WE HAVE BEEN SEEING
HEADLINES ABOUT SEXUAL
HARASSMENT IN THE NEWS LATELY.
IT THEY SURPRISE SOME MEN
ABOUT HOW COMMON IT CAN BE.
IT MAY HAVE YOU WONDERING HOW
YOU CAN SUPPORT THE WOMEN IN
YOUR LIFE.
IN TODAY'S RELATIONSHIP REBOOT
WE ARE TALKING AT POWER AND
GENDER AND HOW TO BE A GOOD MAN
TO THE WOMEN YOU KNOW.
JOINING US IS OUR RELATIONSHIP
GURU.
I'M GLAD WE ARE TALKING ABOUT
THIS.
WE HAVE SEEN SO MANY MEN SAYING
IN RESPONSE TO THE ME TOO
SOCIAL MEDIA CAMPAIGN SAYING
I'M SORRY
YOU HAD TO DO THROUGH THIS.
I HAVE HEARD FROM MEN THEY
ARE SHOCKED HOW OFTEN THIS
HAPPENS TO WOMEN.
IT IS GOOD TO HAVE THAT KIND
OF AWARENESS.
THE ME TOO CAMPAIGN WAS
INCREDIBLE ABOUT BRINGING
AWARENESS.
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR TIPS.
FIRST ONE IS TAKING ACTION.
EXACTLY.
I WAS INSPIRED BY NICOLE SILVER
WHO PUBLISHED THIS IN THE
GUARDIAN.
TALK TO THE GUY WHO IS CREEPY
AROUND THE OFFICE.
OTHER MEN MAY NOT UNDERSTAND
HOW THEY ARE BEING.
THEY DON'T THINK THEY ARE BEING
CREEPY.
THE NEXT ONE IS SOMETHING
I'M SENSITIVE WITH, IN THAT I
WORK AROUND WOMEN ALL THE TIME.
DON'T TALK -- IF YOU ARE A
MAN DON'T TALK OVER A WOMAN.
IF YOU SEE A MAN TALKING OVER A
WOMAN SAY, WAIT, SHE WAS
TALKING.
THIS IS WHERE THAT.
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COMES IN.
THIS NEXT HAS TO DO WITH
TOUCH.
WE ARE NOT TALKING
INAPPROPRIATE TOUCHES BUT A
TOUCH ON THE SHOULDER OR ARM.
YOU ARE SAYING DON'T DO IT.
IF YOU DON'T KNOW THE WOMAN
DON'T TOUCH.
SOME PEOPLE ARE HUGGERS.
IF YOU ARE MEETING SOMEBODY,
WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE INVITED TO
HUG.
GENERALLY SPEAKING, BECAUSE
THERE IS A REAL POWER ISSUE
WITH TOUCH.
YOU ARE INVADING SOMEONE'S
SPACE.
THE NEXT ONE IS THOSE OF YOU
WHO WOULD NEVER THINK OF DOING
THIS, YOU ARE ASTONISHED IT
HAPPENS.
IT IS CONSIDERED A FORM OF
FLIRTATION WITH QUITE A FEW
PEOPLE TO SEND PICTURES OF A
SEXUAL NATURE OVER TEXT.
DON'T SEND ONE UNLESS YOU ARE
SPECIFICALLY ASKED TO SEND ONE.
DON'T SEND THEM.
JUST STOP SENDING THEM.
CERTAINLY TO SOMEONE YOU
DON'T KNOW.
IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND YOUR
WIFE ASKS FOR THAT, THAT'S
THAT WONDERFUL -- THAT'S
WONDERFUL IF THAT'S YOUR
RELATIONSHIP.
WE ARE IN A SOCIETY WHERE WE
WANT TO MAKE FUNNY JOKES.
IT IS A TOUGH LINE TO WALK.
YOU ARE SAYING AVOID THEM ALL
TOGETHER?
DON'T MAKE JOKES ABOUT
WOMEN.
THAT LEADS TO WOMEN OF A TARGET
OF SOMEONE YOU CAN MAKE FUN OF.
THAT LEADS TO ABUSIVE LANGUAGE.
IT IS A SLIPPERY SLOPE.
WE ARE SEEING MORE CALLING
OUT OF THIS INAPPROPRIATE
BEHAVIOR.
I THINK A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T
KNOW HOW TO RESPOND.
IF YOU ARE A MAN AND A WOMAN
YOU KNOW SAYS DON'T DO THIS
DON'T BE OFFENDED.
TAKE TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT.
THIS NEXT ONE PAY WOMEN AS
MUCH AS YOU PAY MEN.
BOSSES LISTEN UP.
PAY WOMEN AS MUCH AS YOU PAY
MEN.
SMART.
VERY SMART.
MEN HAVE INHERIT POWER IN
ALMOST EVERY SITUATION.
BE AWARE OF THAT.
ONE THING THAT REALLY STRUCK ME
WHEN MEN SAID I WAS AMAZED AT
HOW MANY WOMEN JOINED ME THE ME
TOO THING.
NO WOMEN I KNOW HAVE BEEN
AMAZED.
ALL THE WOMEN KNOW THAT.
UNDERSTANDING YOU WALK THROUGH
THE WORLD DIFFERENTLY AS A MAN
AND AS A WOMAN.
AS A PARENT YOU HAVE A BIG
RESPONSIBILITY.
TALK YOUR SONS.
LET THEM KNOW WHAT YOUR VALUES
ARE AROUND GENDER.
ONE IS DON'T READ A LIST LIKE
THIS AND THINK THAT IT DOESN'T
APPLY TO YOU.
YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON IF