Style Details Women Notice Immediately [0:00:00]
So, for a lot of us guys especially here in the U.S., the first thing a woman notices
is our car. Now, for a lot of guys this feels like a bunch of BS because most men can't
afford a $100,000- plus vehicle. But, here’s the deal, the price of the car
isn't what most women are thinking about. Now, what most women are looking at is is
it well-taken care of and they're thinking what does this say about his personality.
Now, of course, there are gold diggers out there paying attention to the value of the
vehicle and everything else that you have on you. Now, the reality is the vast majority
of women are using this as just one of many indicators to make a better determination
of who you are and what you're bringing to the table.
I mean, think about it. We do this all the time. You see a guy in a Harley Davidson,
you have a different impression of him than you do someone that's riding a crotch rocket.
You see a guy driving a pickup truck, you have a different impression of him than somebody
driving a sports car. And, again, the car doesn't have to be expensive
to send a good first impression. I mean, my truck only has a value of a few thousand dollars,
but I keep it clean. I actually had it repainted, it looks really good. I mean, it's a classic
truck and it looks good. I know personally, when I see a guy driving
a well-taken care of classic vehicle, I'm like, hey, there's a guy that takes care of
what he owns. In today's video, gents, we're talking about
things that women notice and how to make a great first impression.
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Now, I know some of you guys live in cities, you don't own a car and you're like, “Come
on, Antonio. What is she going to notice on me?”
Well, first up, when you are approaching, she is going to notice your silhouette, she
is going to notice your build, she is going to notice the way you're walking.
Now, when it comes to your build, you can't do much about that in the next 24 to 48 hours.
That being said, your silhouette, you can improve immediately by wearing clothing that
accentuates your masculine features and downplays your flaws.
An example would be just simply throwing on a jacket. A jacket preferably structured in
the shoulders, it’s going to build up your shoulders from a distance and make it look
more masculine. You want to button up especially right there
in the center piece if you've got a little bit you know 20, 30, 40, maybe 50 extra pounds
right there in the center. By buttoning it up, not going to hide it all, but what it's
going to do is give you a more clean straight up look.
Another way to strengthen or slim up that silhouette is to go for a monochromatic look.
This is where the eyes can go up and down because you're keeping the color relatively
the same. Wearing a dark top with a dark bottom versus a light top with a dark bottom or the
opposite, what this does is it draws our attention right to the center point, which, again, if
you've got a little bit heavier over the mid section, we're going to be drawn to that.
So, after you do what you can for the silhouette, let's talk about your walk. You want to walk
with confidence. Put those shoulders back, don't hunch over, know where you're going.
These are things a woman sees a man and all of a sudden, he's walking with confidence.
He looks like he belongs, he's not trying to hide himself.
And a lot of us over time, we've kind of scrunched down. It's something that we fall into with
habit. You want to change that back. One of the easiest things, again, just simply roll
those shoulders back, know where you're going and go in that direction with confidence.
Now, as she gets closer, she's going to notice your clothing, in particular your shoes. Your
shoes are the foundation of your outfit, the foundation of your wardrobe. Make sure that
you spend good money on shoes and you buy the best that you can afford.
[0:05:06] Do you have to buy expensive? No. You can
look around for deals. But you want to have whether they're boots, shoes, whatever they
are you're putting on your feet, you want to make sure that they are of good quality
and they work with the clothing you're wearing. Because you can have a really nice top outfit,
you know, that sweater with jeans fits you perfectly. But, if you've got the wrong shoes,
you're wearing running shoes when you could be wearing leather boots, that would just
really up that outfit versus bringing it down, it's going to sabotage the whole look if you're
wearing the wrong type of shoes with the outfit that, yes, could have done so much more for
you. And, gents, when I'm talking good looking
shoes, I'm not talking dress shoes, although, that's a great option. You can go with boots,
you can go with sneaker high tops. Point being is make sure that they work with the outfit,
that they're clean, well-taken care of, and of a good quality build.
With clothing, it's similar. You don't have to go fancy, you don't have to wear a suit,
although, I do think wearing a suit makes any man look great. And that's because the
suit is designed to enhance your natural masculine features.
That being said, you could wear a jumper a sweater and look good if the jeans fit you.
And remember, when it comes to your clothing, fit, function, and fabric, that's my style
pyramid, if you nail those three things, pretty much anything that you put on your body if
it complements your build is going to look good.
And believe me, gents, just look around, the bar isn't set too high. What we're talking
about here is stepping one or two notches above the average in your area and you are
going to stand out, you're going to get compliments, people are going to call you the GQ guy, and
they're going to mean it in a good way. The next thing she's going to notice, gents,
you're grooming. And let's start things off with your hair. So, if you don't have hair,
if you're shaving off you’re bald, let's just say that if you've already gone through
that, you are confident in this look. You know that this look some ladies love it, some
not so much, some, yeah, you don't care. Point being is you got to be confident with what
you got. Now, if you've got a full head of hair, make
sure that you have a style that feels great. Don't go with the new hairstyle the day that
you're meeting up with somebody new. You're going to be going on that date, you're going
to be meeting up wanting to. If you want confidence one of the keys with
that is practice. Knowing, hey, how this looks that this is something that's reliable, I
know that this complements my face, my overall look, I'm going to go with it.
Now, what if you're caught in the middle, you're losing your hair, you've got balding
spots, you've got thin hair? Well, I do recommend use products that help just to make it look
better. Maybe find a way. I know a lot of guys put on a hat, other guys simply say,
“You know what? I'm going to shave it. I'm going to go towards the bald.”
