Did you crush on me? Or do you like me more and more?
[(Let's see)] What does Tyler think?
[Only "Pretty" is heard]
You don't need to say that
Yes I liked that
{Safe] I can feel it
[(Suddenly overacting] That's right, that's right
Is this over between us?
[I want it!}
Hello, everyone
Finally, we are
going to take the film about the first meeting
We've never talked about meeting each other before
There were a lot of requests from people
We received a question about two months ago
[Finally... First meeting Q&A] Finally, we'll take a film of that
This time, from Tyler's perspective
I want to hear more about Tyler's feelings
When you first saw me
Did you crush on me? Or do you like me more and more?
[First impression of each] How's my first impression?
When I first saw you at Shawn's party
First of all, let's talk about where we meet first
In October 2014, I went to the U.S. as an exchange student
It was Tyler's roommate's birthday
At that time, he
[19 years old, Tyler] He introduced me to his roommate
It was my first time to say hello
Before that, I didn't even know Tyler existed
He's so quiet and doesn't come out of the room
The first time, we met
[(Shameless)] you told, call you Nuna
[(Recalled)] Nuna
And you told me it means big sister
Older
I'm little brother?
So that means
Really seems like you didn't like me
In a bad way, I thought you didn't like me as a man
I thought you thought me as a little brother
Nobody wants to date with a little brother
No, I didn't mean it
[At that time, I was speaking like 2 years old in English]
[(Thud)] It's a bad translation
Yes, it's really
Because I met Tyler for the first time
[19 years old (second year of university) He said he's 19 years old
[21 years old (third year of university)] I was 21
[(Simply)] Then am I older than you?
So I told it like this
But Tyler thought
She doesn't see me as a man.
[(Curious)] How was my first impression?
It was nice
Really friendly
I am very introverted and shy
[Extremely I type] He's very introverted
I'm very extroverted
I kept telling Tyler
[Question robot] I kept giving questions
Where do you live? Do you like cooking?
Have you ever lived with animals?
If you were also introvert
we never would've dated
Yes I agree with it
Because you came closer to me first
Right, I talked a lot first
[I'm curious when you became interested in Kimmy!] When was the moment do you like me?
- More than a friend? - Yes
Probably
When
[(Let's see)] What does Tyler think?
So there were two, actually
The quick one is
One time I came home from the class
[ENFP always out of their own house] You were already there hanging out with Shawn and some of your friends
I was going to my room
You said
Tyler
Don't stay in your room, come out
[(I don't remember)] Because I normally go on my room
Playing game alone or extra stuff
It was kind of forcefully
No, don't stay in your room
Come back out and let's talk
So, it was a girl crush?
[(Shameless)] Was I attractive?
Yes, I liked that
So, you liked that?
[(First time not knowing)]
The courageous man takes over love
[Tyler responded to Kimmy's straight forward]
The next moment was
when we watched a movie
Yes, I remember it
We watched the Despicable me 2
I remember it
I thought you're pretty
Because I was on full-make up
I remember that time
Tyler's always in his room
Working out or playing games
So he didn't come out
My friends kept asking me to hang out with Tyler
They wanted me to talk about it
I was the only E type among them
I was the only one who's outgoing
I was the only one to talk to
So, when Tyler came in after class
Tyler, Tyler
[(Powerful)] I said, "Don't go in. Let's hang out together"
At that time, Tyler
[It's been 10 years] I've never heard of this before
It's interesting
I didn't know the first moment
I remember the second one, too
We were studying English
Every Friday, we watched an animation together
Tyler finished working out again
But he said I was pretty back then
[Full makeup] It's because after I put on makeup
[Y2K fashion] I wore pretty sweatpants
I remember sitting down and watching a movie together
Yeah, I really liked it
I was a little bit shy
You didn't seem shaky
I was shy
When we were in a long distance
[When did you miss Kimmy the most when you were in a relationship?] When did you miss me the most?
