What's going on? Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. If you're watching this,
then I can only imagine that you have been in the friend-zone. Or you are in the friend-zone
right now. Lord knows I am the king of the friend-zone or at least I used to be,
I was getting in the friend-zone all the way up to the point where I was in my early to mid 20s with
about 90% of the girls that I was interested in. They did not see me as any kind of sexual being,
they saw me as a friend. I'm talking to old Tripp, but I'm also talking to you when I
give you this message about how to recognize if she is just treating you like a friend and
then how to avoid that or get out of the situation altogether. Real quick, I want
to tell you about something that's going to help you for free. It is my Tripp's Tension Technique.
One of the reasons why guys end up in the friend-zone and don't end up getting to the
point where the girl is sexually attracted to them is because they don't make a move. I have
a demonstration video of me and another girl doing Tripp's Tension Technique where then you
can see how to build tension and specifically go for the kiss and what to do right before you go
for a kiss. It is absolutely free and you also get on my email list where I send weekly emails
giving you tips and techniques to attract more women. Check that out. Link is in the description
down below. The first sign that she only wants to be your friend, this is a big one. And this
is obvious, some of these are obvious, but still good to know. She is talking about other guys.
Specifically other guys that she likes. She's talking about other guys that she's interested
in. If she's doing that in any form or fashion or asking you advice on what to do. "What should
I do with this one person that I like?" And talking with this guy that she has a crush on,
you're absolutely in the friend-zone. Women will not do that. That's not like a game that they'll
play to try to make you jealous. I mean, there's exceptions, of course. But normally they know
not to do that if they're interested in a guy. They're not going to be talking about a guy.
Yeah, maybe they'll do some jealousy thing where they'll say some guy is cute or say one thing. But
what I'm talking about here is that they are going on and on about a guy that they like. I remember
this used to happen to me all the time. I would like a girl, we'd become friends and I'd try to
get in that backdoor route of being her friend first. And then she would tell me all these
stories about these guys that she likes. This was never a test. It's because she liked that other
person and didn't like me. Watch out for this. Here's another big one. And this is definitely
not a test as well. I know some guys see these things as test. She calls you buddy, pal,
friend, or dude. If she's saying buddy, pal, friend or dude she is basically saying to you,
you are my buddy, pal, friend or dude. Women don't usually do this because they also know
that if they're saying that, then they're going to give this sign to the guy that it's this
friendship. They know that if they're saying that they are saying it's friendship and they
want to try to let you know that they don't see you like that – buddy, pal, friend, dude, – look
out for this. Here's a big one. Oh man, this is big. She is only talking about herself
and you become this shoulder to cry on. Boy, this happened to me quite a bit, especially in college.
You become the shoulder to cry on when you guys are hanging out. She's not very interested in
talking to you. Maybe she slipped something in in the end and says like, "Oh, how are you doing,
by the way?" But mainly, she's getting together with you to dump all of her problems on you. This
is her basically using you for attention, and just trying to be friendly with you.
Yeah, there are some circumstances where there's exceptions where maybe she still wants to spend
time with you and maybe likes you. But you'll know for sure that this is a sign that she only
wants to be your friend if a majority of these interactions between you two are just about her
and her problems, especially around the guys that she might like and she's talking about
a crush that she likes and it's not working out and she's just blah, blah, blah. An obvious one
but it should be stated she's not accepting your physical advances. If you're using Tripp's Tension
Technique – what I told you earlier, that free video – if you watch that video and you use the
technique and she's like, "Oh, no, I only see you as a friend." Obviously. There you go. It's pretty
obvious there. But there's also these little mini physical advances like let's say you're trying to
physically escalate, like you're trying to hug her, you're trying to touch her a little bit,
and she's not reciprocating and she feels like very standoffish. Those little times that you're
trying to touch her and she's almost flinching. This is a sign. This is one the biggest signs that
she only sees you as a friend. If she liked you, she would allow for that to happen. She wouldn't
flinch at that. She would like that. She wants to be touched by you. So really take notice that
if you're hanging out with someone, and she's not accepting those physical advances, even the small
ones, it's a friend situation. Last, but certainly not least, when you're asking her out, and she
ignores it. I work with coaching clients and there are times when he's texting the girl and she's
super responsive. She's even asking him questions. It's like this big texting back and forth,
but when he finally asks her to hang out, she goes silent. Write down below in the comments
if this has ever happened to you. I know it's happened to me plenty of times. When you finally
go for the close and you go to meet with her and she just goes silent or completely ignores it.
And or she just seems to always be busy and can't hang out. She has enough time to text you and
give you her attention over text, but never in person. This is some weird digital friendship,
attention seeking situation where you don't want to be involved in this.
You don't want to be texting her all day because, well, look what happens. You know that now that
she only wants that, and nothing more. What are you supposed to do? What are you supposed to do
if you perform one of these tests or you see one of these signs that she's not interested?
I beg of you to move on and don't enter into any situation anymore that's not in the context of
something sexual or dating or romantic. If nothing falls in line sexual or romantic dating situation,
then you're trying to go the backdoor friend-zone route and it rarely works. Instead, you want to be
trying to and attempting to build attraction from the very beginning when you first meet her and
always try to hang out with her in a date context. Then towards the end of the date, you go for a
kiss which again is going to be taught to you in the Tripp's Tension Technique, there's a link down
below. And then from there, you can build a non friendship or a romantic type of relationship.
Make sure you're always focused on that. Hope that helps. Check out Tripp's Tension
Technique. It's going to help you tremendously. Like this and I will see you on the next video.