I'm just gonna put it all out on this video and I'm starting with David
because even though Jason's creepy and disgusting
David's whole other level of being an actual horrible person
just made a video exposing david dobrik and her relationship with jason nash but
there are a lot of valuable lessons that we can learn from this what is up
everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but
focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about
mental health and what I like to do is pulled in the topics from the YouTube
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made a video and don't worry I'm gonna address what you all want me to address
in a little bit but anyways let's talk about what's going on so real quick for
those of you who haven't checked out her video I'll link it down below as well
but she just made a video where she's visibly upset obviously and she talked
about how david dobrik isn't really that great of a guy some issues with jason
nafs and other problems with the vlog squad and all that and those of you who
are new to my channel my channel isn't about drama what I want to do is take
what you guys are seeing on YouTube and see if there's something that you can
learn from it so you can address certain things in your life because one of the
reasons I've made so many videos about Trisha Paytas is because I can relate to
her so so so much so I'm not gonna cover every single topic point by point in
this video but there was a few standout things that I wanted to discuss all
right so in this clip right here Trisha was talking about how Jason was kind of
invalidating her feelings and we can also call this gaslighting at the time
and even crying now ever if I would cry like this out you have cry like this I
wouldn't call Jason and he says stop stop with the fake tears you're
manipulating me it's like it's no there's actual need and all right gasps
whoa is a manipulation technique that people
will use this is most common in relationships but this can be with your
friends your family members or whatever and this is something that they will do
so when you're getting upset about something they will try to make you feel
as though you're crazy right like oh no no no this isn't a bad thing like you're
just overreacting you're being crazy and all these other things and I feel bad
because that's what was happening to Tricia like you guys your reality your
experience nobody can deny you that okay I don't care if it's your mom I don't
care if it's your dad I don't care if it's your boyfriend your girlfriend your
husband your wife your children the people who you know are the closest to
you in your life nobody can tell you what you should or should not be feeling
alright they cannot tell you that you are blowing things out of proportion and
actually let me correct myself on that because I'm just thinking about
sometimes I'll blow some shit out of proportions dang I need to bleep that
out but I blow stuff out of proportion but something that I will suggest for
any of you if you if you're in a relationship and somebody tells you that
you're blowing it out of proportion things like turn to your support group
turn to somebody else in your life all right
thankfully my beautiful girlfriend Tristan
she doesn't Gaslight me so if I feel like you know people are calling me out
for something I can turn to her and say am I crazy and I blow this out of
proportion is are my emotions disproportionate to the experience that
is happening right now right so let's say maybe I go to the grocery store and
I'm gonna you know like I have these little like jalapeno crispy things that
I like to put on the salads that I make and sometimes they're wrong like if I
started like flipping like tables at the grocery store and knocking things off
the shelves my emotions would be disproportionate to the situation that's
happening but Trisha Paytas talking about how Jason Nash was getting egged
on by david dobrik for a bit to talk about having a threesome with Tana mojo
I think Trisha Paytas is responsive that was very proportionate
to the situation that was happening so for jason nash to tell her that she was
acting crazy is not cool at all alright so if this is happening to you please be
aware of this talk to other people in support group and ask them what they
think about the situation okay now what I'm gonna do now is I'm gonna address it
see a witch Lee when I started making these YouTube videos I would always say
these videos aren't for the youtuber the videos are for you but my channels
growing and both you and I know at this point that Trisha Paytas sees my videos
I don't know if she's seeing this video but Trisha if you're watching this I'm
gonna give you some friendly advice so I'm unsolicited from the advice but
hey I know some comments are gonna say she didn't ask me good advice well too
bad sometimes the best advice you get is unsolicited advice
twisting gives me unsolicited advice all the time that saves my butt so Trisha
this is my unsolicited advice to you like clearly clearly you were like you
were justified in your emotions to make this video but I do think that you
shouldn't have made this video based on your emotions all right so my advice
would be to Trisha or anybody else especially youtubers out
there who is going who are going through this why not turn to your friends and
talk to them ask them if they think it's a good idea to make a video when you're
so emotional like if I was talking to Trisha if we were talking into a DM I'd
be like girl before you make this video how about you call Shane how about you
called Geoffrey how about you call and talk about that like shameless plug real
quick for my book rewire your anger I talk about the arc eventing right
because so many times we are very emotional and we think that you have to