First
time when you back there
The first time you left me after the semester
That was the worst
We dated only for 4 months
[I'm curious if you had any worries because you knew that Kimmy would go back to Korea after the exchange] Did you think we could date?
[How were you sure about the relationship even if you might not be able to stay together in the US?] I guess we would
You didn't know we'll marry
No, I didn't
Honestly, we didn't expect we'll marry
[(First leave to Korea)] When we first said goodbye
[Crying] I cried a lot
I thought it would be the last time with Tyler
[About 20 hours] It's too far
And also we were so young
[19 and 21 years old's fresh love] We were 21 and 19 years old
[(Uncertain future)] We couldn't imagine getting married at the time
Back then, Tyler
gave a necklace for a gift
He wrote me a heartfelt letter
So I decided it
I must come to see Tyler again
For the first time, you said you love me
in the letter
[I wonder if you fell in love at first sight vs if you got better after spending time together] So, do you like me more and more?
Not the first crush?
I thought you were pretty
[Only "Pretty" is heard]
[(Still trapped in "Pretty"] We didn't have a lot in common
[(I'm not hearing you)] And you spoke most in Korean
Actually, people asked it a lot
[They are curious how you requested a date and how you overcame the language barrier] Day by day, my English was really bad, back then
[Did you communicate well when you first met?] Wasn't it hard to date?
First time, we went out, just you and me
It was really hard
Really?
We went to watch a movie
[Doesn't know anything about the movie] and it was really hard to talk.
I don't think
we talk that much
But even we couldn't communicate
do you still is possible to date?
or fall in love?
We could talk
But when we talk with really have to focus
Because I was like
[(Clearly)] Tyler
[(Simple)]
[(A few conversations)] Did you eat?
[(It was like that back then)]
[(Clearly)] and you answer me pretty slow
It's really a memory
[We're so ready to date] That's how we were in a relationship
And I Google it a lot when I text you
So actually when I text to you a lot easier
But when I meet you
It little hard
[(It was like that back then)] It's really a memory
[Language barrier] But even though I can't speak the language
[can't stop love] We can date anyway
[We support your love] It's possible, everyone
[The moment he decided to marry Kimmy] When did you decide you want to marry me?
I was talking with my friend
he was talking about marrying his wife
So I was giving him advice
and I told him
talking about how feel about you
and I probably going to marry you, but I didn't expect to say that
Kind of just came out
I think that kind of
without thinking about it I just decided it
and then later
We visit and then leave and visit and then leave so much
So I just said if we're going to married anyways
What's the point of making it take longer
I really agree
I think we got married a little earlier because we were long-distance
I've never heard of this before
You realized that while talking to your friend
When I talking to my friend
It really was like reflex like I didn't expect to say it
I was so x3 didn't expect
It was literally the best surprising in my life
How old were you when you proposed me?
22
[(A year and half)] And we were engaged for almost a year
[(Korea: 23 and 25)] in American age
[(At a young age)] He asked me to marry him
It was Tyler's graduation
So I went to here
to celebrate his graduation
Tyler took me to a really pretty place
and we were talking about this and that
He said he'd pick up something in the car
He was going to get a drink or something?
Then he came with a pretty ring and knelt down
He proposed to me
almost tearfully
I really sobbed
Do you remember I crushed so much?
(I crushed so much) It's hard to talk to you
[(Right)]
Because I had planned the day in my head
and planned what I'm going to say
and I trying to make it like romantic
But you just cry so much
[Black tears] Blooded tears your mascara running
You don't have to say that
So I was like Kimmy let me talk to you
Calm down
[Even before they started] Right, even before you finished talking
[Before you change your mind] Yes, yes
Yeah
I remember
Do you remember how I ask you?
I totally remember so well
You ask me "Hey, Kimmy do you like living in the US?"
Kimmy do you want to be with me forever?
[(Most important)] What's next?
What was that?
