i was seeing a couple comments in the chat like oh i would never date a porn star and
i wonder if that comes from like do you find like guys some certain guys are intimidated
to to date anybody in the adult industry 100 and like i get it um you know everyone is different
like some like some guys are fine i know i know people in the industry who are married and their
so isn't even in porn but they're like banging dudes on camera but there are guys cool with it
i know women who only do girl girl like there's so many different dynamics that could work so
if you're dating someone in porn yeah there's a lot of conversations to be had based on like
what you're comfortable with and some people are cool with it and some are not whatsoever
and like it's all okay it's definitely not for everyone but yeah 100 it's like i've i i would say
it's i would say that all of my boyfriends since i've been in porn have i wouldn't say jealousy but
um just a little bit insecure like thinking that because they're not in the industry so
thinking more like that i have this like big life and like i'm doing porn and blah blah blah but
like it's obviously not the case and when they get to know me it's a little different obviously but
um but yeah as far as like that being with having the experience um yes and no like again some are
intimidated but i would say that like it's a good thing that i have all this experience because
you're not gonna find a better lay than me i'm just i'm just like saying you know what i mean
i know all the tricks and it's not even that it's like i know how to like be in tune with a person
so it's almost yeah it's like it's like being fluent in a language and like that language is
like yeah body language energy and you're and you're probably a quick learn too like
a quick study you're like okay i figured out what this person likes like right away 100 and also
porn stars it's like it's our job like we're not like we go to work and we come home we're not like
like since this is our job like we're arguably loyal as [ __ ] i would i mean i am you know
it's just like sex is just sex and it's amazing when it's with a partner that i love and when i'm
working with someone on camera it's completely different what if you are dating somebody and then
you work with somebody in a scene and you have like sick chemistry can that [ __ ] with you a
little bit what happened honestly because you've never had better chemistry with somebody on set
than your significant other that's pretty cool or because it's my job i have a mental barrier
in my brain that this is my job and it is not allowed you know what i mean and i just
i just have this thing about dating people in the industry anyways i just don't do it at all i just
don't and it's just how i be you know it's just how i roll work work is work and then i go home
do you feel like a guy who dates somebody in the adult industry like has to basically be
like open or like they call it like i don't know in the lifestyle or like you do you think you
have to essentially just be okay with uh like just being in an open relationship like do you equate
it essentially to being in an open relationship because you because of your work well it depends
because like for me i um you know i date men and when i'm in a relationship like it just
depends but for example like i said before like there are some couples who they're married and
the woman for example only works with men but it's at work so they're not that's just the thing they
have worked out other couples yeah i've i've heard of that too i know people who've done this other
couples the guys not and porn the woman is and they agree yes since i'm banging these dudes you
can bang women and it's open for me personally um like if i'm in a relationship i'm either
only working with the guy on camera so it's like that's that's it stays the sex you know between
me and the guy only still stays in the relationship or i'm not at all and i'm just doing
grow on girl in which case that's fine because i'm not going to run off with a woman like i
like to hook up with women but i i just don't date women and that's just personal preference you know
yeah so i'm wired so it's a very case-by-case personal basis kind of thing you know so it's
conversations you know it's communication yeah yeah and if you notice like somebody that knew
that you're dating like starts to get a little bit jealous do you feel like uh this is ultimately
not gonna work yeah um i i found that in my my case anyways with guys um i don't know i was in
a relationship where it was like a swing or thing this was like very early 20s and then i realized i
was like oh this isn't for me but i tried it it's fine whatever the other one like i was doing boy
girl and dating him and you know the jealousy came and i completely get it obviously so that didn't
work and then like you know so again it just like it just depends and then and then you know and
then you work out a dynamic that will work best for both of you it's such a weird situation to be
in it's not like a common thing so it's like like i said it's just communication you know
this is a good question in the chat would you ever quit the industry for a man no um no i i wouldn't
like i if i'm gonna be retired which isn't happening anytime soon it would be on my own
accord you know but again it's just like yeah no i i wouldn't i have to date people who are
okay with me being naked on a camera and then who what kind of stuff i'm filming is just like
what we're having a conversation about you know what i mean because i get it yeah it's like it's
like what do you yeah it's like um you have to make a living like what are you gonna just pick
oh you're right i'll hang it up let me go see if the bank is hiring you know and then
you're gonna take a huge dive in income yeah and and again it's just like it's not for everyone
not everyone is okay with it but some people are and we work it out and and that's how it is like
when there's so many people on this planet and it's like some people are okay and some aren't