I did not have women figured out until well into my 30s. And I had to go through a lot
of experiences to really learn about female nature. So I created a list here of some of
the biggest myths that a lot of guys think about women, and I've thought about women. Let's dive
in. First one. And I know I get a lot of pushback on this that women are only interested in looks,
they're only interested in money. So yes, there are women out there who will tell you,
they want a tall guy, they want a rich guy, they want so and so race, they want him to make this
amount per year. And yeah, I believe them. That is what they want. That's what they say they
want. But how they act is a lot different. Women have this ideal version of what a man
should be. But attraction is not a choice. That means when she finally comes into the presence
of a guy who knows how to trigger attraction with behavior and behavioral cues, like his confidence,
his charisma, just the way that he speaks to her, the way that he's able to hold presence in front
of her. When that is powerful she will backwards rationalize why it's okay. Maybe he doesn't have
the height that I'm looking for, maybe he's not super rich, and she ends up liking the guy
anyways. Those go much further than your looks and your money. Of course, those things are important,
but only to a degree. In fact, I work with many clients in the Tripp Advice Coaching program who
are 5'9 and below, and we get them girlfriends, we get them hookups, we get them dating all
kinds of women, because they know how to trigger attraction. If you want to learn how to do that,
go to Tripp Advice Coaching.com. There's a link down below. And you can get on a free call with
us where we can show you how we do that with guys all the time. Number two, this is an interesting
one. It's about flirting over text. You're gonna hear from women say this - "I like a guy who's a
good texter. I like when he can flirt with me over text." Women will say that, a lot.
But no, that doesn't matter. Just because they want that doesn't mean it's what works. Okay,
so when a girl is saying, "Oh, he's a bad texter", that means that she was probably never into him to
begin with. And also he's probably a bad texter because he's not asking her out. Gentlemen,
we don't need to flirt with a girl over text. All we need to do is ask her out. If she's
interested she'll meet up with us. If you start flirting with her and doing these, I don't know,
fun little flirts or teases that you might find on the internet somewhere, you might actually
make a big mistake and turn her off. So we don't flirt over text. We use it as a vessel to then
get them to meet up with us. And we flirt in person. Next myth is that women like gifts,
they like flowers, they like chivalry. Women have said this a lot - chivalry is dead. Yeah,
chivalry is only dead because they were never interested in the guy in the first place. So
you're seeing a little bit of a theme here on this video. They weren't interested in him in the first
place. Chivalry is I guess like the cherry on top, you can be chivalrous and open the door
for her and walk on the right side of the road when you guys are walking and pull out her chair
for her all that stuff. But that is not what is going to get her over the edge. That's not going
to push her to the point where she's like, wow, I really like this guy. Let's just walk around all
day giving women gifts and flowers and acting chivalrous, that stuff is not going to work.
That stuff has a little bit of a better effect once you've gotten into a relationship with a
woman. But I even say that can be tough too because if you do that too much, then you're
gonna push her away. Or if you are always giving her gifts all the time, you know what happens?
It becomes obvious, it becomes boring. It's not as interesting anymore. Stop using chivalry and
gifts to get her attracted. Instead, use more of your personality and the behavioral traits. Next
wonderful myth. Is that nice guys finish last. Maybe you've heard that before, those nice guys,
former nice guy over here that was just super nice to women all the time, trying to get her attention
by being nice and giving her attention and being a shoulder to cry on. And eventually it might not
work now because when you're younger those girls go for the bad boys. When you get older finally a
woman is going to look your way. No, it doesn't happen. Nice guys don't finish last. They never
finish at all, because women don't want to be with a nice guy. They want to be with a good guy,
but not a guy who is using his niceness as a way to get her attracted. Because when you're trying
to be nice and do good things for someone just to get them to like you, they see through that
and they can tell instantly that it is a weakness. You need to learn how to get over those nice guy
habits and get out of the nice guy syndrome. We also teach you that in our Tripp Advice
Accelerator coaching program. Again, the link down is below to get a free call with us to learn
about how it works. But nice guys do not finish last, ever. Next, this is a big one. The myth is
women like lots of attention. And you might think that, it's intuitive, isn't it? That
a woman might want to get a lot of attention from you, get a lot of text messages from you,
try to see you all the time. Women might even complain, you might hear your friends,
your girls your friends who are girls complain about the fact that the guy isn't paying enough
attention to them, or they wish that the guy would text them more and hang out with them more.
That means that woman is really attracted to that guy. And she's probably really attracted to him
because of the fact that that guy is not paying tons of attention. Women say they want a lot of
attention. But they're only saying that because they like the guy so much that they want more.
You need to make sure that you are not giving her tons of attention and you are pulling back to a
degree. Not texting her all the time, not trying to see her multiple times every single week. All
of your attention is going to also be shown as a weakness because it's going to say, this guy has
nothing better to do, he has nothing else going on in his life. He just wants to hang out with
me all day. A woman might say she wants that. But in reality, she does not. That is going to be the
disaster waiting to happen. The next myth is that all women are gold diggers. I know this is kind
of related to what we were talking about on the first one, but it has to be talked about is that
no, women are not all gold diggers. Just because they say they want to be with a guy who makes a
lot of money. Yes, there are some women who actually are gold diggers, they really only
want to be with a guy who's making a lot of money. And those women maybe maybe not are going to be
looking and finding that person who is making a lot of money. And that is their prerogative. But
then there's these other women out there who say that just because it's in their DNA, it's
in their nature to want to be with a guy who can protect and provide. And so a salary or a guy who
has riches has wealth is a guy who can be able to do that. So she wants to be with that guy.
But you don't have to be a super rich guy, nor is she only looking to see
what kind of money you have. She just wants to know, at the end of the day,
can she be with a guy who can provide a lifestyle that she can attach to that is going to help her
have the lifestyle that she lives now. So that means that she doesn't want to be with a guy who
is broke, who's living in their parents' basement. She wants to be with a guy who has a living,
and is making a living for himself and has some sort of lifestyle. So you do need that at the
end of the day. Here's the funny thing is you can actually not have any of that and still be able
to sleep with women. But you won't really get too far in terms of getting into a relationship with
a woman. So you do need to have that figured out to some degree. But no, you do not need to
be a super rich, wealthy dude. Just because they say that doesn't necessarily make it true. Next
myth is that women are only interested in long term relationships. So this one, it's a little
complicated. Every woman, yes, every woman wants to be in some sort of long term relationship. That
is true. That is a true statement. However, there are some women who will allow themselves and want
to just sleep with a guy. So while they all want to be in long term relationships, there are some
guys that they'll go, okay, I will just sleep with this guy. And it doesn't have to be anything
meaningful, and it can be completely empty. And that's what I'm doing with this specific person.
The idea is yes, they want relationships, but they also will just sleep with a guy and of course,
they are interested in having sex. But it's very specific, the type of guy that they're
going to allow themselves to just have those more casual relationships with. Otherwise,
they protect themselves because naturally they only want to be with guys who they think are
going to be long term. I have some more counter intuitive tips that talk about some toxic ways to
get a woman interested. That's on the screen here so you can learn more about how to actually get
her interested in ways you've probably never heard. And if you need more help, consider
coaching. Go to Tripp Advice Coaching.com. Link is in the description down below.