Give me a sec
I asked you how do you say in Korean
[(The person who said he remembers vividly)] That's right, that's right
[Can't believe I forgot this]
[(Suddenly overreacting)] That's right, that's right
[Memories that came back to life] That was the point of tears
So Tyler asked me how to say
"Will you marry me" in Korean
[Unexpected question] I was so surprised there
[Can't control emotions] I almost keeled over
I said how to say "Will you marry me" in Korean and you said "Why"
I did that?
When I think about that moment
and the moment Tyler bought me a car
I think
[There was but there wasn't] I'll be relieved of all Tyler's anger
If we argue or if we upset each other
just remind when you propose
or when you got me car
[Impressed in proportion to the size]
Actually that moment or that video everytime I watch
and I'm not mad you anymore
because I really appreciate you
Mason's awake
The fruits of our love is awake
[You don't seem to talk much. How did you try to seduce her?] So you're introverted but how did you kind of flirt with me
show you like me?
I asked you
to be my valentine
Right, I remember that time
Right, at that time
It was so romantic
Tyler was amazing
when we were dating
[It's all like that when you're in a relationship, right?] He really looked like a high-teen movie star
So my heart was pounding
[My heart was pounding] When I talk to Tyler
I thought American people
[(That's what I saw in the American movie)] would be a bit quick with a physical affection
[His hand doesn't touch my shoulders] But he didn't put his arms around me while watching the movie
You didn't do like this
That's how I did
I mean it took so long time
- I stared here - Like this x4
He kept wiggling his hands behind me while watching the movie
Hands forward every 10 minutes
And at the end of the movie
[Mason's father was brave] He got courage to put his hand on my shoulder
And we star sitting
like far from
We both watched the movie so awkwardly
We only watched movie
It took me almost a few months
[Headlock without notice] to put his hand on my shoulder
You took really long
I remember because we both really shy
Like one hour
No, it took few weeks
You didn't do at the first
I'm talking about when we were watching the movie
[How did you end up liking her? / Her first impression or what made you fall in love with her?] What part of Kimmy did you like?
Why did you like Kimmy?
[(In a compliment prison)] Outgoing
Really bright
and happy all the time
Always coming to talk to me
and trying to be funny
[Laughter hunter hunted love] I was laughing.
[(Reason why opposites attract] - Really different with me. - That's right, we're really different.
Humor
always connects.
[I want to know about the most memorable episode when you were dating! I'm curious] What is the memorable memory with Kimmy when we date?
Like the best memory?
I mean there's a lot.
Playing in the snow.
Yes!
I remember
because you throw so hard.
I actually thought you don't like me any more.
Once there was a lot of snow.
Classes were all cancelled.
I was texting Tyler.
We said, "Let's have a snow fight!".
With Tyler's friends and my friends,
we threw snow at each other.
[I expected Love Story] What a snow ball, huh?
[(Reality)] He hit my face hard.
[(Very calm) / (Suddenly enraged)] Snow, he brought that triangluar thing
and pour snow on me.
[Is this over between us like this?] Is this over between us?
Tyler should've considered me as a friend now.
[It looked so bad like this] A lot happened like my eyelashes fell off.
For real.
- You threw some at me, too. - Because you threw so harshly so it got like really competitive.
[I want to know about the first reaction of parents] When did you first tell your parents about me?
What was their reaction?
- That time we lived so far away. - My mom was really nervous.
She didn't know how different Korea is
and if she was going to do something embarrassing
or something because America's so different.
- She wanted you to like my family. - Aww, really?
What about Robert, your father?
I think when you first moved to Korea
and I said we are still going to date
long distance.
- Really probably seems to impossible. - Yes, my parents thought the same thing.
Because when parents were growing up, they didn't have
such thing as Face time.
At first how I told my parents was
not telling them.
I just
changed my Kakao Talk profile photo.
[(My daughter)] Then naturally my parents will get.
