Hey! This is Tripp from Tripp Advice.com and today, we’re talking about how to talk to
girls on Facebook. Facebook can be a great avenue to meet new women and to get girls
that you’re currently friends with to go out with you. So in today’s video
I’m going to give you some techniques that work for both. This will be good to learn because
you want to be able to use every avenue you have to meet more girls. Whether it be in
person, online, on apps, and even on Facebook. If you don’t know how to use Facebook to
your advantage, you may be missing out on a great way of meeting some girls. So pay
close attention on today’s video. Now most of the skills involved here is similar to
texting. Because you're going to be chatting up girls on Facebook Messenger. So before
I get into the video, what I want to give you today is my “Top 10 Texting Mistakes”
video, which is 100% free. It's going to show you the most common mistakes that guys
make when texting girls that make them not respond. All you have to do is get it right
here on the screen or in the description below this video. Now let’s talk about how to
talk to girls on Facebook. First, and maybe the most important, is your profile. You have
to make sure your profile is going to make you shine because girls will be going through
it and they will be checking out your photos and information. So they’re going to be
looking for things like; “Is he put together?” “Does he have good friends?”
"Are his only friends girls?" “Are his only friends guys?” “Does he do interesting things?"
“Is he a creep or is he weird?” Work on your profile and put pictures in there
that make you look cool, interesting, fun and at you’re most attractive. Put your travel
pictures up. Pics of you with friends and family. And I would take down any recent
pictures of you and your ex because it may be a little confusing to her. Next, assuming
you two are friends on Facebook, which you should be, start commenting on her posts,
but only once a week, or a couple times a week. If you do it too much, it could come
off creepy. This is going to start getting you in her view. And don’t comment on her
looks at all. Don’t flirt with her. Comment as if you would if she were your sister.
You wouldn’t say anything inappropriate to your sister, right? No, of course not. So that’s
how you are going to comment and how you’re going to treat these comments. She’s going
to read it because everyone always reads all their comments and it’s going to make her
remember you. The goal with commenting on her posts is also to hopefully get her to
respond to you too in the comments. So if she takes pictures somewhere cool,
comment and actually say “Hey, that look sweet. Where is that?” Get a little convo going
that way. Now, this is extremely important. Listen closely. The goal of this entire process
is to get her to meet up with you. So you’re taking these little baby steps to moving closer
to a meet up. I want you to keep this in mind as we continue this process. So what’s
the next step? Once you’ve had a bit of interaction on her posts, you want to eventually
move it onto the messenger. When you message her, I don’t want you to say “Hi
what’s up?” “Hey, what are you up to?” or even comment on one of her posts via the message.
With exceptions, which I’ll talk about in a bit. But when you message her, you have
a few options, but they all revolve around the idea of asking her a question. This question
can be something regarding advice that you wanted on something, or even ask her something
regarding one of her posts that you want to know more about. Maybe for example, it was
a movie that she saw, something she did, a place she went to. This is a great way to slowly
start conversation and then eventually start talking on a deeper level. The goal here is to get
conversation to a point where it’s not just you asking questions and she’s answering.
You want to get her invested in the conversation. A key hint that she’s invested, is if she’s
asking you questions. That means that she actually wants to talk to you. In order to
get her invested, make sure you keep conversation light and interesting. So what does that mean?
That means you’re being playful, maybe teasing her a bit, sending an emoji here and
there, but not too much. And also, the most important, bringing conversation away from
the topic that originally started it. Yes, make sure you work on going off on tangents
to bring this to a real conversation. This should be easy. You have your opener lined
up for you now. Play around with the convo and see where it can take you. Do this for
a couple days to a week, and then it’s time to ask her out. I want you to say something
similar to this, “You’re fun to talk to, we should grab a drink sometime. When are
you free?” That is a very direct, very confident, yet gentlemanly way of asking a girl out.
It’s the perfect mix of being dominant, yet appropriate. Exchange numbers, set it
up, and you’re good to go. Just make sure you get her number and move it to text eventually.
It’s more personal to have a girl’s number and brings you two to another level, rather
than just being Facebook friends. And if you want to make sure you don’t text her the
wrong thing to turn her off, then get my “Top 10 Texting Mistakes”. It’s a quick video
that will show you what not to text and what to text, so you can get girls interested in
you. And most importantly, meeting up with you. Get that right here on the screen or
in the description below this video. Thanks so much for watching. Press "like" if you liked
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