- Does he really like me or is he simply wasting my time?
Shall I move on,
or is this relationship something that I should
keep at and continue with?
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I'm Greta's sister
and also one of her high value women coaches.
And in this video I will share five signs
that he is wasting your time.
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The number one sign is that he is breadcrumbing you.
I believe that a woman will notice very quickly
if a guy is actually making an effort or not.
If a man is simply dragging you along,
doesn't really want to or can start a conversation with you,
doesn't seem really that interested
or simply does the bare minimum
by texting good morning and disappearing,
that is breadcrumbing.
And the truth is, that is simply not enough to have a good,
healthy, and solid relationship.
I really do love the saying, "if he wanted to, he would."
If a man really likes you, loves you,
or sees a future with you, he will make it happen,
or at least will do everything he can to make it happen
simply because you are a priority to him.
If you are not a priority to him,
he will simply give you the bare minimum
and think that you will actually stick around.
Number two is he says he doesn't want a relationship.
If a man says he does not want a relationship,
I would believe him.
There is no reason why he would say this,
because at the end, he is risking losing your interest.
The only thing that you can do
if he does say that he doesn't want a relationship
is to give him space and let him reach out to you.
Simply step back and date other men.
It is possible that he will change his opinion
because he will start to respect you more
because you're not sticking around
when he says he doesn't want a relationship.
However, I would not bet on it,
and I would not wait around for it.
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The third thing is he is not over his ex and has issues.
It's very common for people to not fully be over their ex
and actually start dating immediately after a breakup.
Now, it's one thing to completely not be over the ex
and still be in love with them,
or to be broken up but still have like
just these little feelings for the ex.
I think that if there are minimal feelings for the ex still,
but he is treating you extremely well,
then give it time, and it will work out.
All you have to do is act high value.
But if you see that he is really suffering,
and texting her, and really is simply a wreck,
and he talks about her all the time,
do yourself a favor and step back.
You are first and foremost, not his therapist,
and you don't want to simply be a rebound.
Number four is he's flirting with other women
behind your back.
If you are in a relationship with a guy,
and you see that he's texting other women
and being flirty with them,
for me personally, this is a complete turn off.
It's a red flag for me actually.
Maybe he's checking if there are other women out there
who are actually interested in him as well,
even though he's in a relationship with you.
I truly do not think this is okay or should be accepted,
and it doesn't bring any amount
of trust into your relationship.
If anything, it breaks trust that has been built.
You as a woman want to potentially find someone
who you can spend your life with
and who you can easily trust.
And this type of situation doesn't look very promising.
Number five, he doesn't invest in you.
As I mentioned, if a guy loves you,
he will make you a priority in his life.
He will want you to be happy and love your life.
He will show you this through different forms of action.
For example, he would set up dates, spend time with you,
listen to you, give you advice, solve problems for you,
buy you things, or spend money on you,
arrange fun stuff to do for you during dates,
tells you that he loves you, introduces you to his parents,
and simply integrates you into his life
in different shapes and forms.
These are all ways of showing affection
and investing into you.
So it really doesn't have to be just the money factor,
but it can be made up, of course,
so many affectionate gestures.
If he doesn't do any of this that I just mentioned,
it can simply mean that he's not taking you so seriously.
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if you find yourself in this type of situation,
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