help those that want to be helped
this is going to be a little bit of a rant due to the recent events in the world and that
kimberly and i have actually faced in our personal lives and when you're shoveling snow out here
there's not much to think about so your brain starts to wander
and so i was thinking about this and due to the recent events in
life help those that want to be helped andre what are you talking about in the words of kimberly
well when's the last time you were out of your comfort zone
when's the last time you did something difficult
when was the last time
you just shrugged off what someone said to you that you didn't like and moved on with your life
instead of being butt hurt
making claims and you know spitting fire because you want your voice to be
heard and you don't like what the last person said
and what these last two and a half or two years should i say has really taught me and i've noticed
this in the trades going up growing up too is people like it the easy way they want handouts
people also love to live in fear as much as they hate it
or say they hate it they love to live in fear
and many people will say i wish
i wish i did this i wish i had that i wish i was fit i wish i was healthy i wish
well no one's going to help you unless you help yourself and that's where i'm going with this
being in the prepper community for a while now you know people's true colors shine
in the time of fear you can know all the information you know
about what's going on in the world about how to use certain tools about how to do certain things
and what's coming down the pipeline
but unless you take action for yourself no one's coming to save you
and unless you take action for yourself no one is going to want to save you
you know that things are gonna get tougher but what are you doing to prepare for that are you
becoming tougher yourself or are you sitting back on the couch and asking for pity sitting with the
losers you have around at your table and discussing what if instead of taking actions
we have become way too pampered in life and we have completely lost any notion of hard work
our snow blower broke down here
and yeah we could say oh poor us poor us but no we get the shovel out and a matter of fact
i'm using a steel one
and yeah it's probably got about 15 pounds to it
so you know what's happening and you would rather sit around doing the same thing till this day
which are the same things that got you into the hole that you are in in life right now
you're tired of being fat out of shape what are you doing about it
oh i'm gonna hire a personal trainer and uh they're gonna do it
yeah you can hire a personal trainer and they can tell you everything that you need to do
but unless you do the work it's not going to work
oh i want to be healthy but i can't eat healthy food why is it that you can't eat healthy food
is it because you've been eating processed junk food you know tv dinners that your taste
buds have been shot everything that's processed these days including bread
that you buy at the stores has sugar in it and if you've been eating that all your life you're
gonna have some difficulty switching back to real food because if you look at studies
sugar withdrawals or should i say when you intake sugar it lights up the same part of your brain
that heroin does so when you're going through sugar withdrawals
i bet that you're gonna have similar uh symptoms of people that are
having heroin withdrawals but again you can't cave if you know it's better for you
why can't you just smarten up why is it so tough for people to have a strong mind these days
to put a goal down and say hey listen this is what i want to achieve ever in life
and i'm gonna do everything in my power to get there
yeah i'm gonna be uncomfortable yes i'm gonna be tired
yes i'm not gonna like it but is it gonna better myself
and if the question answer or the if the answer is yes then who cares what your
mind is telling you if you know in your heart that you are doing the right thing
yeah i don't have to shovel this snow but if i don't then there's a potential for us to
fall hurt ourselves and then what what's gonna be harder should i just say i'm not shoveling
snow because i don't have a snow blower no you put your balls between your teeth and you do it
and yeah it takes me an hour but it's good cardio
i'm gonna be a lot fit than some of these 20 year olds out there and that's a shame these days is
because it's it's a weak-minded generation that we have and until we learn some self-discipline
some life skills some structure to life
we're gonna be a bunch of humans running around on earth looking for handouts
and then when you don't get those handouts that you need instead of relying on yourself
you're gonna run back to the same hole to the same life
that you're running from
and it's easy to go back and say why is nobody helping me why is nobody helping me
and i've noticed as a business owner and someone who's had to do things on their own
that you can't go around asking for help
unless you show those people you're asking for help that you want to help yourself
and when you want to help yourself
other people are going to notice that effort and then they'll come
and i got that a lot from business because no one is going to help you establish your business
no one is going to be there to help you put out content to do the work that nobody wants to do
but i'm sure that after you've done all that work and you've made a name for yourself
and you're actually starting to do better that's when people start showing up
but one thing to keep in mind is who are these people that are showing up
when you're doing better were they there for you when you had hard times
or did they dip and say ah nah i'm too busy tonight to help you build your business plan
or i'm too busy i need to go to sleep i need to go out and party or are they people that have
been there through the hard times and then are still with you during the good times
and the reason i bring this up to business is because i've known i i see people that know
what's going on in the world today they've studied it all their lives and they make the move
to live a more sustainable life but they realize very soon how difficult it is
and how far away we have strayed from what we were meant to live this type of life
and it's funny to me that
a bear today is the same as a bear 200 years ago they eat a little bit more garbage
yeah but they still know how to survive in their own natural habitat
what do you know to do these days that is in your own natural habitat
humans have become so distant from what lives they're supposed to live that
they find it difficult
just to live this lifestyle just to cook your own food just to heat your own house
just to shovel your own snow
just to worry about your health and your physical and mental fitness
so you can know all the information that you know but until you start doing something about it
you're gonna be left on your own and in the end no one's gonna help you unless you help yourself
and i want this video to kind of help people that are out there that are running scared
that are looking for a purpose in life face those things that you're running from
tell yourself that you need to change and it's gonna be hard and it's not gonna happen overnight
if you've been doing the same thing for the past 20 some years in your life and you expect
something to change well like einstein said that's the definition of insanity
if you want something to change in your life you need to take action and stop looking for handouts
help yourself before you ask others to help you
hopefully this helped some people out there that are going through some hard times but again when
your safety net when your comfort zone and all those things that make your life easy are gone
who else do you have to rely on but yourself
thanks for joining me i'll see you on the next one