So I was gonna wear slut clothes for you guys
You know so that I could pull more views but it's freezing in here, so
In my last video someone said that I wore a hoodie to cover my tracks
I don't know if you guys have seen my Cabo video
But I clearly don't really care that much about my track showing in videos anymore. I love being trash and accepting it
Hi guys
It's Tana Mongeau. Welcome to my channel or welcome back to my channel. Not Tana Mongeau addressing drama before it gets way blown the fuck
out of proportion! No, but no but really for today's video
I'm going to be talking to you guys about
something that happened at two of my shows on tour recently at my Freehold show and at my Long Island, New York Show.
I thought that when all of the shit went down at the shows I addressed it right then and there on stage
Both fucking times so that my words couldn't be twisted or couldn't be blown out of proportion
Or that there were no news articles or Messy Monday tweets or comments of false news
Unfortunately there still are because people love to talk so I thought I would just make a main channel video about it and talk about
It because honestly I have a lot to say on this topic
And I think this is the first time that I've had a scandal
And I don't think I'm wrong, not to suck my own dick or anything
I don't really think I'm in the wrong
and I really want to talk about this especially just as a preface for
Anyone who comes to my shows in the future and so people know my stance on it
And I also have a little bit of ranting to do without further ado, I am just going to get into today's video
Sorry, I look like shit you guys I'm in Boston, Massachusetts right now
I just did a show and the biggest and meet-and-greet of my entire tour all day today. I got ready at like 5:00 a.m.
I flew in from Vegas this morning
It's still so mind-blowing to me that everywhere I go there are so many people that are so invested in the littlest most emotional
Craziest parts of my life and the depths of my soul and the things that you guys write to me in letters and the things
That we talk about at my meet and greets and the hugs that I get from you guys and just the constant Love is
Incredible thank you guys so much when I was 15 years old and suicidal and thought I had no purpose and hated my life
right before I filmed my first YouTube video
I never would have thought I would be here so I just want to say thank you guys even if you don't come to my
Tour just the people who watched my videos and subscribe to my channel for giving me that opportunity
I don't think it will ever ever get old
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My social media. Basically if you guys don't know what happened in Freehold, New Jersey the other night
I had a giant show, and I love Freehold. I love the energy. I love performing at iPlay there
I always have a great time Freehold is one of my favorite cities to stop out on tour and was actually a special request for
Me of this where I was like, I want to go to Freehold. So we do this giant four hour-long Meet-and-greet
I literally spend like an hour with every single vip group of you guys
It's also Corinna's first show, so we're just having a lot of fun
And finally we get done with the meet-and-greet and I go on stage
We start playing a game of hot seat and basically the hot seat is like one by one all of us in the show sit
In the hot seat and then all of us ask the person in the hot seat juicy-ass questions
They can either answer the questions, or they can plead the fifth
But they do they lose point we get all the way through hot seat every single one of my friends including Corinna sits in it
I sit down in the hot seat one person asked me a question. I want to say and then all of a sudden
I look to the left of my stage and all my tour managers are going like this
And I'm like I have no idea what they're talking about and then I realized that
They're saying like timeout, and I'm like what the hell
I'm like 12 shows into my tour like this has never happened before they all look very stressed
I walked over to the side stage the audience is confused as shit
They're like yo the cops are here
And I'm like why like a million things go to my head people always try to bring me weed to my shows lots of people show up
Drunk to my shows and I've had parents get too drunk
I've had like fights happen sometimes, so I thought the cops were there for something like that and then my tour manager walks onstage
He grabs the mic and he's like yo someone in the audience your parents were unhappy with the show
So they want you to leave the audience so like instead of coming in the audience to get you they called the police there are
some parents in the back looking for their children unfortunately we need to ask you to go back to your parents with that being said if your
parents are texting you need to go to the back of the building the kids won't come out of the audience of the police come in the
audience to like find the kids. I
understand the Anger panic frustration of a parent wanting their kid to do something especially out of an audience of a bunch of people in
The kid not coming out that part I understand so then they pull the kid out of the audience
I'm kind of joking around at this point because now that I know it's not a safety hazard or something bad and someone literally called
The cops because they didn't like my show
I'm like jokingly like singing really PG songs to be like "See I'm PG" and like everyone in the audience is like waving flashlights, and we're joking whatever
*singing Sweatshirt by Jacob Sartorius*
And then I'm like okay
I'm gonna set off stage and take a break for the audience to kind of go back to normal and the cops to leave and
Whatever, so I go backstage
And I'm informed that the parents are like trying to get me arrested
That they won't leave and the police are trying to arrest those parents because they're so angry that they won't leave until I get arrested
The Cops are like laughing in their face like they're not going to arrest and then they go outside
And I'm informed they're like trying to sue the venue and the venue workers are just found like laughing at them because like there's nothing