do something we think we have to get something out there we think we have to
go after somebody but we don't we really just needed to talk to a friend and calm
down hell I'll use myself as an example my
Primack response video that I made the other day if I would have made that
video when I wanted to make it and had Tristan not told me not to that video
would have came out way different I wouldn't have been call
cool collected I wouldn't have had my facts straight I wouldn't have been able
to put it together as well as it was put together so I need people in my life to
say yo Chris you need to calm down to relax before you jump on YouTube and
make a video so Trisha if you're watching this like you can traverse the
past but if this happens again if something like this happens again I
would highly recommend that you turn to some of your closest friends like Shane
or Jeffery before hopping on camera and making such a highly emotional video
because a lot of us do things when were upset that we look back on and then we
were threatened if you watch David's blog which a lot of people have because
I get tweets and comments and texts about it there's this big joke he knows
I don't like so he pushes it he pushes it because he knows this gives like a
reaction from me you look like at the beginning it's like funny and then like
finally I like there was a vlog where I take all my clothes off at David's house
cuz I'm so pissed I'm just so pissed and I asked him I even say like it's not in
the video but I'm quiet I'm not gonna even add to this like if you guys want
to joke about it it's fine I'm not gonna add to this anymore like it
it hurts me but it also disgusts me and now the last thing that I want to talk
about is man like I feel I feel so bad for Trisha in this situation all right
so a lot of you know Trish's past in her history she is a sexual woman right like
you know she's done her thing she has her private patreon where you know she
does whatever and girl you do you boo like what a woman does with her body
I do not care all right but something that's always kind of bothered me about
david dobrik vlogs but like it's not my place to say anything but what's
bothered me is how he really sexualizes the women in his vlogs right and i know
they're young like wild and crazy guy like like Dom is that is that that one
dude name who's like sleeping with everybody yeah so like Dom he's like
sleeping with everybody left and right and whatever but like you know that's
his thing but you know I see the videos where the way like David talks to Tricia
or even sometime Jason does and like I said like maybe
this is just the relationship they have and they joke about this and Trish is
cool with it right but what we learned in this video is that Trisha isn't cool
with it you know what I mean and like it makes me wonder too if the other women
in his videos are cool with it and I'm not trying to play mr. white knight here
but like like we you know we have to be respectful and we have to like be
mindful of another person's boundaries like something that I've learned a long
time ago is that a person might joke about themselves but they might get
highly offended if I make the same joke about them right and sometimes it's
trial and error like I joke around a lot but sometimes I've made jokes and I
realized I'm like oh wait they're not cool with me joking about that right
like you see it a lot in the rooms like I learned this in 12-step programs where
like a person will make fun of their own you know war stories of them getting
drunk or high or whatever it is right they'll make fun of themselves but if
somebody else makes fun of them two selves that person for doing it that
person gets really offended right so it's kind of the same thing so I wonder
you know about these other women so like I am I'm not a woman but what my
suggestion would be ladies out there and even men if this is happening to you to
like set up boundaries set up boundaries and let that person know I am NOT okay
with this right like something that Trisha was very upset about was they you
know in the vlog squad it's always like do it for the vlog do it for the vlog do
it for the vlog and it's like I am NOT here to be your trained monkey and do
whatever you want me to do for the vlog sorry but that is not something that I'm
going to do right and if it gets to a point where that other person is not
respecting your boundaries I don't care if it's your friends I don't care if
it's your boyfriend I don't care if it's your girlfriend like you need to walk
away and say Sully like you are not respecting my boundaries in this
situation and that's why I'm out of here right so I don't know if whether or not
Trisha set up those boundaries or whatever but it seems to me total
speculation here it seems to me based on what she said in this it's been going on
for a while and they pressure her to doing it and that kind of stuff
really does break my heart because women as well as some men can get pressured
into doing these types of things that you know then we look back on it we feel
degraded and stuff like that like when when a woman does something with her
body whether it's like you know being a cam girl or whatever it is right like
they are in control of that situation you see what I mean but anyways that's
kind of my my you know take on this and I hope you guys all learn something from
this as well and Trisha if for some reason you see this video feel free to
reach out you got my name on Instagram and Twitter feel free to shoot me a DM
if there's anything you'd like to chat about with me if I can be there for you
or whatever but anyways if you guys can relate to anything in this video or
anything that Trish is going through let's have the conversation down in the
comments below all right anyways that's all I got for this video if you like
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