Most guys are getting online dating openers all wrong. They think they have to be super creative
and have the most crazy type of openers to get her attention. But the real trick is that you want a
question as an opener to be easy to answer. If you understand that, then you're gonna get
way more results in online dating. Women get so many matches online that it is overwhelming for
them to go through all of these. So the reason why you want an opener that's a question that's
easy to answer is because it's going to make it easy for her to respond. And then you have this
opportunity to continue conversation with her. And the reason why the opener doesn't matter as much
and you just need some sort of easy question is because your photos are everything. I have seen
guys who have used the craziest, funniest, most clever opening lines, and they still,
even though they got a response from the woman, were not able to set up a date. And the reason why
is because yeah, that might be a funny and clever line, but at the end of the day, if you don't have
the photos and profile and the prompts to match this clever line, meaning you don't have that
to backup that you are a guy who can look good and has interesting things to say on their bio,
well then it's just not going to work out. Let's start with my first one that you can use,
you can literally copy and paste this. Number one "hey name". Always good to say the name there
because people like to hear their name. It's one of the sweetest sounds in the world. Dale Carnegie
talks about this in his book, How to Win Friends and Influence People. So you'll say "hey name,
any travel plans coming up?" And here's the beauty of this one. It's that it doesn't matter if they
have travel plans coming up. It's an easy question to answer. They know if they have travel plans
coming up. And women do love to travel. So they're either gonna say "yes, I'm going here" or "no,
I wish I did" whatever it may be, and then you can move on. That's a nice and easy one. And it's also
fun to think about because she's thinking about travel. And she would probably want to do that,
or it gets her excited about the trip that she's going to be going on. Next one. I thought this
is a pretty unique one. And this one doesn't even matter if she has an answer to it. It's
still an easy one to answer. It's "hey name, what is your go to karaoke song?" She'll say
I hate karaoke or she'll say I love this song. Or she'll say, I don't know, I haven't gone in
a while. There is some sort of easy answer for her to come up with, "hey name, what's your go to
karaoke song?" By the way, you don't even need to use these. You can also utilize the principle that
I mentioned earlier about something that's easy to answer. And you can make up your own. But I still
have more to go. "Hey name. If you could teleport anywhere in the world right now, where would you
go?" Okay, so sort of a fun question. It's not so much about travel. But it's more like, oh wow,
if I can go anywhere? Where would it be? By the way, you should have an answer for these too,
because she's going to ask you that. And even if she doesn't ask you this, it would be good for you
to have some sort of answer to answer back based on the question that you're asking. And that can
help further the progression of the messaging to then eventually get her offline and into texting
and into a date. I have a few more to go. But real quick, if you need help with creating a dating
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have to guess. Link is in the description down below. Let's go to the next one. Number four,
if you can invite anyone to your next dinner party dead or alive, who would it be? You might
have heard these questions before by the way. This is a common one people ask this as an icebreaker.
But this is a pretty easy question to answer. She might have to think about it for a little bit. But
it's a fun question. We'd want to think about oh yeah, wow, okay, cool, in this fantasy world who
would I want to be sitting down with? Like wow okay. This is just a more fun question to answer
also easy. Next one. "Hey name, what's your favorite thing to do on a Sunday?" Now, I will
admit, this one is a little bit more of a thinker, but still a relatively easy question to answer.
Thinking about what you do on a Sunday. And most people are in some sort of routine. Maybe you're
nursing a hangover, you go and get a coffee or go to a coffee shop, you like to get brunch with your
friends. You know, people have that little bit of a routine that happens on Sundays. That's why we
say Sunday, in my opinion, over saying Friday or Saturday. Again, easy questions to answer.
If they have to think too hard they literally might be moving on. "I don't know." "I don't
know an answer to this question. Ah whatever." And then move on to the next guy because they
have that many options. Here's one that I came up with recently. "Hey name, luxurious stay vacation
or backpacking through Europe?" And by the way, you can work with this a little bit too. You can
say "hey name, fancy hotel or camping in the woods?" Whatever it may be, it's like a this
or that type of question. And she might say both, she might say neither, she might say one of them,
whatever it is it doesn't matter. We're just trying to get her to respond, because it's easy
to then move the conversation along. All right, next one. And this is one that you can play with.
You can make it anything you want. You'll see in a second here, "hey name, sushi or pasta?" Easy
to answer. She might say one of them, neither, or both. She might say a whole new food. Maybe she
doesn't like either of those. But again, it's fun to answer these either or questions. If you want
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