They could sue for the parents bought the tickets to my show. It's a private event, etc
After a bunch of debacle the police finally escort the parents and the kids out
So I go back on stage
I briefly talked about the fact even though my show can get a little raunchy
The message of it overall is being confident in who you are is that it's okay to be the weird fucking Vulgar kid
That you don't have to conform to
society that I want my shows to be a safe place for people to be themselves to be confident to be proud of who they
Are even if it is the weird kid or someone who's different the rest of the show goes
Phenomenally literally phenomenally the crowd is insane the energy is insane the show is super funny
I'm having a great time with my friends. I leave the stage the night goes on the next day
We go to Long Island New York this day was super chaotic and stressful for me
I woke up really late by accident
So I was running super late different people were butting heads with different people things were going wrong
Everything was behind like the meet and greet the show
I was exhausted like I was just very stressed out in general
But of course I run out on stage and Long Island was by far the loudest
Craziest biggest most awesome crowd so far and you guys have the ability to
instantly turn my mood around like I can be in the shittiest mood and run out on stage and see all of your faces and my
Mood is flipped
that is why I love what I do because I'm so
Genuinely passionate about the impact that I can have all of you guys this entire show
I am incredibly mindful of what happened at the last show
I'm going to make sure to be a lot less Vulgar throughout the entire show. I was trying not to say fuck instead
of saying like fuckable we were saying bangable for fuck Marry Kill
I was literally saying Smash Marry kill literally being for me anyways
Especially very since we made sure the hot seat questions were way less bad we get through all of the show
We're playing never have I ever on stage and so that I'm like I'll take a few
never have I evers from the audience someone in the audience asks never have I ever done anal
first of all there's like nothing wrong with that
I go back to answer it and then I see a mom in the back of the crowd who for the last like 20 minutes
Of the show was like waving like trying to get my attention, and I was kind of just brushing it off
I thought she just had like a question or something and so finally I look at her and she looks at me and she's like
Do you fucking know how old these kids are I look at her and I know that she's angry
So I say something along the lines of yeah
But like did you watch my videos before you bought the ticket for your 13 year old kid and so then the entire audience starts
Cheering kind of booing her and stuff like that which I'm not condoning like I'm not saying everything like boo this lady
Did you watch my videos before you bought the ticket for your kid?
*crowd cheering*
but at least i'm not a bad parent.
*crowd cheering*
50 fucking parents hug me and thank me and cry to me and tell me that they're so happy that I create a place that
Their kid can feel accepted write me letters
24/7 come up to me and shake my hand that take pictures with me and videos with me
So I'm not going to sit here and act like these two parents change the way I feel about
Anything like I don't give a fuck no offense my old shows used to be so much more vulgar
I feel like a lot of drama channels a lot of people are wanting me to
Apologize for having a vulgar show that young kids go to but first and foremost
Any kid that is too young to be at my show
They don't have credit cards their parents bought those tickets their parents came with them
A) it's mind-blowing to me that parents will spend hundreds of dollars and do zero research
It's not like any portion of my vulgarity is even remotely hidden when I see parents that are that angry
It's obvious that they didn't even google my name. It's obvious that they literally just clicked add to cart and bought the ticket
How are you going to be angry?
if your kid wants to go to my show that means every single day in their room or in your living room or on their
Phone did you pay the bill for they're spending a lot of their time watching my videos that means you don't know what the fuck
your kid is doing with the majority of their free time you don't know what the fuck your twelve-year-old
is spending time on the internet looking at that's not my fucking fault when buying my ticket on the page to buy my tickets or
When you google Tana Mongeau tour there are plenty
Summaries of my show that says it's vulgar that says it's raunchy that says I tell one of my infamous Vulgar stories on stage
Why would you go out of your way to
embarrass
yourself your kid but rate the fuck out of me in front of your kid in front of everyone
Why wouldn't you just like let your kid finish watching the fucking show?
And then take them home and be a good parent and sit down and be like okay. Why do you like this girl?
why are you watching this you might be too young for this type of thing instead of taking the hat you just paid money for
Off your kids head and throwing it at me. That's a good example mom
never have i ever...
can we get security please?
assault people that piss you off
Pretty sure me standing on stage talking about sex
Something that your kid is exposed to every day at school every time you turn on the TV
I don't know if you know, but you fucked your kid's dad to make your kid
They're gonna have to learn about sex eventually one day
I'm pretty sure all of that is a better example than ripping something off your kid's head and
Assaulting Their idol in front of them
It's not even that like you threw a hat me like come back bitch catch my hand. I don't care
it's that like you basically just showed your kids that you approve of
Doing actions like that when people make you angry
Like great example mom and your kid also probably will fucking hate you for a long time because you suck hello 911
Like I'm in a show and someone saying shit and fuck on stage and talking about sex like can you come help?
What goes through someone's?