[Profile photo changed without any words / made parents really confused] So my parents were very confused, apparently.
[(Because long distance relationship is not easy)] They didn't say anything because they thought we would break up when time passed.
Since we kept meeting each other, they said they wanted to see him.
Right before Tyler was going to propose,
he came to Korea to meet my parents before marrying me.
But my father
said he didn't actually think we would get married.
Because it's so far away.
That's how it went.
I think
us dating long distance made them like you more though.
- Me, too, actually. - Because we got married after 2 years or 3 years long distance relationship.
So they must've know you really like me.
[Wasn't a long-distance relationship difficult?] 'How did you manage to overcome a long-distance relationship?' is the question we get
a lot.
[Long distance relation ship] I think long distance relationship
[made our relationship more solid] made us more solid and miss more.
First I came to see you after starting long distance relationship,
I was really nervous.
So when we first met, we were like a little like this.
- Remember? - Yes, it's been awhile.
It was little awkward.
Because we saw each other in 3 or 4 months.
How have you been doing?
[(I forgot English)] I couldn't remember English.
I forgot a lot of English, too, back then.
When I went to see Tyler,
I was swimming at night in his parents' house.
[This light, temperature, humidity] Music is on, pretty lights were twinkling.
There were so many stars in the night sky.
In here, air is really clear.
His mother, to let us swim,
brought drinks and towels.
[This is like teen movies I've watched] That was like American soap opera or teen movies.
So,
wow, how can this be happening?
In my sight, so handsome Tyler who I missed.
Taught me how to swim and it was so good.
At that time, you write your wish and release it to the sky,
we bought that.
That time,
'Please let me live with Tyler together forever'
I wrote that and sent off.
[With Kimmy forever] Tyler wrote the same thing
I thought
[Can't remember what he wrote] but he couldn't remember.
I really like that day.
[I want to know if Tyler expected that Kimmy is older than him] When you first saw me, did you know I'm older than you?
No.
You really look a lot younger than me.
Really short.
What the?
It's not about height.
I have a baby face, that's why.
She's short.
[I wonder how Tyler felt when he first heard your own song] Did you like Kimmy's song?
I sing a lot in home.
To Lilly.
That's funny.
Actually sometimes
I start to singing it without realizing it.
People ask this a lot.
Long, long time ago, I had QnA
and then I talked about
[The one who said that] we could live in Korea for one year when you hit 3 hundred thousand.
Subscribers still remember
and ask me a lot.
[Tyler / Interviewed for saying going to Korea] Had you change in your mind?
If we move to Korea
I have to quit my job.
That means
Kimmy makes all of our money
so she gets so many subscribers
that we have enough money for both of us
then I can quit.
Right now I can't quit my job.
Tyler said, 'Now it's income is a bit impossible.'
'May be we can if it hits 1 million subscribers.'
[3 hundred thousand to 1 million / numbers getting increased] Numbers keep increasing. I don't know if I can hit 1 million.
I'm not sure if I can.
But we are going to try that.
When we go this time,
I want to try living in Korea for a month.
[Any frustration from having a relationship with a foreigner?] Cultural differences I felt?
There wasn't many cultural differences than I thought.
When we were dating,
Tyler paid all the money.
He didn't let me pay even for the desserts.
After we got married,
- you ask me to pay... - Now we share.
- After we got married, he keeps... - It's all our money.
It's our money, he keeps saying,
"Can you pay for it, Kimmy?",
"Do you want to pay, Kimmy?"
So I said,
"I don't want to, but I will.
[(Your money = my money)] Yes, it's all our money.
How many children do you want?
Two.
In heart, I want two
but in my head, one and a half.
- I want to have one and a half children. - If we have another boy,
[Tyler's shocking words] then may be three, to try to have a girl.
You kidding?
Because you never said that before.
But I want a girl and a boy.
- What? - But if the second one is a girl, then we can stop.