So, other people say, “You know what? I'm maybe going to even look at a hair transplant.”
Whatever it may be, go down that path, but go down that path with confidence knowing
that, hey, you know, I am going to control my look and I'm going to make sure I put my
best foot forward. Now, what about facial hair? So, the key here
is to trim. If you've got a beard, don't let it get out of control. Make sure it's clean,
it's looking good. Maybe choose a particular style, you know, goatee, mustache. Whatever
it is you want to go with, make sure that you've had time to wear this a few times,
you like the look in the mirror. If you're just going to go clean shaven because this
is what you've always done, then that's perfectly fine as well.
Next up, gents, let's talk about the biggest organ in your body. I'm talking about your
skin. You want to make sure that you take care of your skin. It looks healthy. As you
get older, your skin starts to lose a little bit of blood flow. It can, yeah, just make
you not look very good. It can start to flake. It can start to get
dried out especially if you live maybe in the Midwest, it gets really cold during the
winter and the air just dries out. You don't want to have flaky dead looking skin, instead
make sure that you have a skin care routine. That includes at night, you're washing maybe
you're scrubbing your face with a face washer. You don't want to be using just regular soap.
It's overly strong, it's going to strip away too much of the oil and the moisture. And
you've also got a moisturizer. Moisturizer is probably one of the key things that I think
every man should start using. Now, what about aftershaves? I think they're
great especially, again, if you're going to go for that clean shave and you've got a little
bit of cuts and nicks, you want to make sure to put down that aftershave. Just makes it
feels better and just helps the skin, again, re-moisturize.
Now, what about anti-aging creams? Over the age of 30, 40, 50, you start to get wrinkles
in here. Anti-aging creams are great because they're going to help hydrate the skin.
Now, very much related to grooming, but I want to give its own section and that is oral
hygiene. So, guys, of course, you're brushing your teeth, right, twice a day?
Are you flossing? Only floss the teeth you want to keep. That's what my dentist tells
me. Completely agree, especially, again, as you get a bit older. When you're young, you
get away with a lot of things like stalling to brush your teeth.
But, as you age, your mouth gets dry, so guess what? Grab some water, drink more water. Get
a tongue cleaner, clean off that tongue. Some of you guys have given me so much crap because
occasionally on my videos I did not clean my tongue. Today, I did. Use a mouthwash.
All of these things just give you great smelling breath.
Does every man need to get his teeth straightened? The answer is no. But, a lot of us would benefit
from it, especially when it comes to our bite. Our teeth are going to last longer if they're
straight and if they are properly aligned. So, it may be something if your dentist is
recommending as mine has, “Hey, you're 45 years old. You may want to get them straightened.”
I'm seriously considering this. That being said, whitening your teeth, this
is a very easy thing that you can do at home. Tons of whitening options out there. Point
here is your smile and oral hygiene matters. It matters a lot especially if she's going
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Now, let's talk about eye contact. This one probably could have gone earlier. But, when
you make eye contact, what she's going to notice is if your eyes immediately look away.
This is a confidence issue and it can be overcome with practice.
And, I'll admit, guys, I had this issue for the longest time. I just wasn't used to actually
looking at girls and when they looked back, I would look down. This is something you're
going to have to work on. And the best advice I can give you here is
start making eye contact with everybody. Whether they're young, old, male, female, just simply
look at people and smile and say, hello. You want this to become a habit. You want this
to become your default that you are a friendly person because it generally becomes part of
who you are. And when you become this friendly approachable
person, you're going to find it just starts the conversation. And when you practice this
again and again, it becomes normal. Now, really quick let's talk jewelry. Do women
actually care? And truthfully, the answer to that question is as varied as there are
women out there. But, a lot of women do use it, again, as an indicator similar to the
car of your personality, who you are. If you're a guy that has a lot of jewelry
on, they're going to make an assumption about you. Right or wrong they have a preconceived
notion of what a man who wears a lot of jewelry is like.
Now, if you're not into jewelry, I get it. But an easy way to be able to bring a bit
of bling into your wardrobe is with a classic piece like a watch.
So, this right here, not so much bling, more functional. You've got a classic G-shock,
which is great if you're going to be sending a lot -- spending a lot of time at the gym,
a lot of time outdoors. Maybe go with a classic field watch with a
canvas band. Maybe you're a bit of a gangster accountant, you want to go with a gold data
bank. And my personal favorite the classic dive style watch. What I like about this,
you can dress it up, you can dress it down. You can spend just a few hundred bucks and
get a really decent, you know, Seiko or Orient. You can spend tens of thousands of dollars
and get an expensive Rolex. Point being, wear something that you can afford,
something you're comfortable wearing, and she is going to notice that little bit of
bling, but most likely she won't know any of the watch brands.
So, why care? Because it may turn into a conversation piece, it may be something she asks about.
At the very least, she'll notice you pay attention to the details.
And let's not forget about your manners and behavior. Within seconds, she's going to note
how you're treating her. Within minutes, she's going to note how you're treating others.
Saying, please, thank you, excuse me, showing that you treat your fellow human with respect
is something that not only women, anyone notices when they first meet you.
So, make sure you know good manners, make sure you practice good manners. Make sure
that your good manners are part of who you are.
So, gents, what do you think? Agree? Disagree? What did I miss? Let me know in the comments
below. So, what video to watch next? How about 10
signs of a confident man? Guys, check out this video right here. I lay it out, you need
to make sure to master these if you want to appear strong and confident.
Seriously, click on it. Guys, I'm getting tired of holding this up, boom, click, go.
That's a good one. Check it out, guys. [0:12:43] End of audio