there was no headboard there
and all these pillows over here, were just against the wall. It doesn't look good, looks very empty.
Something very mature about having a headboard, very cozy, very comfortable. It adds a whole new
element to the design of the room and the bed and most guys don't do this. You can purchase one new
of course, but you can also just go on Facebook marketplace or Craigslist, and you can get one
that's used and you can get one pretty fast and up and running. The second thing, the mattress. Okay,
so we're on this mattress right now. I'm not sure what the company is that makes this mattress but
let me just say it is soft, and is also firm at the same time. It's kind of got that TempurPedic
feel, and it's going to be really crucial to have a mattress that is really comfortable and
there's so many different routes you can go with this. I'm gonna go for the cheap route first,
this is what I used to do when I did not have a lot of money. I got a cheap mattress, maybe
like a couple hundred bucks, and then I put a two inch foam pad on top of the mattress. I had women
stay over my place and they said it was one of the most comfortable beds that they've ever been
on. And again, this was a foam padding on top of a mattress. The foam padding was like 100 bucks,
and the mattress was like a couple hundred bucks. That is the cheap way to go. And that's the fast
way to go. The other option is really investing into the bed and spending a couple $1,000 on one
of those real nice Tempurpedic mattresses. You can go TempurPedic the actual brand. Then there's one
called Casper. Every year there's a new company that comes out with one of those delivered to your
door rolled up mattresses that are some of the most comfortable mattresses. And I would recommend
that you get one of these anyways because your sleep is so important. So forget just women coming
over. When you have a great 7-8 hours of sleep because of your mattress, you're going to be
healthier, and it's going to help your longevity because you're getting such good sleep which is
so good for you. Let's come out of the bedroom. Let's talk music for a second. I'm in an Airbnb,
I don't have a crazy speaker system. But this is good because not everyone does. This is the
quick way to have a great way to play music. So I'm able to AirPlay my phone over to the
TV over there and play music that way. I have a JBL speaker this is like 80 bucks or something.
Something I take on road trips and camping trips and things like that. But this plays pretty solid
music. You can also get a nicer JBL like a couple 100 bucks or of course you can go all the way and
get a great speaker system. Or like in my other place that I'm not in right now, I have a whole
vinyl setup. I have about 200 vinyls, a really nice vinyl player that I've invested a lot into
building that up because I love music. Have an option to play music. Coming over to a place
where you're playing music out of your phone, or you're having no music at all is very awkward.
You want to be able to set the mood. Next up this right here. No not necessarily a mirror but you
want things on the walls. I know we come from college where we don't think about the things
we put on our walls. Or maybe we've had posters on our walls, but you want items on your wall. Look
at this Airbnb I'm in. You wouldn't think much about it. I don't go up to that piece and go, wow,
that's so beautiful, what a beautiful piece of art. It's kind of white noise in the sense where
you don't notice it. But you also subconsciously do because if there was nothing on those walls,
I would notice how bare it is. But once you put something up like that, it makes the room feel a
lot nicer. We can go over here, we can even see there's some things on the mantel. There's the 1
million gold plaque I got right there. Don't like this piece of art, but at least it's something on
the wall. Point being, you want things on the wall. It makes the place feel more designed,
and less like you're in some sort of mental institution. And if you don't know how to
put up, use a mirror. There's a mirror there, that's pretty cool. Even have a mirror here,
which kind of makes sense. This is something you might look at because you're going out the
door. So things on your wall to make the place better. Lastly, you want your place smelling
amazing. You want candles and a couple of them. And I don't know about you, but for a long time,
I thought candles were kind of girly. And maybe that's because when you see candles around, they
smell kind of feminine, but you do not need to get a feminine scented candle. You can get something
like this - storm, smells pretty awesome. Light this bad boy up when she comes over,
smells great, doesn't smell girly at all. But also the light of the candle sets that mood.
Have a couple all in different places. Here's another one right here super masculine Amber and
bergamot. And what's cool is they look nice. This looks like a cool piece just to have lying around.
Smell that almost smells like cologne, which is kind of nice. Go to a candle store, go on Amazon,
wherever you want. You can even get nice candles that are designer Tom Ford makes some candles that
smell incredible. Have those in your place, and you're really setting the mood. Those are
the things I want you to pay attention to when it comes to styling your place. Obviously, we've just
scratched the surface, there's so much more that you could do to make your place awesome. But if
you just had those 5 things covered, I guarantee she will remember your place because most guys
do not have that. And bonus is just make sure the place is clean. And at the least things are
put together and not thrown all over the place. Don't have dirty clothes everywhere. Make sure you
clean the bathroom sink, the bathroom, toilet, all that stuff needs to be nice and tidy. Have that,
have the things that I mentioned and you will be on your way. Now I want you to mention down
below anything that you have had in your place that really helped. I want us all to give some
ideas we can help each other out. This is a community here. Say something in the comments
below that you have in your place that's really made a great effect on your place. Also mention
maybe a specific candle or a type of mattress or anything that I mentioned here today any
specific examples that you have write them in the comments too, so we can all see and all get help.