This is, this...
We never talk about this before.
[Frozen mother by confusion] We didn't say... we never talked about...
You said two is maximum.
After the second one, you are going to go somewhere.
So if we have two boys, are you okay?
Yes.
[Father shocked by how firm she is] Oh, wow, okay.
You going to go somewhere
after the second one, okay?
You have to go after having two children.
Have to go, to get a surgery.
[(Mother embarrassed after saying everything)]
Hopelly.
Let's make a wish.
It's up to you, honey, you know that.
[(Sudden pressure)] I can't control.
[(Not listening)] Cheer up.
[Do you remember what Kimmy was wearing?] Is there any outfit you remember as really pretty?
[Every outfit]
Really.
[Saved] I feel the same way.
Tyler was really handsome.
You are handsome now, too but back then...
do you remember my roommate? American roommate?
One time you walked me back to my dorm.
[(Roommate who saw Tyler asked)] "Hey, is he your boyfriend?"
and I told her, "Yes".
She said, "He's cute".
[I was wondering if you thought it was frustrating to communicate with Korean when you were dating] Hard part when we first date and you
[I was wondering if you thought it was frustrating to communicate with Korean when you were dating] didn't speak English as well
- as I couldn't tell exactly how you felt. - Yes.
And I didn't want to guess.
[(Bird kiss)] Just Kiss you without saying anything,
because if I'm wrong,
it's really bad.
That's a big problem. What a happening.
So I asked you
and you said no.
Because it's really the grammar difference.
Because in Korea,
if we ask, 'Don't you?' and answer, 'No, I want' because it's Korean grammar.
But you seem like you're pretty desperate.
Because I said, "Oh, okay".
"No, I mean!"
"I want!"
"No, want!"
One time, we were both shy.
[Old days when holding hands was difficult] We were really slow, like holding hands. We were both so shy.
One day, Tyler made his mind.
Walked me home.
Tyler wanted to ask me first.
To do.
So I answered, "No".
Right after heard that Tyler's face was really
so shocked.
He wasn't going to do it.
My feeling wasn't like that.
So I hold Tyler.
Yes, I want!
[Happy ending]
You smiled
[(Bird kiss)] and then kiss me. You left.
[Are you going to marry Kimmy in the next life?] Will you marry me next life?
Sure.
Are you sure?
Yes.
Little doubtful, right?
Okay.
Me, too.
Doubtful somehow
[Kept domestic peace] but say it to make each other feel good.
- Do you want to know a secret? - Yes.
- Before we dated - Yes.
and I like you.
You'd be at my apartment,
I would on purpose walk in and out
to go to training, like Jujutsu or muay thai.
[(Wanted to show him after training)] So you would see me with my gym bg.
- Really? You appealed your charm in your own way. - Tried to impress you.
Wow, he tried to appeal his charm.
You tried hard, Tyler.
I would play guitar in my room when you were outside.
[(Father flirted with guitar)] He played guitar so much.
Really?
I remember after we were dating
and I said, "Hey, I want to listen to your guitar" to you.
You said okay
and you brought three guitar from your parents' house.
You played guitar so long
like 2 hours.
Tyler played to me until 10P.M..
You want to look good when you are dating, right?
[three guitars for two hours / Concert only for Kimmy] He brought three guitars and kept playing.
Roommates couldn't sleep because it's loud.
Roommate keep came out to look at us.
[For the two people in a early stages of dating / grateful roommates] My roommates didn't say anything because we were dating. What a kind roommates.
They went in their room and waited for us.
I really thought it was really romantic.
Tyler is really shy
and introvert.
You would know if you watched the videos from earlier.
He couldn't speak in front of the camera.
He was that kind of person.
While I'm doing YouTube,
he changed a lot.
Anyway this time
we looked back our dating days by Tyler's view.
Thank you so much for always having fun watching my video.
Let's see you in the next video.
Goodbye.
[American Bride]