Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video,
we're going to be talking about decoding her texts. That's right. What does she
mean when she's texting you certain things? What does she mean when she's
giving you a half answer of whether or not she wants to hang out?
Or maybe she's subtly telling you that she's interested in hanging out but
she's not telling you exactly that. So you have to read between the lines.
I'm going to be showing you what all this means through actual text messages that
were sent in through some of my students who are in my Tripp's Corner private
Facebook group and you're gonna see exactly what's going on and I'm gonna go
into them and analyze them so you can learn exactly what to do and how to proceed
when you are texting a girl and what she means when she's texting you.
Before we get into that, I want to give you something for free. It's my free video
that gives you the 7 Deadly Text Messages That She Can't Resist. All you
got to do is go to the description below, click on the link or go to the URL right
there and what this is is copy paste messages. Seven text messages that you
can send for every different situation depending on what situation you're in
with a girl. All you got to do is use those and be able to set up the date.
Go ahead check that out or go to the URL and let's get into it. I know
this is sort of out of context but let me just read this and then let's analyze it.
She says it's raining he says now, she says Tuesday and Wednesday.
Obviously he's trying to ask her out so he says so you can't go out those nights?
And then she says I get sick easily. I'd rather avoid the bad weather. He says
well how about tonight? The sky is clear, there's a fun salsa dance class we could
crash. She says tonight it's snowing, what are you
talking about? Lol it's so cold it's very nice of you to think of these activities.
If this is not totally obvious to you, she is making an excuse not to meet up.
First excuse is right here. I get sick easily. I'd rather a boy avoid the
bad weather. Maybe she's telling the truth, we're not sure yet. I actually like
that he kind of went for well how about tonight? Let's do this.
Then she goes well you know it's snowing,
but it's very nice of you to think of these activities. Now a guy might
see that and say oh she said it was very nice.That means this is working. That
means she likes me. No, that's not what it means at all. In fact
it means the exact opposite. She's basically saying it's very nice of you
to think of this stuff. Thanks for trying but I'm not interested. Let me tell you
something. A girl will go out in the worst weather to meet you
if she's attracted, if she is interested in you, if she thinks she has a shot with
you. Weather is not gonna stop her especially for, whatever this
situation is. It's not like she's in some sort of blizzard. You gotta
remember, any excuse not to meet up with you, it means she's not interested.
Although the only exception here is if she actually decides to say
another date. She could easily say something like oh no I can't right
now but let's try next week. Girls will do that. They will be proactive in
that sense. Here the girl is not interested. I'm not sure what happens
after this. This is the only text messages I have but I would try to move on.
Here's another one, hi name are we still on for Thai night?
She goes shoot I forgot I have so much painting and writing to do I don't
think I have time tonight. He says okay no biggie we can save Thai for another
night. Then he says hey you we should play again sometime soon. She responds
hours later hey sorry I've been MIA. I've been insanely busy and leaving less
than a week for the holiday so I probably won't have time to hang before then.
He says cool enjoy the holidays. Give me a holler when you're back. You're
fun to hang with. Alright so this is him pursuing her really hard leaving
absolutely no mystery. But here's the thing; I don't think it even matters.
I don't think there's anything he could have done to save this. I don't think he
got her initially attracted in the first place
whenever he met her of course. Again I don't have any context of when they met,
how they met. But if you meet her, get her attracted, get her interested in you,
texting should be easy cuz texting just acts as logistics to get her to meet up.
Here's the thing; she is saying that she's busy, she's using excuses right
here. I mean boom that's it right here. Sorry I've been MIA and insanely
busy. She's busy, she's leaving for the holidays so she doesn't have time to
hang out before then but what would she do if she was attracted? She'd say let's
make time to hang out when I come back. But she doesn't say that and of course
he's kind of acting needy here and saying well enjoy the holidays, give me a
holler when you're back, you're fun to hang with. I doubt, I doubt that she's
going to be give him a holler back. She's obviously just
being nice replying and saying no I'm not interested. But this girl even though
she's saying she's busy, that doesn't mean that she's gonna hang out with you
when she's free. I just got a call it like it is. I have to call it like
it is and this is what it is. Let's move on. This is a good one.
