notices she came up and she had a belief
she had a tornado fear right what is a
belief those are you her last week you
already know belief has proof which is
memories P Roo F which she has memories
that represent this and you listen when
she went back she's a little girl in the
cellar with the bag in her hand right
she felt it and then she was in the
bathroom sitting on the pot crying and
it felt it and then all of a sudden we
changed the proof and we go back and we
changed the emotions which the emotions
makes it real well ago the belief is and
the memory of being 16 years old she had
a memory of her brother and guess what
she felt that she was their memory and
all of a sudden we changed it and all of
a sudden beliefs change let me explain a
little bit more let's say for example we
have this memory at 16 and we have 15 20
- 30 - 50 - 60 - 90 - 100 - 14 13 and
you have all these little memories each
one of those guess what they support the
original belief system you picked up so
what do you do you do exactly what we
did you go to the memory you change it
release the emotions each one guess what
you don't have the problem make sense
let me do another one
typical coping skill in our world guys
if you have this problem whatever the
problem is whatever the memory is
whatever hurt that you have within you
and you feel it and you run over here to
get you a candy bar you enjoy that candy
bar but when you come back to the memory
guess what
still there you go to a therapist and
you talk about this memory and you talk
about you understand in house and wise
and all this stuff but you just over
here and talk about it when you go back
and you look at it and you're still
there
it's still there if you go smoke a
cigarette and you over here and join
this cigarette and it's really a good
cigarette but when you go back to the
memory it's still there if you go eat a
pizza doughnuts cookies ice cream then
that what it is while you're then
enjoying it not only are you causing
cigarette causes health problems eating
too much food causes problems talking
about your problems only attracts more
of those problems nacho alcohol drugs
sex TV shopping books movies if you're
using anything outside you to avoid
what's inside you it's still there but
this tapping is not hey running away
problem because what do we do we go
right here you say this is what I feel
this is what I do and we tap it until
it's gone matter of fact Kim next week
when you see her next time you see her
you remember your brother did this you
know what Kim's gonna go well what was
that again tell me what happened because
we're not running we're changing how we
internally represent it that's how all
true healing occurs that's the key make
sense
am I saying that you're not actually
erasing the memory but you're erasing
the emotion that you've attached to the
memory good because nobody wants to get
rid of all their memories but you'd like
to get rid of the bad feelings if you
have any is that good that's a good good
question a good question let me explain
to you you have millions of memories
stored inside you why is it that you
only hold on to the ones that hurt this
is the problem
again the problem is we want to change
the memory completely we want it to be
way we want it now somebody said now
anybody in this room want to improve
their memory raise your hand if you want
to improve your memory you know this is
a unanimous experience you realize that
now if memory were real and permanent
why would you want to renew it why you
want to keep it going why do you want to
improve it the deal is some people will
often say well I don't want to get rid
of this crappy memory I don't want you
to change my bad memories who will I be
I said well definitely happier if it's
all the bad ones you let go up and
that's true right and I understand that
that's a very you know and when I heard
people start saying that said what in
the world is going on here
ah it's a fear fear of letting go of my
bad stuff now by the way when Kim came
up guess what happened to her memory it
changed and that true can well know not
only the emotion but the image changed
too didn't it absolutely absolutely
now guys if you keep the memory intact
with all those bad feelings gets going
to get to feel bad often you don't want
to fall in love with a bad memory
all right here's here's a good concept
matter of fact this is what somebody
this is what Jesus said he said the eyes
are the lamp to the body if your eyes
are like the body's light if your eyes
are dark the body's dark and how great
that darkness is now what do you say
first of all the eyes affect your body
that means what you see makes you feel
good or bad is that logical okay
so and then he said over in Luke he said
see to it that the light within you is
not darkness and I believe he's saying
see to that you don't hold on to bad
memories thinking it's good to keep him
do you hear what I'm saying now he said
the good men are going his heart and
pull out good treasures and that good
the bad men are going his heart and pull
out bad treasures and act bad now most
people think it's our church in their
church but let me tell you guys you have
both good and bad memories inside you
that correct part of your healing and
transformation is going to the bad ones
and pluck it out get rid of it change it
release it because if you have this
great ability to remember bad things and
feel bad guess what you will be able to
do absolutely is that what you like if
you want better skills and feeling bad
guys I'll teach a class how to feel
miserable would you like to learn how to
feel miserable you already know that
well I bet you're not doing a good job
at it I can make it worse I guarantee
you I know how I know how you do it I'm
serious Robert at one time probably
about six or seven maybe longer than
that years ago I didn't remember my
childhood at all I didn't remember the
good and I didn't remember the bad but I
believe my body did oh as I was very
sick ill unhealthy so I believe that
sometimes if the memories are bad enough
we just turn them off yeah good and bad
yeah the unconscious mind is your friend
guys it will bring up the bad memories
and the reason why it brings it up so
you can heal it but don't fall in love
with it but see we have never been
taught how to change it that's why
you're in this seminar isn't it right
that's why a lot of you're gonna come
into the next seminar that six-week
seminar this will give you the skills to
heal but there's a problem you may have
to let go of some of your bad stuff I
mean seriously
your life can improve do you hear me the
body works together with a mind if you
have physical pains in your body guys
its speaking to you in an unconscious
level then you've got to address this
stuff this book here I use this as a
guideline
kill your body by Louise Hay and
basically she is saying mental causes
for physical illness and the
metaphysical which is spiritual
emotional concepts floating around your
mind how to overcome them you know the
interesting thing let's say Karen came
up last week and we addressed some
issues with her I this week she has an
eye and
so I looked in the hearing infection and
see what infection means I'll read it
just in case
infection irritation anger and annoyance
you're probably a little annoyed last
week who knows but so what do you do you
tap on it you tap it you tap it you tap
it the body and the mind are one and
you're fully responsible for how you
respond in the world and you can learn
how to change you that's what you want
right did they help you understand it
the body and minor one so if you have
physical pain so that's the unconscious
mind saying there's some areas that you
need to address and you can change it
and your unconscious is your best friend
it's if it starts showing memories up
that you need to address address it if
you run from it it goes wherever you go