Winston Churchill said,
Never give up.
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I noticed one of the comments we get very often
on YouTube is one of my fans, one of my students
experiencing some kind of challenges,
some kind of adversities
and they're asking me how they should overcome that,
how do they stay calm in front of adversity?
How do you overcome that?
How do you not go crazy and get all frustrated?
We're all human beings.
So today, I wanna give you three tips, what you could do,
what you can do if you are facing adversity in your life.
Tip number one is this,
whatever you're going through right now,
I know it maybe they are very difficult.
And it almost feels like the end of world
in your own little world, right
in your own little world,
I want you to imagine that you are now,
three years, five years, maybe even 10 years from today.
And now you're looking back and what's happening right now,
and you ask yourself some of these questions.
This is bad as I thought it is.
What can I learn from this?
I know it's very difficult,
you say I not learn learn nothing from it,
there's nothing I'm learning from this.
No, what are some lessons you could take away?
What are some of the values you get from this, right?
It's going to be the most difficult one.
What could you be grateful for that this happened to you?
And you're like, oh, come on.
Come on Dan, there's nothing to be grateful for.
This accident happened, this emergency happened,
or something tragic that just happened,
like there's nothing that I could be grateful for.
I know, but if there is something to be grateful for,
what could you be grateful for?
Ask yourself those questions.
Suddenly, they would give you perspective
and when you come back to reality
where you are now looking at scenario,
okay, if it's 10 years from now
maybe it's not as bad.
Imagine, even things that happened to you in the past,
the adversities that you experienced in the past,
think about that.
It could be two, three, five, 10 years ago.
Back then, they felt like the end of the world,
they felt like it's the worse thing
that ever happened to you back then.
Now, looking today, looking back then,
how do you feel about those incidents?
My bet is this, it is not as bad as you thought
and you learnt a lot from it
and probably you find something
that you could be grateful for.
That adversity turns out to be one of the greatest
thing that ever happened to you.
That maybe you make a career change,
you start a business, you pivot,
you do something different that let you
to where you are today.
Am I wrong?
Number two, second tip is this.
When you're going through diversities,
when you're going through all these things,
they'll only put some distance
but an other thing that you could do is
talk to someone that has already gone through that.
One of the things that I'm very fortunate
because I have a lot of peers.
Very successful mentors, people around me
that whatever adversity, even today that I experience
that shit that happens, right?
which I still do, that maybe I will feel frustrated,
I will feel maybe I'm not sure what to do,
but I will talk to someone.
Let's say talk to a mentor
and he will laugh and say,
yup, I experienced that 30 years ago, 35 years ago,
and here is what you need to do.
And they will share with me my perspective.
Suddenly I don't feel so bad 'cause
what happens is this,
when you experience any kind of problem,
any kind of adversity, you think you are the only one
in the world that's experiencing this.
Not you, I can tell you from experience,
a lot of people have experienced the same thing.
You're much luckier.
At least you have a Youtube channel
that you could come visit
and see and get information and get insides,
I didn't have any of that back then.
Number three, your tribe, your community,
it is so so so critical that when you are by yourself
and you are trying to solve the problem alone,
it's always very challenging
but if you could talk to other people,
example within my High-Ticket Closer community
that when one of my students is experiencing
some adversity, maybe they are talking to influence her
or they are talking to prospect that
oh I'm not so sure what to do.
They will go into my High-Ticket Closure community
Facebook group and they'll ask a question,
hey family, this is what I'm going through,
like I'm having some adversity,
I'm having some challenges, how would you deal with this?
And they will make a Facebook post
and they will see 20, 30, 50 comments.
All the closures, all my students who have soft,
similar problems, who have experienced this kind of
adversities before, they will comment,
hey don't worry, this is what you should do,
you should do this, you should do that.
And suddenly you can see the student is like
oh okay all right.
So from there it's much easier to lean on your tribe,
lean on their community.
If you don't have a community like that,
you need to find yourself one.
Online, offline, it doesn't matter,
I cannot emphasize how important this is
on your journey as an entrepreneur,
as a closure, having that mentor, having the tribe,
having the community that you can lean on
is so so critical.
If you wanna join our global community,
maybe it's the High-Ticket Closure family,
maybe it's the Youtube family
if you want to be a Youtuber,
it doesn't matter.
We have such a powerful community.
So click on the link here if you want to join
our global community or you just want to learn
more about it, you wanna see what this is about,
what it is like to have a community that supports you,
that shares the same values and goals as you.
Maybe your family doesn't fully support
what you do or your goals,
but you could have an online, a global community
that understands you, who shares your vision,
who also going through the same journey,
who's going places, who have are on the same path,
that changes everything.