This is a good one. This is something that actually worked.
Let's go through it. Hi name this is Ryan roomate from the bar the other night.
A free shot of tequila if you remember my name.
She says hi whoever how are you? He says I owe you a drink. I'm doing good a lot
of work done today and you of course you do that sounds productive. I'm well.
Spent the day with friends. He says are some of your friends
neuroscientists like yourself? She says I have friends
who studied neuro. I wouldn't say any of us could apply that to ourselves. He says
oh okay and then he goes right into it .I like this this is great. He goes
right into it. Put a little check mark there because he's just making a little
bit of small talk and then going right for the date. In fact you don't even have
to do the small talk but either way it's fine but I like that he could have
gone forever on this. He could have just kept going and going, what
guys do but then they never go for the date. He's like alright time to go
for it so he says boom what's a better day to get drinks Friday or Saturday.
Great way to close the deal there. She says Saturday is definitely the best for me.
And then I like this he says what do you like more champagne and oysters, beer and
burgers or sushi and sake. Gives her a bunch of options, that's cool and then
she picks one sushi and sake definitely. There you go. Done. Done deal. This
is what it looks like when a girl is interested in you. She's responsive, she
says yes she's right to the point you're right to the point. I wish this is how it
could be done every single time. Whatever happened when they first met, he was able
to get her hooked on him, he was able to get her attracted so this was a layup.
This gets a little rough but I had to show this one. Let's go
into this; one different dude. He says thanks I just deeply care about you
especially because I see myself and most of your posts by the way I think talking
in real life is better than over messenger. Want to grab Pizza Hut or
Subway at some point next week? A lot of things to say here all right
first of all please do not do a date at Pizza Hut or Subway. I know you're
probably thinking like oh well what if he doesn't live somewhere there's...
There's places to go anywhere but there. Please do not do a date at a fast-food
place. I do like that he said I think talking in real life is better than over
message. That's cool but he's very needy here. Let's keep going.
She goes I probably can't. I don't even know who you are. That's sweet honestly
thank you though. Again this is what traps guys.
The girls are nice. They're saying like oh yeah that's really sweet thank you.
But that doesn't mean that they're gonna be interested. She's saying I
probably can't. I don't even know who you are. Whatever's going on here in this
situation, I don't know the context maybe you messaged her over I don't know
messenger or something or met her somehow but she obviously has no
attraction. She's saying that I don't know who you are.
And then out of nowhere he says you're welcome I totally understand and respect
your decision but I think the point of meeting in real life is to get to know
each other. She says I don't know and it keeps going.
He says Steph whatever decision you make is totally cool. If I think of it from
your point of view it makes sense to say no considering we're basically strangers.
If you want to wait longer I'm okay with that she says that's sweet but I don't
know and then he says okay let me know if whenever you decide. Let me tell
you something; she's not gonna decide. This is not gonna happen. It's completely over.
I think the biggest thing to learn here is you're not gonna convince her to meet up
with you. You're not gonna all of a sudden think logically and get in the
logical side of her brain and say oh let's just make, let's just validate her
and make sense like yeah let's validate her opinion on the fact that this is why
they're not meeting up. It's not like she's gonna read this text message and
say oh he understands now I want to meet up with him. That's now how it works.
That's not how attraction works. Attraction happens on the emotional level here.
And that happens when you guys are in person. I get what you're trying to do
bud. You're trying to get her in person but you're not going to here.
You're trying to convince her. If you want to learn how to text the best way then I
want you to get the 7 Deadly Text Messages That She Can't Resist.
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text - girls. Get that and you'll get the copy paste messages to send girls to be
able to get them to meet on a date and there are text messages that make it
intriguing for them to respond. Now I gave you examples of these guys where
the girls are responding but not in the way that we want them to.
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