Mind to see your kid at a show where someone is cussing and your first instinct is to call the police you could have walked
In the audience and got your fucking kid you could have asked the security thirty
Security guards at the venue to go get your kid you could have sat back and been like damn
Instead of being mad at this girl who does this for a living
it's not her fault that young kids like what she does you could've stepped back and been mad at yourself for paying a lot of
money To buy tickets for your kid who is 12 to a show that you did no research for like you look really fucking stupid now
If I were to ever have kids, I would never want to shield them from the bad things in life
I would want to educate them because I feel like of how you help turn your kid into a good person
You show them the fucked up things in the world and you teach them how to handle them do I think that my show is
incredibly
Acceptable for 10 and 11 year olds no do I still meet a lot of 10 and 11 year olds that came with their parents
And their parents still thanked me for saving their kids lives and are fine with them being there
And I'm happy that they're there because they're allowed to be there absolutely that there is so much bigger of a message
And I'm constantly telling kids don't be a fucking brat to your parents. They love you
They're doing nothing but looking out for you like blah blah blah my slogan is literally come to my tour so I can fuck you
I can't be any more open about my show literally thousands of comments tweets replies Drama channels people asking me are you
Sorry, what are you going to do to change it?
That's why I'm making this because I want to just like straight up address it
I'm not sorry at all anyways
To people ask me if I'm going to change my show no have I walked on stage now and will I probably for a while
Just because I'm weary of crazy
Psychopathic fucking parents who want to throw things at my head and call the police and try to ruin my fucking show I've been saying
a little disclaimer like you know hey parents this show is Gonna get Vulgar and if you brought your ten year old child here and
You paid a bunch of money for a ticket you have no idea what I do
Hi, since. I've been saying that disclaimer at the end of every show
I like 20 parents come up to me and be like we love you. We love what you do like
We would never do that. We've watched your videos with our kids. Thank you. We understand the bigger message obviously
Moral of the story, I'm not sorry. I'm not going to change anything
Hopefully this video serves as a little disclaimer to all of the drama channels I wanted to shut this the fuck down before it
Got worse to all the media in general like whatever you may be and to any angry parents
Maybe this will serve as a lesson for you as a parent to be
More involved in your kids lives
To look at what they're watching to look at the things that they're filling their brain and their thoughts and their mind with things that
Is shaping who they are as a person and to all of the parents that love and support me
I am so grateful for that there has been so many shows where it has brought me to genuine tears seeing happy
awesome relationships between dads and their daughters or moms and their daughters because when I was 12 and 13 and 14 that was probably the
Rockiest hardest time I had with my family growing up, we fought all the time every single day
we are so much better now, but seeing
Families that get along a lot better than I did growing up always touches me
And I always make sure to pull that kid aside
And say yo like what you have is something so many people would kill for to have both of your parents in your life
Or parents who are involved and give a shit about you or parents that love you and are cool and you can
Confide in and talk to and I try to always tell you guys to really take advantage of that
I'm on tour in Boston right now my next show is in Toronto tour is going
Phenomenally and to all of the articles and stuff I read saying looks like Tana Mongeau's tour is taking a bad turn
It's not at all some dumbass parent called the fucking cops because they're an idiot and this is my take on it
I'm honestly having the time of my life
And I think this is also a lesson that in life you can focus on the one little tiny negative thing
or all of the positive things you know I could let that one
Parent get me down and set me make me angry change my show change the way I do things on a daily basis
In still anger in my heart or I can look into an audience of the other
999 people who love me and support me and are excited life is all about perspective and what you focus on
So that's exactly what I'm gonna keep doing everyone that supports me watch my videos subscribes tweets me comments on my instagram photos
Watches my Snapchat stories invests
Themselves in every aspect of my life whether you come to my tour and meet me in person or not you still mean so much
To me I could not be on this world tour
I cannot be going to these shows I could not be doing any of this
if it wasn't for people that simply click my videos because they care about the stupid shit that I have to say you guys make me
Who I am and I told you when I filmed my first video
I would never forget that so I want to tell you guys today
I haven't forgotten that and I abso-fucking-lutely never will if you take anything from this video as not a parent as a millennial
Teenager who watches my videos life is all about perspective you can focus on the one negative thing or the million
Positive things it is what you make it never be afraid to unapologetically be yourself
There's always going to be people who have something to say about what you do and if you focus on those people
It'll get you down and you will be sad
So do you and the only opinion that really matters is you thank you guys for loving and accepting
The weird kid who sat down in her dirty ass room with her dirty ass door on her iPhone 5
Talking about a bleach and tone I love you guys I promise you
I don't ever want to forget about that girl, and what she stood for and to anyone
who was anything negative to say or thinks I'm wrong in this situation share your opinions raise my engagement view the video
I don't give a fuck but I will talk to you guys in the next less drama-filled video
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And I will talk to you guys in the next video. Bye