I'm not going to lie.
I don't have to lie.
All I'm saying is this is my point.
My point is, you are a user, you used my friendship.
You keep saying we're sisters.
And you say you keep saying we're sisters and you know.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
I know you're going to come with some bullshit,
and I'm sick of your shit.
Y'all oh, no, no, no, don't.
My Ms. Yoshi you can take the girls out of Atlanta,
but you can't take the Atlanta out of the girls.
Listen to what I'm saying.
Is there any semantics?
Is there any way that we lower our voices sound like bitches
lying so that Phaedra so that Phaedra have
less of a hood perspective.
Personality she's not used to this type of shit.
Is it OK?
Toya? are we OK?
Are we talking too loud?
Honestly, I still don't think what you're
really saying is resonating.
Yeah I think what we try to do is work
on evolving the friendship, and we might
have missed out on that part.
And we all got to a place where we
do want to confront you basically to say
accountability is necessary.
And it comes with action.
I'm not here to force you to do anything.
I can only state my heart and my heart
posture is in the right place.
How do we trust the words that's coming out of your mouth
when they aren't backed by your actions?
Like you can't talk about my husband, go on social media
and call my husband a bitch.
And you know I didn't say a bitch.
Is what I call him.
Correct thing.
And then you turned around and said
we would Rob a neighborhood.
No, I did not say that.
Do you think Toya had anything to do with the break ins?
That's a very strong accusation.
And I'm a stand on my family and me were going through torture.
Well, I have.
I have been in the same boat.
This has been not a cakewalk for me.
Are you playing the victim, baby?
You're not only I want to just be good to y'all and I
want y'all to be good to me.
But I think what we're saying, though, we
are hurt from your saying you have
no emotional attachment to.
But the relationships are broken, Jack.
Claude may as well be a pig on the table
with the Apple in her mouth because it's a grill session.
When you are not with us all year long.
And then conveniently you pop in because some events
are happening, it comes off as disingenuous, opportunistic.
So I tell you, longevity means you
make friends, not at events, because our relationships are
broken.
All I want to do is love and be loved.
That is what I want, period.
And have a good time while doing it.
I would like for that to be with you all.
I want the friendships to be the way they used to be.
Like stay up all night, having a couple of cocktails
and just talking.
I'm Tina.
Hey, man, you gotta go far.
You better not.
Are you, man?
Oh, boy.
I haven't had one of those nights in a very long time.
I just don't know what happened.
I lie down through the years.
It's just like the love was fake and the hate was real.
I've been working on getting back to that forgiving person.
I'm not there with you yet.
Take your time.
But I do know that tomorrow is a very important day,
and I would love to be surrounded by people
who I trust and support me.
OK all righty.
Well, dinner's adjourned.
It's freezing.
I don't know where we are with quad.
And what I don't want is this vacation to be about bringing
closure with quad.
I'm concerned that you telling me she's saying I'm a mess.
Yeah, she's saying it.
This baby.
Very briefly.
Smelled like weed in here.
It does.
Stop it.
It smells beautiful in here.
So do y'all think that went anywhere?
I don't think it went anywhere from just
being the unbiased person.
What is the resolution?
I don't know.
I don't feel like she genuinely has my back.
And is supportive of me.
I'm raising my hand for a reason because I get tired of her
telling me how stupid I am.
But given quite second chances and third chances,
Jackie would say, why are you always
going back to her when she keeps, you know,
kind of shitting on you?
I'm paraphrasing.
It has felt like everybody else was more important
in her friendship circle.
We were almost like the Cousins.
You don't want to show off to anybody.
The red headed stepchild.
Yeah, we really felt the most distanced when
she got on sister's circle.
There was one moment that I was about to give
up on women, period.
The sister circle.
She showed me how women can support each other.
Oh, I like co-op.
She has a lot of great traits.
It's just when your negative traits
outweigh your positive traits, it's a problem.
My position is she hasn't done anything bad to me.
But I guess talk crap about me to Helen.
Neutral is just a tough position to be in.
Yeah, but I don't want to be the person that's
bringing the mess to the party.
And that was.
I'm not having any issues with card because I can continue
to be around her, be cordial.
But I guess really the question boils down to,
do we have anything to offer quad?
It's just awkward.
So what are we going to do?
Tell her the truth.
No, I will call her right now and ask her to come down here.
I will go ahead and do it because I
have no problem with it.
After tonight, I want this to be over with.
Like a thief in the night.
A chair right there.
Then she can sit there with you.
We don't think she should sit there with Toya.
Her delivery is quite harsh.
She's quite Stank.
Yeah we can't.
We don't.
Yeah Jesus.
Hey, quad.
Hey, Toya.
Yeah Are you dressed?
Not really.
OK OK. Do you.
Can you do us a favor?
Hanni and the girls are in the room.
We want you to come down for a minute, OK?
On my way.
OK Thank you.
Bye bye.