Damon here with NLP gym and we just wrapped up the last day of the workshop
hypnosis in NLP workshop with Dr. Sid Jacobson what I want to talk to you
a little bit about was the six-step reframing that we did
which is a classical NLP technique but a lot of people in NLP
think that that's started that started out as an NLP process when in
actuality that started out as a hypnotic process right
it's really interesting it has an interesting history if you ask Richard Bandler
Richard told me along time ago
it mostly got the idea from Virginia Satir from the way that Virginia did what we
call the parts parties
so the idea is that we are all made up of a number of parts and these parts get
into conflict but you can use them to work with each other to get more
integrated the whole idea of hearts work in the stall therapy that pearls was
doing in Virginia's work is really to get people integrated in a way that
makes sense so that it so that they were working together with themselves
internal control conference
so overall we had the idea of having people get into those parts
finding the part that's creating some sort of a problem or admission for
somebody then finding out why that arts doing that so what's the positive
intention behind that parrot and then going to a person's creative part to
come up with alternative ways to pay now the idea that is it different than what
classical hypnotists were doing many class equipment he said somebody has
some kind of a problem
they've got some underlying or there's some underlying game by having that
problem
so if we can just have the personal transport find out what that is
then we can find someone to deal with so I've been in classical hypnosis trains
were the person doing the most you could simply have somebody go into trance and
basically asked them what are you doing that for
that's the good thing about their why are you behaving that way and getting
the answer from the unconscious
whatever the unconscious is and then say well there's got to be some better way
to do you up to this
so instead of having works your eyes are being the jerk
whatever problem that you're having why don't we find another way to basically
meet that same me
so they combine these things together in a way where there was a format where
people could basically do hypnosis without having to have a formal
induction without having to college but making sure that they went through all
the steps that were necessary to successfully do a piece of change
and make sure that it is safe by doing
ecological so what they did was they took the idea of a problem actually
being
something else it's actually a solution to something else you don't know about
or another way of talking about it is it's meeting some new but the heat is
unconscious II don't know what that is
that was an idea that was around in hypnosis in and probably other therapies
as well to combine that with Virginia's idea of parts partners and then adding
in the idea of an ecological check to make sure that the person is fully
integrated and that everything was working together and that you had
created new problems by solving the real value was not just good
you were putting all these things together into a format the real value
was that it was a foreman it was something you could use step by step and
if you simply follow the instructions and you were paying attention of the
places most of the time you can get a piece of what they're just about
anything
so it was one of the first NLP formats that we had and it was great for bad
habits
it was great for making changes in somebody's behavior that they didn't
know why they were doing something
it was great for interrupting patterns of
selves into if you're good at it you can do almost anything with now the other
part of it relies Richard told me he really wanted a lot of people doing the
analysis because it was really effective and he wanted to give more format where
they do it without realizing that's what they were so not only the person doing
it would have some objection to it because of his hypnosis but be there
that person or the client would have any objection to to it because that is
hypnosis right so we're talking the other day about people's fears and
injections to do an analysis
well this just remove them as you would say that this is an NLP techniques
it's just too far matters we're using that it was so passes if you think about
it
for those people who understand the actual process and the steps involved
there's no way to do it without altering your consciousness
there's no way to do this without actually trains and such a useful format
like it i found myself and what I laughter pricing and several times and
doing coaching and even working on myself I don't always follow the steps
exactly what i find myself always looking for the positive intent and
finding other options finding at least three options just so natural to go to
that now and this was the first time that it had actually done it through
hypnosis have had you had a student teacher and I I think that's my new
favorite right now they're going out of them
I want to do it now hypnotically rather than having to walk in the person
through it step by step and its really a content free model I mean you don't
really need to know the content maybe in some cases that we will get hung up on
something but in general you don't seem to need contents of the persons in
trance right
you can just walk them through and so long as you have to do motorcycle set up
a picture yes and no and rice
they can keep all back to themselves you don't have to necessarily know right the
ideomotor signals being a connection to the internal processing that the person
is not aware of
so that you add a check and what you're doing with what the unconscious mind
whatever they need
as opposed to just listening to some buddies intellectual verbalizations
about what the
so as long as you got that internal signal system
you're pretty well know that you're meeting the person's means where the
needs came from in the first place
unconscious classes
the other thing about it too is as you send the pieces of this are valuable I
mean one of the basic presuppositions about it
is that we want two separate people's intentions from the behavior
this looks that into the farm it was a very important part the other part is
that we all have all of the resources we need
that's what the . partners for to find those resources and then frame options
yeah it's not only the three options but the ecological check at the end is
something that that people should be doing in multiple formats to make sure
that everything that you've just done is going to be controlled for the person
that create other problems of nowhere and it's interesting to see like even
there's so much new technology these days
NLP and it's so much of it is really based off within the old patterns and
processes 60 framing is one of those it's like right
good just at a very simple fundamental process and I don't think a lot of
people really spend enough time with that model to really know it wound up
and when you do though it makes the newer technology so much easier to work
with
well I obviously agree with you completely and I think you know as we
discussed the purpose of helping Jim is because many people in there ll be
trained
just getting a little snippets of a lot of the older technology or none of it
all and they don't know where the new pieces came from and then when they can
effectively use the new Jesus they don't know why because I don't know how he
works
they don't know what they're built out if they don't like it came from and they
don't know how to adjust their behavior or their communication in a way of
gratitude and I'm a hundred percent individuals who have to be to be
teaching regional basis you really that then they can do the more advanced stuff
and make it work for you and I find it really natural one she really
the more you practice the basics for you naturally start to advance on your own
anyway and start adding in your parts to it and it's just a natural evolution is
what I found
I heard a guy who does participate writing something promising for said
practice and it really feels very good practitioner training we don't need
master practitioner on a hundred percent of you found . he was making them over .
because you kind of naturally advance on your own and you call yourself that if
your pricing the base and i preciate it
the intent behind what is so I you know I like some of the new stone that's what
the other thing is even in one practitioner program
I don't know anything long enough to give people all the school
I think he was teaching a really long one . it was in a different country
no I'm not have to check with them and find some possible anyway we thank you
so much for seeing and spending this weekend it was a lot of one out of
everybody loved it
thank you so you're next yeah till next time
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